How to keep your kids safe on the Internet

It’s not practical to ban your kids from the online world, but it is possible to teach them more responsible habits.

By - February 13, 2016 Share on LinkedIn
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The Internet has become an essential tool for modern life, and it is a wonderful resource. But it is fraught with danger, especially for those who are vulnerable or innocent.

It’s not practical to completely ban your kids from the online world, but it is possible to teach them more responsible habits, and to teach yourself to be more vigilant with some basic approaches.

In the spirit of fostering a safer Internet for all, Google SA offers these tips and techniques to make sure the Internet becomes a valuable household resource, and not a hazard.


The first step is to open the lines of communication about online safety, the rules and expectations around online use, what sites are appropriate, or not, and the consequences if those rules are broken.

It’s important to make your children feel comfortable discussing these issues so that they will have no qualms about coming to you when they have questions or are unsure of how to handle situations online.


It may seem obvious, but the most effective course of action is to get involved. The younger your children are, the more strongly you will need to co-pilot their web use.

This might involve more than simply installing a parental control on your home browser. Think of it like this: You’re allowing your child into a public playground with all kinds of possibilities and threats – you wouldn’t let them out of your sight. The Internet is no different – you need to use technology together, and learn about it together.

Stay Up To Date

Many adults are not fully aware of what new devices and apps can do. If your children are old enough to own their own devices, it’s best to understand what’s installed on their phones or tablets, and of course, what they’re capable of.

Most modern gaming consoles also connect to the web, and allow for direct communication with apps like Skype and other direct communication services.

Safe Browsing

The Internet has a number of protocols that can help you child-proof your home computer and its access to less desirable parts of the web.

Set up secure passwords for your family, and remind children not to give them out to anyone.

Ensure they are in the habit of signing out of online accounts if they use them outside home – at school or the library, for example.


Instilling responsible net conduct is really the first prize. Kids need to know from an early age exactly what kinds of information should never be revealed.

Names, addresses, details of family and friends, and so on are the kinds of things that predators feed on. The “stranger danger” approach of old applies to the web more than ever.

Get to know the privacy settings on sites you and your children use, and make use of these to decide who can see content before you post it.

Talk about what should or shouldn’t be shared on social media sites – once your children are old enough to use these, some sites have age restrictions.


Encourage responsible online communication by teaching your children that if they wouldn’t say it to someone’s face, they shouldn’t say it online, over instant message or on text.

You also need to guide your child on what to do if they feel uncomfortable with an interaction or experience on the web.

Cyberbullying, for example, has become a serious issue around the world, and may have legal implications.

Assuring your child that they can tell you when something feels wrong is important. You may need to report actions to your child’s school if the incident involves peers, or in extreme cases to the police.

In general, maintaining an open line of communication and being aware of where your children are – even online – is key to ensuring safe and responsible net citizenry.

Stay active and involved – technology is evolving, and so is they way we use it, so it’s important to stay up to date and to review and revise your ground rules as you go, and as your children grow.

Guidelines provided by Google South Africa.

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