Lino
09-03-2008, 08:56 PM
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duderoo
09-03-2008, 08:58 PM
Well I guess the title pretty much says it all. To answer yes I am, been so since I broke up a couple of months ago.
I guess I am getting tired of being single, sure had the odd fling or to (two) since the breakup but really:eek:
Just saw this.:)
I guess I am getting tired of being single, sure had the odd fling or to (two) since the breakup but really:eek:
Just saw this.:)
Messugga
09-03-2008, 09:00 PM
duderoo, you're single as well, aren't you? :p I've been with my girlfriend for almost two years now and it's still going strong
supersunbird
09-03-2008, 09:11 PM
Im single, been no where close to a relationship since forever. Havent been in love for 3 years at least...
jsheed_sa
09-03-2008, 09:13 PM
Im single as of today , broke up with my gf yesterday, going to enjoy the freedom a bit.
J
J
duderoo
09-03-2008, 09:13 PM
duderoo, you're single as well, aren't you? :p I've been with my girlfriend for almost two years now and it's still going strong
No...married.
No...married.
supersunbird
09-03-2008, 09:16 PM
Im single as of today , broke up with my gf yesterday, going to enjoy the freedom a bit.
J
Whats her nr? :p
J
Whats her nr? :p
acidrain
09-03-2008, 09:18 PM
Single = Yes
Looking = Definitely ;)
Looking = Definitely ;)
Piepalook
09-03-2008, 09:18 PM
Well I guess the title pretty much says it all. To answer yes I am, been so since I broke up a couple of months ago.
I guess I am getting tired of being single, sure had the odd fling or two since the breakup but really, I guess I feel like having a relationship again. Am I the only person who feels like this:eek:
Be carefull of what you wish for,you might just get it.
I have a theory of why men marry:
In your home your mother always used to nag at you to make your bed,do your homework,wash the dishes ,pick up your clothes etc.
Then you grow up and leave your home........
Bliss........................
Then it gets lonely............................
You miss the nagging................
You take a wife.................
Bliss.........
The nagging starts.................
You get lonely....................LOL!:D
I guess I am getting tired of being single, sure had the odd fling or two since the breakup but really, I guess I feel like having a relationship again. Am I the only person who feels like this:eek:
Be carefull of what you wish for,you might just get it.
I have a theory of why men marry:
In your home your mother always used to nag at you to make your bed,do your homework,wash the dishes ,pick up your clothes etc.
Then you grow up and leave your home........
Bliss........................
Then it gets lonely............................
You miss the nagging................
You take a wife.................
Bliss.........
The nagging starts.................
You get lonely....................LOL!:D
hj2k_x
09-03-2008, 09:25 PM
We need a poll for this one :)
Highflyer_GP
09-03-2008, 09:27 PM
Are we defining single as not married/engaged/committed, or as having a few GFs/FBs but not committed to any of them?
Lino
09-03-2008, 09:36 PM
We are defining single as not having anyone.. No wife, no girl-friend etc
Highflyer_GP
09-03-2008, 09:40 PM
We are defining single as not having anyone.. No wife, no girl-friend etc
Rock <--- me ---> hard place :(
But yeah we all go through the single phase, it's ok in the beginning but it sucks if it drags on for too long.
Rock <--- me ---> hard place :(
But yeah we all go through the single phase, it's ok in the beginning but it sucks if it drags on for too long.
Lino
09-03-2008, 09:45 PM
Rock <--- me ---> hard place :(
But yeah we all go through the single phase, it's ok in the beginning but it sucks if it drags on for too long.
That's exactly how I am feeling now. I think what set it off is that my ex found someone before I did. Also I met my replacement on friday night for the first time:confused:
But yeah we all go through the single phase, it's ok in the beginning but it sucks if it drags on for too long.
That's exactly how I am feeling now. I think what set it off is that my ex found someone before I did. Also I met my replacement on friday night for the first time:confused:
Velenoso
09-03-2008, 09:54 PM
In a serious relationship. Loving it, she's my everything. We moved in together beginning of January and it's been great.
supersunbird
09-03-2008, 09:55 PM
I dont know if I will ever be not single...
Lino
09-03-2008, 10:00 PM
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blunomore
09-03-2008, 10:03 PM
In a committed relationship for 4 and a half years now. It's nice to have someone that can be your "soft place to fall" . . .
gdiza
09-03-2008, 10:06 PM
I am as of Friday.
Lino
09-03-2008, 10:07 PM
Sorry to hear that bro
Highflyer_GP
09-03-2008, 10:12 PM
That's exactly how I am feeling now. I think what set it off is that my ex found someone before I did. Also I met my replacement on friday night for the first time:confused:
My problem is that I don't really have a choice, it's one of the downfalls of working Mon-Sat 50+ hour weeks. I don't have a problem meeting women, it's that just I won't be able to maintain anything serious so I can only really afford flings right now.
My problem is that I don't really have a choice, it's one of the downfalls of working Mon-Sat 50+ hour weeks. I don't have a problem meeting women, it's that just I won't be able to maintain anything serious so I can only really afford flings right now.
Alan
09-03-2008, 10:14 PM
My problem is that I don't really have a choice, it's one of the downfalls of working Mon-Sat 50+ hour weeks. I don't have a problem meeting women, it's that just I won't be able to maintain anything serious so I can only really afford flings right now.
What exactly do you do? If you don't mind me asking
What exactly do you do? If you don't mind me asking
Highflyer_GP
09-03-2008, 10:18 PM
What exactly do you do? If you don't mind me asking
One of the on-site engineering consultants at a vehicle assembly plant (can't say which manufacturer :D).
One of the on-site engineering consultants at a vehicle assembly plant (can't say which manufacturer :D).
Lino
09-03-2008, 10:19 PM
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Tyson
09-03-2008, 10:24 PM
I dont know if I will ever be not single...
Since leaving school I had a lot of long relationships , but im not really interested in finding a partner I kinda enjoy being alone like a Hermit. If I really need to see a women I usually go to a good friend from school days.
Supersunbird you sound like a shy guy , You seem to fear rejection?
Since leaving school I had a lot of long relationships , but im not really interested in finding a partner I kinda enjoy being alone like a Hermit. If I really need to see a women I usually go to a good friend from school days.
Supersunbird you sound like a shy guy , You seem to fear rejection?
scotty777
10-03-2008, 06:53 AM
well.... I'm not "single" per se... but i'm not "dating" anyone, just got a lot open doors which I frequently walk through if you catch my drift :D
oober
10-03-2008, 07:01 AM
Yes, for 25 years now. :sick:
And one does not get any younger. I think my standards are bit too high. :D
And I also like the freedom.
And one does not get any younger. I think my standards are bit too high. :D
And I also like the freedom.
Robin Hood
10-03-2008, 07:18 AM
Same here. Single as hell for 17 years now ( geez its long ). Prob is, i don't worry about woman anymore. Spoke 2 a budy of mine the other day and asked him if there's something wrong with me...he couldnt give me an answer? Im NOT gay, and also
dont worry about woman...Only time i realise there is a thing called "Woman" is when i chat 2 them. Is this normal? :confused:
PS: I have 2 admit im into computers 24/7...maby it's this?
dont worry about woman...Only time i realise there is a thing called "Woman" is when i chat 2 them. Is this normal? :confused:
PS: I have 2 admit im into computers 24/7...maby it's this?
Kasyx
10-03-2008, 07:23 AM
I've been with my girlfriend for three years and some change.
Killove
10-03-2008, 07:34 AM
going on 10 months, but was in a 5 year relationship before that.
i prefer having a partner, someone to share your life with..
i prefer having a partner, someone to share your life with..
Gothan
10-03-2008, 07:41 AM
Met me wife in 96, got married in 2002.
Thank the heavens she took pity on me, I am an ugly f##$%@, and would have died single
Thank the heavens she took pity on me, I am an ugly f##$%@, and would have died single
supersunbird
10-03-2008, 07:42 AM
Supersunbird you sound like a shy guy , You seem to fear rejection?
I was a shy guy once upon a time, but not anymore.
But I am not anymore, but girls dont ever show any interest in me when I approach them so I dont really bother much with them anymore.
I was a shy guy once upon a time, but not anymore.
But I am not anymore, but girls dont ever show any interest in me when I approach them so I dont really bother much with them anymore.
Jonny Two Shoes
10-03-2008, 07:48 AM
Was in a relationship for over a year, broke up, then found another girlfriend about a month after that. Now in a relationship for nearly 3 months and going strong.
Only downside of a relationship for me is there is no more freedom. I'm the type of guy who needs to do things alone, like figure out how to do things better, sit quitely and plan, study(part time MCSE), practice guitar, practice martial arts, explore my personal ideas etc... since I have my girlfriend I'm hardly at home so there goes most of that.
But I like my current girlfriend so it's not all bad.
Only downside of a relationship for me is there is no more freedom. I'm the type of guy who needs to do things alone, like figure out how to do things better, sit quitely and plan, study(part time MCSE), practice guitar, practice martial arts, explore my personal ideas etc... since I have my girlfriend I'm hardly at home so there goes most of that.
But I like my current girlfriend so it's not all bad.
supersunbird
10-03-2008, 07:51 AM
Same here. Single as hell for 17 years now ( geez its long ). Prob is, i don't worry about woman anymore. Spoke 2 a budy of mine the other day and asked him if there's something wrong with me...he couldnt give me an answer? Im NOT gay, and also
dont worry about woman...Only time i realise there is a thing called "Woman" is when i chat 2 them. Is this normal? :confused:
PS: I have 2 admit im into computers 24/7...maby it's this?
Sounds like me almost...
dont worry about woman...Only time i realise there is a thing called "Woman" is when i chat 2 them. Is this normal? :confused:
PS: I have 2 admit im into computers 24/7...maby it's this?
Sounds like me almost...
bwana
10-03-2008, 08:03 AM
Was in a relationship for over a year, broke up, then found another girlfriend about a month after that. Now in a relationship for nearly 3 months and going strong.
Only downside of a relationship for me is there is no more freedom. I'm the type of guy who needs to do things alone, like figure out how to do things better, sit quitely and plan, study(part time MCSE), practice guitar, practice martial arts, explore my personal ideas etc... since I have my girlfriend I'm hardly at home so there goes most of that.
But I like my current girlfriend so it's not all bad.Being in a relationship shouldn't mean giving up all your freedom.
Only downside of a relationship for me is there is no more freedom. I'm the type of guy who needs to do things alone, like figure out how to do things better, sit quitely and plan, study(part time MCSE), practice guitar, practice martial arts, explore my personal ideas etc... since I have my girlfriend I'm hardly at home so there goes most of that.
But I like my current girlfriend so it's not all bad.Being in a relationship shouldn't mean giving up all your freedom.
oober
10-03-2008, 08:12 AM
Same here. Single as hell for 17 years now ( geez its long ). Prob is, i don't worry about woman anymore. Spoke 2 a budy of mine the other day and asked him if there's something wrong with me...he couldnt give me an answer? Im NOT gay, and also
dont worry about woman...Only time i realise there is a thing called "Woman" is when i chat 2 them. Is this normal? :confused:
PS: I have 2 admit im into computers 24/7...maby it's this?
I think my problem is that I don't really bother to try and fit in with society.
I don't like going out to clubs and I'm not really interested in the type of people who hangs around them. I know I'm generalizing and not all people are like that, but that is how I feel.
I'm 25 now and have been single for my whole life. :rolleyes:
Maybe I'll meet the right person who knows?
I must say I don't miss anything I just feel lonely sometimes. And this loneliness makes you wonder then...
dont worry about woman...Only time i realise there is a thing called "Woman" is when i chat 2 them. Is this normal? :confused:
PS: I have 2 admit im into computers 24/7...maby it's this?
I think my problem is that I don't really bother to try and fit in with society.
I don't like going out to clubs and I'm not really interested in the type of people who hangs around them. I know I'm generalizing and not all people are like that, but that is how I feel.
I'm 25 now and have been single for my whole life. :rolleyes:
Maybe I'll meet the right person who knows?
I must say I don't miss anything I just feel lonely sometimes. And this loneliness makes you wonder then...
Fuma
10-03-2008, 08:16 AM
Single as a horse.
I personally enjoy being single - coz I personally hate being followed every where I go.
I personally enjoy being single - coz I personally hate being followed every where I go.
ld13
10-03-2008, 08:25 AM
Single = Yes
Looking = Definitely ;)
Ditto
You stay away from the ones I have my eye on you hear!
Yes, for 25 years now. :sick:
Same here. Single as hell for 17 years now ( geez its long ).
PS: I have 2 admit im into computers 24/7...maby it's this?
Also into computers 24/7 - also single. What a surprise...
I don't like going out to clubs and I'm not really interested in the type of people who hangs around them. I know I'm generalizing and not all people are like that, but that is how I feel.
I also don't do the whole clubbing thing. Don't like it at all.
I'm 25 now and have been single for my whole life. :rolleyes:
Maybe I'll meet the right person who knows?
I must say I don't miss anything I just feel lonely sometimes. And this loneliness makes you wonder then...
I had a minor fling in high school in 2003. Been single since then. Experience == Low in other words. I kinda feel its this thats not exactly helping. Holding me back. But we don't know what the future holds for us though . . . :)
Looking = Definitely ;)
Ditto
You stay away from the ones I have my eye on you hear!
Yes, for 25 years now. :sick:
Same here. Single as hell for 17 years now ( geez its long ).
PS: I have 2 admit im into computers 24/7...maby it's this?
Also into computers 24/7 - also single. What a surprise...
I don't like going out to clubs and I'm not really interested in the type of people who hangs around them. I know I'm generalizing and not all people are like that, but that is how I feel.
I also don't do the whole clubbing thing. Don't like it at all.
I'm 25 now and have been single for my whole life. :rolleyes:
Maybe I'll meet the right person who knows?
I must say I don't miss anything I just feel lonely sometimes. And this loneliness makes you wonder then...
I had a minor fling in high school in 2003. Been single since then. Experience == Low in other words. I kinda feel its this thats not exactly helping. Holding me back. But we don't know what the future holds for us though . . . :)
Jonny Two Shoes
10-03-2008, 08:33 AM
Being in a relationship shouldn't mean giving up all your freedom.
To me it seems if she had a choice she would want me with her 24/7. Not that I'm complaining lol :rolleyes: I will just maybe have to draw a line somewhere and keep a balance but I am working on it :p
To me it seems if she had a choice she would want me with her 24/7. Not that I'm complaining lol :rolleyes: I will just maybe have to draw a line somewhere and keep a balance but I am working on it :p
gdiza
10-03-2008, 08:34 AM
Sorry to hear that bro
Nah, it worked out great, on sunday, during the argus, whenever i saw a medic or paramedic, i got so angry/sad (because shes a doctor) that I used it to sprint past them, thus, helping me to get a better time ;) haha.
Nah, it worked out great, on sunday, during the argus, whenever i saw a medic or paramedic, i got so angry/sad (because shes a doctor) that I used it to sprint past them, thus, helping me to get a better time ;) haha.
Lino
10-03-2008, 08:43 AM
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CathJ
10-03-2008, 09:15 AM
Yup, like some others have said - I'm single, wouldn't mind meeting my soul mate, but don't think it's going to happen. I'm not into clubbing or anything, which makes it difficult to meet people. And I've been single for a while, and by now I'm used to doing things my own way.
mercurial
10-03-2008, 09:35 AM
Funnily enough, I wanted to start a thread like this last week. Been single since forever. Problem is I don't go out much, so I generally don't meet women. Don't like clubbing either. Love the freedom, but the loneliness does tend to kick in...then you start over-analysing things and start making assumptions. Days can be tough.
oober
10-03-2008, 09:38 AM
Funnily enough, I wanted to start a thread like this last week. Been single since forever. Problem is I don't go out much, so I generally don't meet women. Don't like clubbing either. Love the freedom, but the loneliness does tend to kick in...then you start over-analysing things and start making assumptions. Days can be tough.
Yeap for me this happens on Sundays. :(
Yeap for me this happens on Sundays. :(
Bondizzo
10-03-2008, 09:41 AM
Funnily enough, I wanted to start a thread like this last week. Been single since forever. Problem is I don't go out much, so I generally don't meet women. Don't like clubbing either. Love the freedom, but the loneliness does tend to kick in...then you start over-analysing things and start making assumptions. Days can be tough.
either way you have to start going out more, women generally wont come to you.... unless you have lots of money
either way you have to start going out more, women generally wont come to you.... unless you have lots of money
CathJ
10-03-2008, 09:42 AM
Funnily enough, I wanted to start a thread like this last week. Been single since forever. Problem is I don't go out much, so I generally don't meet women. Don't like clubbing either. Love the freedom, but the loneliness does tend to kick in...then you start over-analysing things and start making assumptions. Days can be tough.
Nights are even tougher :(
Nights are even tougher :(
Dolby
10-03-2008, 09:42 AM
either way you have to start going out more, women generally wont come to you.... unless you have lots of money
And in that case, you don't want them ...
And in that case, you don't want them ...
mercurial
10-03-2008, 09:46 AM
Well I don't even know where to meet single women anymore. It seems everyone is always hooked up. Then what's the sense I go out?
CathJ
10-03-2008, 09:49 AM
Well I don't even know where to meet single women anymore. It seems everyone is always hooked up. Then what's the sense I go out?
Yup... where should I go to meet decent guys? Or maybe I should ask, where do decent guys go to meet women, so that I can be met :p
Yup... where should I go to meet decent guys? Or maybe I should ask, where do decent guys go to meet women, so that I can be met :p
J_S
10-03-2008, 09:49 AM
I'm 25 now and have been single for my whole life. :rolleyes:
Maybe I'll meet the right person who knows?
I must say I don't miss anything I just feel lonely sometimes. And this loneliness makes you wonder then...
Pretty much the same here. Been single pretty much my whole life aswell
Did meet the one person who i though was definitely the one. and typical me had to pick someone from overseas :o
Being the very shy type and involved with computers 24-7 aswell doesnt help much.
Im ok with it, just well you get those times when you just get lonely...
Maybe I'll meet the right person who knows?
I must say I don't miss anything I just feel lonely sometimes. And this loneliness makes you wonder then...
Pretty much the same here. Been single pretty much my whole life aswell
Did meet the one person who i though was definitely the one. and typical me had to pick someone from overseas :o
Being the very shy type and involved with computers 24-7 aswell doesnt help much.
Im ok with it, just well you get those times when you just get lonely...
Lino
10-03-2008, 09:50 AM
Either way only way is to go out and meet people. Its very sad that there are lonely people considering there a millions of people on this planet.
gdiza
10-03-2008, 09:51 AM
There are so many single woman / guys out there - you guys must just look - wait, you must just try harder.
Since many of you are perm on the internet, why not try the following sites:
www.gumtree.co.za (try the DBN / JHB one for your areas, www.gumtree.co.za is the CPT one)
www.faceparty.com (lots of single south african guys and gurls on there)
I got dumped on Friday and I'm already looking again, don't see why I should waste away when I have so much to offer someone who wants me (unlike my ex!)
Since many of you are perm on the internet, why not try the following sites:
www.gumtree.co.za (try the DBN / JHB one for your areas, www.gumtree.co.za is the CPT one)
www.faceparty.com (lots of single south african guys and gurls on there)
I got dumped on Friday and I'm already looking again, don't see why I should waste away when I have so much to offer someone who wants me (unlike my ex!)
mercurial
10-03-2008, 09:56 AM
Yup... where should I go to meet decent guys? Or maybe I should ask, where do decent guys go to meet women, so that I can be met :p
And then thing that always gets to me is that there are people who are constantly jumping from one relationship to another, yet I'd be happy just to be in one.
There are so many single woman / guys out there - you guys must just look - wait, you must just try harder.
Since many of you are perm on the internet, why not try the following sites:
www.gumtree.co.za (try the DBN / JHB one for your areas, www.gumtree.co.za is the CPT one)
www.faceparty.com (lots of single south african guys and gurls on there)
I got dumped on Friday and I'm already looking again, don't see why I should waste away when I have so much to offer someone who wants me (unlike my ex!)
With all due respect, this online dating thing works out nicely for 1 in every 100 people. It's almost a total waste of time IMO.
And then thing that always gets to me is that there are people who are constantly jumping from one relationship to another, yet I'd be happy just to be in one.
There are so many single woman / guys out there - you guys must just look - wait, you must just try harder.
Since many of you are perm on the internet, why not try the following sites:
www.gumtree.co.za (try the DBN / JHB one for your areas, www.gumtree.co.za is the CPT one)
www.faceparty.com (lots of single south african guys and gurls on there)
I got dumped on Friday and I'm already looking again, don't see why I should waste away when I have so much to offer someone who wants me (unlike my ex!)
With all due respect, this online dating thing works out nicely for 1 in every 100 people. It's almost a total waste of time IMO.
Lino
10-03-2008, 09:58 AM
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gdiza
10-03-2008, 10:03 AM
Wow I gotta say you moving on quickly, it took me about 2 months before I would even look at another chick. In total prolly took me about 9 months to get over my ex. (Ok granted she was my first love)
Well, suffice to say, the relationship ending was NOT my fault, it was hers.
I'm capable of moving on and I want too. (if it was my fault, i'd be sulking, begging for another chance, etc etc etc)
As for internet dating, it's not a waste of time, I've met alot of people via both those sites, granted, there are alot of strange ppl online (as we all know *glares at BOODLES*) but when u filter our those people, I think outta the 100 ppl i've met, 90 were decent.
Try it... post a nice ad, and see what replies come in.
It's like the lotto, you won't win unless you play it, same thing applies here.
I posted the 2 links because they've worked great for me in the past.
When I go out clubbing, I met alot of girls, using online dating, I get to be a bit more specific as too what I want etc.
Well, suffice to say, the relationship ending was NOT my fault, it was hers.
I'm capable of moving on and I want too. (if it was my fault, i'd be sulking, begging for another chance, etc etc etc)
As for internet dating, it's not a waste of time, I've met alot of people via both those sites, granted, there are alot of strange ppl online (as we all know *glares at BOODLES*) but when u filter our those people, I think outta the 100 ppl i've met, 90 were decent.
Try it... post a nice ad, and see what replies come in.
It's like the lotto, you won't win unless you play it, same thing applies here.
I posted the 2 links because they've worked great for me in the past.
When I go out clubbing, I met alot of girls, using online dating, I get to be a bit more specific as too what I want etc.
dablakmark8
10-03-2008, 10:03 AM
yes i am single..and no i dont need a relationship but..... i am short light and ugly and not endowed..lol
mercurial
10-03-2008, 10:05 AM
Well, suffice to say, the relationship ending was NOT my fault, it was hers.
I'm capable of moving on and I want too. (if it was my fault, i'd be sulking, begging for another chance, etc etc etc)
As for internet dating, it's not a waste of time, I've met alot of people via both those sites, granted, there are alot of strange ppl online (as we all know *glares at BOODLES*) but when u filter our those people, I think outta the 100 ppl i've met, 90 were decent.
Try it... post a nice ad, and see what replies come in.
It's like the lotto, you won't win unless you play it, same thing applies here.
I posted the 2 links because they've worked great for me in the past.
When I go out clubbing, I met alot of girls, using online dating, I get to be a bit more specific as too what I want etc.
While online dating seems a more comfortable alternative in this century, I prefer to meet people the old fashioned way.
I'm capable of moving on and I want too. (if it was my fault, i'd be sulking, begging for another chance, etc etc etc)
As for internet dating, it's not a waste of time, I've met alot of people via both those sites, granted, there are alot of strange ppl online (as we all know *glares at BOODLES*) but when u filter our those people, I think outta the 100 ppl i've met, 90 were decent.
Try it... post a nice ad, and see what replies come in.
It's like the lotto, you won't win unless you play it, same thing applies here.
I posted the 2 links because they've worked great for me in the past.
When I go out clubbing, I met alot of girls, using online dating, I get to be a bit more specific as too what I want etc.
While online dating seems a more comfortable alternative in this century, I prefer to meet people the old fashioned way.
Killove
10-03-2008, 10:06 AM
meeting a girl is easy, takes 10 minutes at a club. meeting the *right* girl on the other hand can take a lifetime.
ive had countless hookups at clubs, or through friends or anywhere, but have only felt something real twice.
going out and whoring yourself (like i used to do) doesnt solve anything. it actually made me feel dirty, and im a guy.
ive had countless hookups at clubs, or through friends or anywhere, but have only felt something real twice.
going out and whoring yourself (like i used to do) doesnt solve anything. it actually made me feel dirty, and im a guy.
gdiza
10-03-2008, 10:07 AM
While online dating seems a more comfortable alternative in this century, I prefer to meet people the old fashioned way.
Agreed, but if you can do both ;) Why the hell not ;)
Agreed, but if you can do both ;) Why the hell not ;)
Lino
10-03-2008, 10:07 AM
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gdiza
10-03-2008, 10:08 AM
going out and whoring yourself (like i used to do) doesnt solve anything. it actually made me feel dirty, and im a guy.
Same :)
But I've met some really decent girls at clubs, those that drink but don't drink to much, those who don't dress like sluts but dress really nice etc.
Same :)
But I've met some really decent girls at clubs, those that drink but don't drink to much, those who don't dress like sluts but dress really nice etc.
The Cosmos
10-03-2008, 10:11 AM
Well I guess the title pretty much says it all. To answer yes I am, been so since I broke up a couple of months ago.
I guess I am getting tired of being single, sure had the odd fling or two since the breakup but really, I guess I feel like having a relationship again. Am I the only person who feels like this:eek:
I've been single my whole life, with flings here and there.
It's not fun....
:sick:
I guess I am getting tired of being single, sure had the odd fling or two since the breakup but really, I guess I feel like having a relationship again. Am I the only person who feels like this:eek:
I've been single my whole life, with flings here and there.
It's not fun....
:sick:
Killove
10-03-2008, 10:11 AM
Glad to hear you moving on man:D.. In my relationship it ended cause she apparently fell out of love with me.. Ok I'll stop, enough with me being emo:D.
Yeah I am first gonna try this blind date thing (or rather one eyed date) I have coming up in about 2 weeks or so. Will let ya know how it goes
I went on a blind date once and the girl was squint ..
I suggest some recon before going.
haha, i remember, I was dating a girl while in durban 2 years ago..
she was a bomb, and she asked if i had a friend that we could double date with. so i called my one friend and asked him to come along, which he was very hesitant to do. and I know him, he is just as superficial as me. So eventually i arrive at gateway, see my girl, and the wildebeest standing next to her.
I immediately smsd my friend the this exact message "im sorry."
He replied with "???" but he knew what I meant once he got there.
blind dates are dodge. never again!
Yeah I am first gonna try this blind date thing (or rather one eyed date) I have coming up in about 2 weeks or so. Will let ya know how it goes
I went on a blind date once and the girl was squint ..
I suggest some recon before going.
haha, i remember, I was dating a girl while in durban 2 years ago..
she was a bomb, and she asked if i had a friend that we could double date with. so i called my one friend and asked him to come along, which he was very hesitant to do. and I know him, he is just as superficial as me. So eventually i arrive at gateway, see my girl, and the wildebeest standing next to her.
I immediately smsd my friend the this exact message "im sorry."
He replied with "???" but he knew what I meant once he got there.
blind dates are dodge. never again!
mercurial
10-03-2008, 10:14 AM
blind dates are dodge. never again!
Especially the ones that sound so lovely over the phone.
Especially the ones that sound so lovely over the phone.
The Cosmos
10-03-2008, 10:16 AM
going out and whoring yourself (like i used to do) doesnt solve anything. it actually made me feel dirty, and im a guy.
that just sounds so wrong ! :D
that just sounds so wrong ! :D
gdiza
10-03-2008, 10:17 AM
Pictures!!!!!!!!!!!!! haha.
I have had a bad one myself, now I demand a picture and I'm not shy about it either.
However, even the bad one was okay, because she was a great person, we got along like a house on fire... we still friends now.
I have had a bad one myself, now I demand a picture and I'm not shy about it either.
However, even the bad one was okay, because she was a great person, we got along like a house on fire... we still friends now.
Killove
10-03-2008, 10:17 AM
Especially the ones that sound so lovely over the phone.
haha that is so true. a girl once phoned me out of the blue saying shes seen me at clubs and got my number god knows where..
we were talking and i asked what she looked like and she said a lot of people say she looks like giselle bundchen (however you spell.)
I met her, and she looks like a troll (remember those toys with the hair that smelled nice?) who had a sex change.
haha that is so true. a girl once phoned me out of the blue saying shes seen me at clubs and got my number god knows where..
we were talking and i asked what she looked like and she said a lot of people say she looks like giselle bundchen (however you spell.)
I met her, and she looks like a troll (remember those toys with the hair that smelled nice?) who had a sex change.
Lino
10-03-2008, 10:17 AM
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mercurial
10-03-2008, 10:19 AM
haha that is so true. a girl once phoned me out of the blue saying shes seen me at clubs and got my number god knows where..
we were talking and i asked what she looked like and she said a lot of people say she looks like giselle bundchen (however you spell.)
I met her, and she looks like a troll (remember those toys with the hair that smelled nice?) who had a sex change.
rofl
we were talking and i asked what she looked like and she said a lot of people say she looks like giselle bundchen (however you spell.)
I met her, and she looks like a troll (remember those toys with the hair that smelled nice?) who had a sex change.
rofl
Killove
10-03-2008, 10:20 AM
LOL @ Wildebeest:p
Well this girl who I am planning to meet. I know a) she is younger than me
b) She is very keen to meet
I got her number from a friend who was thinking about meeting her, although her and I have been talking on mxit. She seems nice, but what do I do if I find out on the day of the meet that
a) She is a 50 year old
b) She is 15 years old
the correct thing to do is just stick it out and act friendly the whole time, you don't want to hurt her feelings.
If she is 50 - ask if she's rich
If she's 15 - ask when her birthday is
:D
Well this girl who I am planning to meet. I know a) she is younger than me
b) She is very keen to meet
I got her number from a friend who was thinking about meeting her, although her and I have been talking on mxit. She seems nice, but what do I do if I find out on the day of the meet that
a) She is a 50 year old
b) She is 15 years old
the correct thing to do is just stick it out and act friendly the whole time, you don't want to hurt her feelings.
If she is 50 - ask if she's rich
If she's 15 - ask when her birthday is
:D
gdiza
10-03-2008, 10:21 AM
I met her, and she looks like a troll (remember those toys with the hair that smelled nice?) who had a sex change.
HAHAHAHA!!!!
HAHAHAHA!!!!
mercurial
10-03-2008, 10:22 AM
If she is 50 - ask if she's rich
If she's 15 - ask when her birthday is
:D
roflol
If she's 15 - ask when her birthday is
:D
roflol
Jonny Two Shoes
10-03-2008, 10:34 AM
I reckon it's actually easy to find a partner. I was also in the same boat saying it's not so easy and everyone is always hooked up etc....
Now I actually don't care what happens and with that attitude I seem to hook up more :/
You go through your first big break up and suddenly you know that there is more to it than that, if a girl wants me for who I am then fine, if not then I couldn't care less. Since then I'm not shy, do whatever I want, join in the party more, talk to girls more openly without worry etc... hell the last party I was at I could tell from the body language from at least two girls that I could of had them without trying much.
I am a loyal guy though, will never cheat on my Girlfriend. :)
If you are struggling to meet someone you just have to try a little more I guess. Become more social, for instance even if someone you don't know all that well invites you to a party..just go. I went to that party not knowing a single person and knowing I would be alone...yet I joined in the party and had more fun than I have for a long time.
Oh and rejection...it will always happen, so it means little if a girl rejects you. It's useless being scared of rejection.
Now I actually don't care what happens and with that attitude I seem to hook up more :/
You go through your first big break up and suddenly you know that there is more to it than that, if a girl wants me for who I am then fine, if not then I couldn't care less. Since then I'm not shy, do whatever I want, join in the party more, talk to girls more openly without worry etc... hell the last party I was at I could tell from the body language from at least two girls that I could of had them without trying much.
I am a loyal guy though, will never cheat on my Girlfriend. :)
If you are struggling to meet someone you just have to try a little more I guess. Become more social, for instance even if someone you don't know all that well invites you to a party..just go. I went to that party not knowing a single person and knowing I would be alone...yet I joined in the party and had more fun than I have for a long time.
Oh and rejection...it will always happen, so it means little if a girl rejects you. It's useless being scared of rejection.
mercurial
10-03-2008, 10:37 AM
Now I actually don't care what happens and with that attitude I seem to hook up more :/
Another misleading cliche IMO. Tried that too, never worked.
Another misleading cliche IMO. Tried that too, never worked.
iDenTiTy
10-03-2008, 10:39 AM
LOL @ Wildebeest:p
Well this girl who I am planning to meet. I know a) she is younger than me
b) She is very keen to meet
I got her number from a friend who was thinking about meeting her, although her and I have been talking on mxit. She seems nice, but what do I do if I find out on the day of the meet that
a) She is a 50 year old
b) She is 15 years old
or c) It's a 50 year old guy!
Well this girl who I am planning to meet. I know a) she is younger than me
b) She is very keen to meet
I got her number from a friend who was thinking about meeting her, although her and I have been talking on mxit. She seems nice, but what do I do if I find out on the day of the meet that
a) She is a 50 year old
b) She is 15 years old
or c) It's a 50 year old guy!
Surv0
10-03-2008, 10:41 AM
Positive Energy... If you feel like you cant land a bird, or your too ugly, or watever, then you are going to have a problem finding a GF, purely because what you believe you act out...
Stop being insecure, believe u can do and have any girl and be happy with yourself... watch things change quickly...
Things happen around you according to how you feel about yourself...
Stop being insecure, believe u can do and have any girl and be happy with yourself... watch things change quickly...
Things happen around you according to how you feel about yourself...
Lino
10-03-2008, 10:41 AM
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Killove
10-03-2008, 10:42 AM
Another misleading cliche IMO. Tried that too, never worked.
Thats because you're doing it wrong ;)
You can't try to not care, not caring doesnt involve any 'trying'
It just a simple realisation that you'd rather be alone than with someone who doesn't deserve you.
Once you've accepted that that other people would be lucky to be with you, you're on the right road.
Don't sell yourself short, and never settle for second best.
In your reality, you should be a god.
Thats because you're doing it wrong ;)
You can't try to not care, not caring doesnt involve any 'trying'
It just a simple realisation that you'd rather be alone than with someone who doesn't deserve you.
Once you've accepted that that other people would be lucky to be with you, you're on the right road.
Don't sell yourself short, and never settle for second best.
In your reality, you should be a god.
ld13
10-03-2008, 10:46 AM
Ha if that happens...
*This just in* 50 Year old guy assaulted by a youngster. Reason for the assault the 50 year old is a lying, two faced pig... The youngster who's now beating up his friend who arranged the blind date could not be reached for further comment.
ROFLOL :D
*This just in* 50 Year old guy assaulted by a youngster. Reason for the assault the 50 year old is a lying, two faced pig... The youngster who's now beating up his friend who arranged the blind date could not be reached for further comment.
ROFLOL :D
Maelly
10-03-2008, 10:46 AM
Am currently in a 5 year relationship (we celebrated our 5 years anniversary on the 5th of this month). I must admit that it's not easy, I cant remember how many times we broke up (though not more than 48hrs). We really compliment one another and we try to meet each other half way. I just cant imagine being single. But what matters most here is that we adore one another dearly! I just need to pop the question (but Im scared cause things tend to change after pple tie the knot). Wifey (I started calling her wifey after 2yrs of dating) has been asking me when am I gonna pop the question since 2006! She even gave me her aunt's wedding band in the same year. I gave it back after we had one of our many 24hrs break up!
But I love being in a relationship, I love doing stuff with her, shopping, cooking, cleaning, studying, watching TV, going to stadiums (soccer, cricket), man I love being in a relationship!
But I love being in a relationship, I love doing stuff with her, shopping, cooking, cleaning, studying, watching TV, going to stadiums (soccer, cricket), man I love being in a relationship!
Jonny Two Shoes
10-03-2008, 10:49 AM
Another misleading cliche IMO. Tried that too, never worked.
The fact that you said you "tried that too" say's you still cared :p so you were faking it...chicks have a fifteenth sense when it comes to guys faking it :) :p
I don't mean not care as in being bad@ss and saying "whatever man". I mean not care as in just let it ride. Who cares if they don't like you, you will find one somewhere down the line anyway so if this girl who rejects you now doesn't realise the kind of guy you can be for her...not your problem, her loss.
The fact is girls always complain that there is no such thing as a nice guy, or that they will never find one. Yet if they walk into one on the street and knock him over they won't even stop to help him. This is IMO btw ladies :).
The fact that you said you "tried that too" say's you still cared :p so you were faking it...chicks have a fifteenth sense when it comes to guys faking it :) :p
I don't mean not care as in being bad@ss and saying "whatever man". I mean not care as in just let it ride. Who cares if they don't like you, you will find one somewhere down the line anyway so if this girl who rejects you now doesn't realise the kind of guy you can be for her...not your problem, her loss.
The fact is girls always complain that there is no such thing as a nice guy, or that they will never find one. Yet if they walk into one on the street and knock him over they won't even stop to help him. This is IMO btw ladies :).
The Cosmos
10-03-2008, 11:33 AM
blind dates are dodge. never again!
Never blind date. It aint good. :eek:
Never blind date. It aint good. :eek:
Pixie22
10-03-2008, 11:45 AM
Finding a girl is no longer my first priority. I think when its always on your mind, its less likely to happen because of the pressure you put on yourself
gdiza
10-03-2008, 11:56 AM
I've just met one now, but shes strange, she tells me shes single and looking for this, but then i do a google search and check on facebook and shes in relationship.
Then she ads me to mxit and her nick is 'sexual seduction'
eish!!! helps to do some research I tell you.
I don't just hook up with any strange CPT chicks, you never know where they've been.
Then she ads me to mxit and her nick is 'sexual seduction'
eish!!! helps to do some research I tell you.
I don't just hook up with any strange CPT chicks, you never know where they've been.
Jonny Two Shoes
10-03-2008, 11:56 AM
Blind dates aren't all bad. I know of two that worked out well.
Also if you can get at least some info about the person from a trusted source before arranging the date then it makes things a little easier. So that it's not entirely a blind date.
Also if you can get at least some info about the person from a trusted source before arranging the date then it makes things a little easier. So that it's not entirely a blind date.
killadoob
10-03-2008, 12:06 PM
i dunno been with my g/f coming on 6 years
this is only girl i have ever dated
we fight alot but that makes everything better as nothing ever builds up and explodes :)
there is somebody for everyone trust me on that one
the problem with alot of ppl is they go out looking for love instead of letting love find them :)
ok sitting at home on the couch all the time is not going to help you haha
get out and do things :) then love will find ya
this is only girl i have ever dated
we fight alot but that makes everything better as nothing ever builds up and explodes :)
there is somebody for everyone trust me on that one
the problem with alot of ppl is they go out looking for love instead of letting love find them :)
ok sitting at home on the couch all the time is not going to help you haha
get out and do things :) then love will find ya
AcidRaZor
10-03-2008, 12:07 PM
The thing that's really ****ing with my mind at the moment is, even though I can be with other women, and know I can go out and find someone else, i'm not really sure if i want to do that.
Even though I want to be a in a relationship, i don't really want to either and I'm not sure If I can commit to feelings I might not have
Like I said, very confused
Even though I want to be a in a relationship, i don't really want to either and I'm not sure If I can commit to feelings I might not have
Like I said, very confused
Jonny Two Shoes
10-03-2008, 12:36 PM
The thing that's really ****ing with my mind at the moment is, even though I can be with other women, and know I can go out and find someone else, i'm not really sure if i want to do that.
Even though I want to be a in a relationship, i don't really want to either and I'm not sure If I can commit to feelings I might not have
Like I said, very confused
Do you have the time? Do you have the money? Does your job interfere with your personal life? Are you keen to do different things and make plans every weekend? Are you willing to work at it?
People say a relationship should not be "work" but it is work. If you have a desire for it then you will love it. Just like if you had a desire for your job then you will love your job.
My first big break up was probably my fault as I was not prepared to work at it enough. Although I had the desire (a lot of desire) my job got in the way and day after day the stress got to me. My thoughts were never on her but rather on my job, I was swearing at traffic more, I was never putting a lot of time aside for her, I was often in a bad mood etc...
Although leaving me instead of talking about it and helping me out shows she was probably not right for me anyway. :/
Still I am trying harder with the new relationship and so far it is working very well :)
Decide if you are ready for the relationship first.
Hey but I'm not a pro, this is just all imo :p
Even though I want to be a in a relationship, i don't really want to either and I'm not sure If I can commit to feelings I might not have
Like I said, very confused
Do you have the time? Do you have the money? Does your job interfere with your personal life? Are you keen to do different things and make plans every weekend? Are you willing to work at it?
People say a relationship should not be "work" but it is work. If you have a desire for it then you will love it. Just like if you had a desire for your job then you will love your job.
My first big break up was probably my fault as I was not prepared to work at it enough. Although I had the desire (a lot of desire) my job got in the way and day after day the stress got to me. My thoughts were never on her but rather on my job, I was swearing at traffic more, I was never putting a lot of time aside for her, I was often in a bad mood etc...
Although leaving me instead of talking about it and helping me out shows she was probably not right for me anyway. :/
Still I am trying harder with the new relationship and so far it is working very well :)
Decide if you are ready for the relationship first.
Hey but I'm not a pro, this is just all imo :p
dablakmark8
10-03-2008, 01:21 PM
haha that is so true. a girl once phoned me out of the blue saying shes seen me at clubs and got my number god knows where..
we were talking and i asked what she looked like and she said a lot of people say she looks like giselle bundchen (however you spell.)
I met her, and she looks like a troll (remember those toys with the hair that smelled nice?) who had a sex change.
damn,did you use a bag:D
we were talking and i asked what she looked like and she said a lot of people say she looks like giselle bundchen (however you spell.)
I met her, and she looks like a troll (remember those toys with the hair that smelled nice?) who had a sex change.
damn,did you use a bag:D
Lino
10-03-2008, 05:10 PM
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Chris
10-03-2008, 07:08 PM
Single...but only 18 :p. I've only once tried to get involved in a relationship...didn't get very far because when I asked her for coffee, she never replied to the sms.
Bothered by being single? A bit but I am in matric so that should be my primary focus. But sometimes I get really bored on weekends...and I think to myself, a girlfriend would be my perfect remedy.
Bothered by being single? A bit but I am in matric so that should be my primary focus. But sometimes I get really bored on weekends...and I think to myself, a girlfriend would be my perfect remedy.
alf101
10-03-2008, 07:21 PM
Single...but only 18 :p. I've only once tried to get involved in a relationship...didn't get very far because when I asked her for coffee, she never replied to the sms.
Bothered by being single? A bit but I am in matric so that should be my primary focus. But sometimes I get really bored on weekends...and I think to myself, a girlfriend would be my perfect remedy.
Maybe she didn't get the sms.
Did u try stalking?
Bothered by being single? A bit but I am in matric so that should be my primary focus. But sometimes I get really bored on weekends...and I think to myself, a girlfriend would be my perfect remedy.
Maybe she didn't get the sms.
Did u try stalking?
adamr
10-03-2008, 08:32 PM
yes i have been for a good few months (will be almost a year come august)... did meet someone in CT, that i really adore, she adores me too, but has a b/f, gets invited by her b/f's folks for things like lunch and outings, been going out with this guys for years ... so its quite serious with him ... we were once alone in a hotel room together me and her and did nothing ... too many things going through our minds ... her guy is a good guy, and i aint no dog ... dunno what to do ... cant like anyone else at the moment ... :( ... she said if we did go through with what we intended in that room, she would never have talked to me again, and she doubts it would have just stopped at a kiss ... when i asked
i told her i liked her and she said she likes me too,but when i said i think my feelings are getting stronger she got angry, said im putting pressure on her ... thats was said a few months back
her being in CT and me in joburg also does not help ...
(worst of all im listening to all these soppy songs that touches your heart ... like Lenny kravitz, ill be waiting ... bleeding love by leona lewis )
so thats my sad single story at the moment ...
i told her i liked her and she said she likes me too,but when i said i think my feelings are getting stronger she got angry, said im putting pressure on her ... thats was said a few months back
her being in CT and me in joburg also does not help ...
(worst of all im listening to all these soppy songs that touches your heart ... like Lenny kravitz, ill be waiting ... bleeding love by leona lewis )
so thats my sad single story at the moment ...
teraside
10-03-2008, 08:37 PM
Hello friends. My name is teraside. I've been single for almost 23 years. I had about 3 or 4 girlfriends in my High School years, but I have not commited to a relationship longer than a month.
I am a renewed bachelor and I am happy to say that I have not been french kissed in more than 4 years, I am happy to call myself a cool guy and everybody's friend.
Group hug!! ;) :D :p
I am a renewed bachelor and I am happy to say that I have not been french kissed in more than 4 years, I am happy to call myself a cool guy and everybody's friend.
Group hug!! ;) :D :p
Lino
10-03-2008, 10:11 PM
Hello friends. My name is teraside. I've been single for almost 23 years. I had about 3 or 4 girlfriends in my High School years, but I have not commited to a relationship longer than a month.
I am a renewed bachelor and I am happy to say that I have not been french kissed in more than 4 years, I am happy to call myself a cool guy and everybody's friend.
Group hug!! ;) :D :p
Sounds like alcoholics anonymous, but yes a group hug for all the single people:o
I am a renewed bachelor and I am happy to say that I have not been french kissed in more than 4 years, I am happy to call myself a cool guy and everybody's friend.
Group hug!! ;) :D :p
Sounds like alcoholics anonymous, but yes a group hug for all the single people:o
teraside
10-03-2008, 10:16 PM
Sounds like alcoholics anonymous, but yes a group hug for all the single people:o
That was the idea, single anonymous ;) :D :p
That was the idea, single anonymous ;) :D :p
Lino
10-03-2008, 10:21 PM
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Highflyer_GP
10-03-2008, 10:25 PM
Let it marinate, only call on the weekend if you don't hear anything by then :D
Lino
10-03-2008, 10:27 PM
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teraside
10-03-2008, 10:29 PM
Ah I guess I'll wait until the weekend. Although so far she has not been on mxit and no response to my sms. Last thing she said to me was that I looked kinda nice. (Sent her a pic)
Why oh why do guys do that? Don't send girls a pic of yourself man, they look for the worst parts in your appearance. Next time, just say you don't have a camera phone or something and show up at the date, she'll be pleasantly surprised ;)
Why oh why do guys do that? Don't send girls a pic of yourself man, they look for the worst parts in your appearance. Next time, just say you don't have a camera phone or something and show up at the date, she'll be pleasantly surprised ;)
Highflyer_GP
10-03-2008, 10:30 PM
Yeah don't sms or call any more, wait until the weekend (or even next week) otherwise you're going to come across as desperate. You can call as much as you like when you grow comfortable with each other and she's your gf (assuming she's not a troll with the multicolour hair). For now just let it ride.
Lino
10-03-2008, 10:31 PM
Why oh why do guys do that? Don't send girls a pic of yourself man, they look for the worst parts in your appearance. Next time, just say you don't have a camera phone or something and show up at the date, she'll be pleasantly surprised ;)
Don't blame me, blame the couple of Amstel's I had before I did it:D
Don't blame me, blame the couple of Amstel's I had before I did it:D
teraside
10-03-2008, 10:40 PM
Don't blame me, blame the couple of Amstel's I had before I did it:D
:p:p Bad beer! Bad Beer! :D ;) :p
:p:p Bad beer! Bad Beer! :D ;) :p
gdiza
10-03-2008, 10:46 PM
Amstel is good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)
ld13
10-03-2008, 10:58 PM
I have not been [-]french[/-] kissed in more than 4 years
Try 17 :(
I'm good, what can I say :sick: :o
Try 17 :(
I'm good, what can I say :sick: :o
eitai2001
11-03-2008, 12:56 AM
Don't worry I was there with you at one stage ld13, and then I discovered woodstock ... things have never been the same since. If you wanna kiss a girl, go to Woodstock this year and pitch your tent next to a tent full of chicks who seem talkative ... and away you go ;)
Jonny Two Shoes
11-03-2008, 08:02 AM
yes i have been for a good few months (will be almost a year come august)... did meet someone in CT, that i really adore, she adores me too, but has a b/f, gets invited by her b/f's folks for things like lunch and outings, been going out with this guys for years ... so its quite serious with him ... we were once alone in a hotel room together me and her and did nothing ... too many things going through our minds ... her guy is a good guy, and i aint no dog ... dunno what to do ... cant like anyone else at the moment ... :( ... she said if we did go through with what we intended in that room, she would never have talked to me again, and she doubts it would have just stopped at a kiss ... when i asked
i told her i liked her and she said she likes me too,but when i said i think my feelings are getting stronger she got angry, said im putting pressure on her ... thats was said a few months back
her being in CT and me in joburg also does not help ...
(worst of all im listening to all these soppy songs that touches your heart ... like Lenny kravitz, ill be waiting ... bleeding love by leona lewis )
so thats my sad single story at the moment ...
That's a tough break man. :(
When family is involved it would be all the more difficult to break up I guess.
i told her i liked her and she said she likes me too,but when i said i think my feelings are getting stronger she got angry, said im putting pressure on her ... thats was said a few months back
her being in CT and me in joburg also does not help ...
(worst of all im listening to all these soppy songs that touches your heart ... like Lenny kravitz, ill be waiting ... bleeding love by leona lewis )
so thats my sad single story at the moment ...
That's a tough break man. :(
When family is involved it would be all the more difficult to break up I guess.
mercurial
11-03-2008, 08:10 AM
I have to be honest I didn't expect so many people to reply to this thread. 7 Pages wow.
Wanna hear something sad, the semi-blind date I was going on, I have not heard from her in 3 days.. I wonder WTF is going on
She read this thread that's why!
Wanna hear something sad, the semi-blind date I was going on, I have not heard from her in 3 days.. I wonder WTF is going on
She read this thread that's why!
gdiza
11-03-2008, 08:23 AM
LOL! mercurial, he probably came across too strong or he said something like "lol" in conversation! LMAO!
ld13
11-03-2008, 06:29 PM
Depending on a quite few factors, thats out of my controll, I'll be taking action and doing something about all [this] tomorrow sometime - I already have Butterflies in my stomach...
Please don't wish me luck
Please don't wish me luck
Lino
11-03-2008, 06:41 PM
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Voldemort
11-03-2008, 06:58 PM
Bleh, I have a g/friend, plus 2 women that want me on the side:rolleyes:
Its really no fun juggling:(
Its really no fun juggling:(
Velenoso
11-03-2008, 07:31 PM
Ah I guess I'll wait until the weekend. Although so far she has not been on mxit and no response to my sms. Last thing she said to me was that I looked kinda nice. (Sent her a pic)
Mxit? Sms? :confused: Give the lady a call. I can't believe some of the stuff in this thread.
Mxit? Sms? :confused: Give the lady a call. I can't believe some of the stuff in this thread.
adamr
11-03-2008, 07:42 PM
Bleh, I have a g/friend, plus 2 women that want me on the side:rolleyes:
Its really no fun juggling:(
hehe was there, and now this .... :(
Its really no fun juggling:(
hehe was there, and now this .... :(
teraside
11-03-2008, 07:44 PM
Mxit? Sms? :confused: Give the lady a call. I can't believe some of the stuff in this thread.
Don't feel bad reading other folks comments, the art of being a true Gentleman is lost in any event, so I'm not saying you're wasting your time, but most people just say hi and jump into bed these days ;)
Don't feel bad reading other folks comments, the art of being a true Gentleman is lost in any event, so I'm not saying you're wasting your time, but most people just say hi and jump into bed these days ;)
Velenoso
11-03-2008, 07:53 PM
most people just say hi and jump into bed these days ;)
Where's the problem? :D
Where's the problem? :D
Voldemort
11-03-2008, 08:02 PM
Where's the problem? :D
Yeah whats the problem??:p
Yeah whats the problem??:p
teraside
11-03-2008, 08:42 PM
Freaks :p
Voldemort
11-03-2008, 08:42 PM
meh:cool:
Lino
11-03-2008, 10:08 PM
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Velenoso
11-03-2008, 10:30 PM
Done the mxit thing, bu she is now never online. Tried to SMS no reply thats if she even got it. And her phone seems to be off:(
Well that's what I'm saying. Forget about mxit and sms and try call. Then you will find out if her phone is on or not, no?
maybe her phone got stolen you insensitive prick! :p
* TIP: If it has been stolen, bring her a phone as a present on your next date. Scored myself plenty points this way once! ;)
Well that's what I'm saying. Forget about mxit and sms and try call. Then you will find out if her phone is on or not, no?
maybe her phone got stolen you insensitive prick! :p
* TIP: If it has been stolen, bring her a phone as a present on your next date. Scored myself plenty points this way once! ;)
eitai2001
11-03-2008, 10:42 PM
Maybe her phone was stolen
Lino
11-03-2008, 10:42 PM
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Velenoso
11-03-2008, 10:47 PM
Lets see, if her phone got stolen I'll prolly never be able to contact her again. Cause well I have never met her
Well that would be a problem then, wouldn't it. :p
Well that would be a problem then, wouldn't it. :p
Killove
12-03-2008, 07:54 AM
send dead kittens to her house with a note saying, "this is your fault!!!"
scored major points for me last time
:D
scored major points for me last time
:D
mercurial
12-03-2008, 08:04 AM
Done the mxit thing, bu she is now never online. Tried to SMS no reply thats if she even got it. And her phone seems to be off:(
Either her phone was stolen or it's broken or something happened to her :(
Either her phone was stolen or it's broken or something happened to her :(
theratman
12-03-2008, 09:44 AM
Well lets look at some
pros and cons of being single:
Pro's
a) More freedom
b) Its cheaper
c) You can flirt with any woman that has legs (if you want)
Con's
a) Lonely I am so lonely (not really but starting to feel it now)
b) Not always someone around if you wanna get frisky
c) Its the deeper stuff
Im in a serious relationship and i have plenty freedom,flirt with other woman and my gf spends lots of money on me..man i got it good!
pros and cons of being single:
Pro's
a) More freedom
b) Its cheaper
c) You can flirt with any woman that has legs (if you want)
Con's
a) Lonely I am so lonely (not really but starting to feel it now)
b) Not always someone around if you wanna get frisky
c) Its the deeper stuff
Im in a serious relationship and i have plenty freedom,flirt with other woman and my gf spends lots of money on me..man i got it good!
Killove
12-03-2008, 09:47 AM
Im in a serious relationship and i have plenty freedom,flirt with other woman and my gf spends lots of money on me..man i got it good!
Im in a serious relationship too, except I have no freedom, cannot even look at another woman, and my gf eats all my money.
She's hot tho, so its cool ;)
Im in a serious relationship too, except I have no freedom, cannot even look at another woman, and my gf eats all my money.
She's hot tho, so its cool ;)
theratman
12-03-2008, 09:50 AM
Another misleading cliche IMO. Tried that too, never worked.
hahaha
the trick is u mustnt really think about it, then itl happen.
Im in a serious relationship too, except I have no freedom, cannot even look at another woman, and my gf eats all my money.
She's hot tho, so its cool ;)
My gf lives 30min away and we dont frequent the same bars or have the same social circle,plus shes 3 years older.I get away with alot!
hahaha
the trick is u mustnt really think about it, then itl happen.
Im in a serious relationship too, except I have no freedom, cannot even look at another woman, and my gf eats all my money.
She's hot tho, so its cool ;)
My gf lives 30min away and we dont frequent the same bars or have the same social circle,plus shes 3 years older.I get away with alot!
mercurial
12-03-2008, 09:51 AM
hahaha
the trick is u mustnt really think about it, then itl happen.
/tries not to think...
/not working :(
the trick is u mustnt really think about it, then itl happen.
/tries not to think...
/not working :(
theratman
12-03-2008, 09:58 AM
/tries not to think...
/not working :(
You really must not think about it at all,just go out.Otherwise itl be in your subconcious.If u really want to hook up,go to the bar really late(around 1 or 2)just before closing time,all the desperate girls are there,drunk and here you are,sober as jehovah..its the easiest thing in the world!
/not working :(
You really must not think about it at all,just go out.Otherwise itl be in your subconcious.If u really want to hook up,go to the bar really late(around 1 or 2)just before closing time,all the desperate girls are there,drunk and here you are,sober as jehovah..its the easiest thing in the world!
mercurial
12-03-2008, 10:00 AM
You really must not think about it at all,just go out.Otherwise itl be in your subconcious.If u really want to hook up,go to the bar really late(around 1 or 2)just before closing time,all the desperate girls are there,drunk and here you are,sober as jehovah..its the easiest thing in the world!
Lol, ok I'll think about it. I mean think about the bar thing, not about the other thing that I just tried not to think about :D
Lol, ok I'll think about it. I mean think about the bar thing, not about the other thing that I just tried not to think about :D
theratman
12-03-2008, 10:03 AM
Lol, ok I'll think about it. I mean think about the bar thing, not about the other thing that I just tried not to think about :D
And dont try hook up with chicks by dancing,iv only ever done it 9-10 times in my life,i see my friends every weekend trying to hook up with girls by dancing,pick up woman at the bar or ones sitting alone.dont set your standards too high to begin with,start talking to the 5/10's,build your confidence up and then go for bigger game..
And dont try hook up with chicks by dancing,iv only ever done it 9-10 times in my life,i see my friends every weekend trying to hook up with girls by dancing,pick up woman at the bar or ones sitting alone.dont set your standards too high to begin with,start talking to the 5/10's,build your confidence up and then go for bigger game..
mercurial
12-03-2008, 10:06 AM
And dont try hook up with chicks by dancing,iv only ever done it 9-10 times in my life,i see my friends every weekend trying to hook up with girls by dancing,pick up woman at the bar or ones sitting alone.dont set your standards too high to begin with,start talking to the 5/10's,build your confidence up and then go for bigger game..
Sounds like sound advice :) ... thanks...
Sounds like sound advice :) ... thanks...
Juggy
12-03-2008, 10:10 AM
The only difference between having a girlfriend and not having one is the sex is the same but the dishes keep piling up;)
I've been in a relationship for almost years. People keep asking when we're getting married. I reckon we're half way through our courtship, more to go.
I've been in a relationship for almost years. People keep asking when we're getting married. I reckon we're half way through our courtship, more to go.
theratman
12-03-2008, 10:10 AM
Sounds like sound advice :) ... thanks...
You are from cape town,what places do you try pick up woman at?no im not going to stalk you :D
You are from cape town,what places do you try pick up woman at?no im not going to stalk you :D
teraside
12-03-2008, 10:11 AM
The only difference between having a girlfriend and not having one is the sex is the same but the dishes keep piling up;)
I've been in a relationship for almost years. People keep asking when we're getting married. I reckon we're half way through our courtship, more to go.
If I'm not mistaken, you are part of that other "club" aren't you? ;) :D :p
I've been in a relationship for almost years. People keep asking when we're getting married. I reckon we're half way through our courtship, more to go.
If I'm not mistaken, you are part of that other "club" aren't you? ;) :D :p
mercurial
12-03-2008, 10:14 AM
You are from cape town,what places do you try pick up woman at?no im not going to stalk you :D
TBH, I hardly go out...
TBH, I hardly go out...
theratman
12-03-2008, 10:16 AM
TBH, I hardly go out...
Thats the problem right there,you arent going to get no ladies sitting at home playing COD4 all night :D
Thats the problem right there,you arent going to get no ladies sitting at home playing COD4 all night :D
Juggy
12-03-2008, 10:18 AM
If I'm not mistaken, you are part of that other "club" aren't you? ;) :D :p
Huh?? You implying I'm gay;)
My mistake, my number 6 on the top of the KB doesn't work.
So 6 years in and 6 to go?
Been married before, it didn't work out too lekker.
Huh?? You implying I'm gay;)
My mistake, my number 6 on the top of the KB doesn't work.
So 6 years in and 6 to go?
Been married before, it didn't work out too lekker.
teraside
12-03-2008, 10:22 AM
Huh?? You implying I'm gay;)
My mistake, my number 6 on the top of the KB doesn't work.
So 6 years, in and 6 to go?
Been married before, it didn't work out too lekker.
Haha, just checking, I call it a "club" ;) :D :p
My mistake, my number 6 on the top of the KB doesn't work.
So 6 years, in and 6 to go?
Been married before, it didn't work out too lekker.
Haha, just checking, I call it a "club" ;) :D :p
mercurial
12-03-2008, 10:26 AM
Thats the problem right there,you arent going to get no ladies sitting at home playing COD4 all night :D
:o I know :( :o
I don't know where to find decent, single women anymore.
:o I know :( :o
I don't know where to find decent, single women anymore.
theratman
12-03-2008, 10:33 AM
:o I know :( :o
I don't know where to find decent, single women anymore.
Go to long street,there are plenty rustic places to meet woman.
I don't know where to find decent, single women anymore.
Go to long street,there are plenty rustic places to meet woman.
mercurial
12-03-2008, 10:41 AM
Go to long street,there are plenty rustic places to meet woman.
/me will think about it ;)
/me will think about it ;)
teraside
12-03-2008, 10:42 AM
/me will think about it ;)
Go to an arobics class ;) even better :p
Go to an arobics class ;) even better :p
mercurial
12-03-2008, 10:52 AM
Go to an arobics class ;) even better :p
:D
:D
cipha
12-03-2008, 11:11 AM
I is single and I am loving it
I dont have to report to anyone about what i am doing, when i am doing it, etc...
Loneliness does come a knocking now and then, but then i just call up a mate and go out or i go to sleep.
I dont have to report to anyone about what i am doing, when i am doing it, etc...
Loneliness does come a knocking now and then, but then i just call up a mate and go out or i go to sleep.
S1ght
12-03-2008, 11:19 AM
Single for just over a year now...the worst part I found was that she moved on 1st and is now together with 1 of best friends...well ex-best friend now :p
Killove
12-03-2008, 11:58 AM
Single for just over a year now...the worst part I found was that she moved on 1st and is now together with 1 of best friends...well ex-best friend now :p
thats horrible.. send naked pics of her to her dad
EDIT : and to me
thats horrible.. send naked pics of her to her dad
EDIT : and to me
mercurial
12-03-2008, 12:01 PM
thats horrible.. send naked pics of her to her dad
EDIT : and to me
Lol.
EDIT : and to me
Lol.
gdiza
12-03-2008, 12:15 PM
/me will think about it ;)
Come with me bru, we can hunt together!
Wednesday is R1 a brand at Chrome, you have ANY idea how many hot single ladies attend this?
PM me, we can organise and have a boys night out :D
Come with me bru, we can hunt together!
Wednesday is R1 a brand at Chrome, you have ANY idea how many hot single ladies attend this?
PM me, we can organise and have a boys night out :D
mercurial
12-03-2008, 12:24 PM
Come with me bru, we can hunt together!
Wednesday is R1 a brand at Chrome, you have ANY idea how many hot single ladies attend this?
PM me, we can organise and have a boys night out :D
TBH I have thought about it before. Let me give it some thought. I'd prefer the weekends though.
Wednesday is R1 a brand at Chrome, you have ANY idea how many hot single ladies attend this?
PM me, we can organise and have a boys night out :D
TBH I have thought about it before. Let me give it some thought. I'd prefer the weekends though.
gdiza
12-03-2008, 12:31 PM
MAN! Variety is the spice of life!
Try something new!
It'll give you something new to post about on Thursday when you're really in your "chop" lol :D
Try something new!
It'll give you something new to post about on Thursday when you're really in your "chop" lol :D
gdiza
12-03-2008, 12:34 PM
damn it, double post!
mercurial
12-03-2008, 12:34 PM
MAN! Variety is the spice of life!
Try something new!
It'll give you something new to post about on Thursday when you're really in your "chop" lol :D
Lol dude I'm way too tired by the time I get home after work. I don't know where you guys get the energy from :confused:
Try something new!
It'll give you something new to post about on Thursday when you're really in your "chop" lol :D
Lol dude I'm way too tired by the time I get home after work. I don't know where you guys get the energy from :confused:
kevinswan007
12-03-2008, 12:48 PM
Lol dude I'm way too tired by the time I get home after work. I don't know where you guys get the energy from :confused:
Start going to gym. Do cardio for at least 30 mins a day. You will be really tired the first week or so, but after you will find you have alot more energy in a day. You will also feel alot better!
Start going to gym. Do cardio for at least 30 mins a day. You will be really tired the first week or so, but after you will find you have alot more energy in a day. You will also feel alot better!
gdiza
12-03-2008, 12:49 PM
You don't know where to get the energy from?
Eish... I dunno what to say to you :D You are lost ;)
Eish... I dunno what to say to you :D You are lost ;)
kevinswan007
12-03-2008, 12:52 PM
Done the mxit thing, bu she is now never online. Tried to SMS no reply thats if she even got it. And her phone seems to be off:(
god this made me laugh! :D
perhaps she moved overseas after getting your pic :P
just kidding dude. forget her and move on.
even if her phone was 'stolen' she can still contact you if she wanted.
(mxit for pc, keeps all your contacts on their database)
all the best, better luck next time.
god this made me laugh! :D
perhaps she moved overseas after getting your pic :P
just kidding dude. forget her and move on.
even if her phone was 'stolen' she can still contact you if she wanted.
(mxit for pc, keeps all your contacts on their database)
all the best, better luck next time.
kevinswan007
12-03-2008, 01:00 PM
About being single. I have been in relationships most of my life. But I have been single now for over a year. It does get very lonely, but I do enjoy being alone in a way. I can spend the whole weekend totally alone and not be fazed by it at all.
My problem is this: When I meet someone, if I like them somewhat, for some reason the relationship flourishes and the girl will fall head over heels in love with me. But Ill start getting fed up and push her away. Sometimes I regret it later, sometimes not.
When I meet someone I do like, and I do fall for her, the relationship usually goes well for a while, then ends suddenly and dismally.
Yet I keep trying... :cool:
My problem is this: When I meet someone, if I like them somewhat, for some reason the relationship flourishes and the girl will fall head over heels in love with me. But Ill start getting fed up and push her away. Sometimes I regret it later, sometimes not.
When I meet someone I do like, and I do fall for her, the relationship usually goes well for a while, then ends suddenly and dismally.
Yet I keep trying... :cool:
Killove
12-03-2008, 01:02 PM
such is life brother...
gotta keep on keepin on!
gotta keep on keepin on!
krycor
12-03-2008, 01:18 PM
yes, since forever.
hah reminds me, claremont seems to have some sort of parties happening on tuesdays and saturdays as i always see nurses and tennis players walking about after 10 pm :p and i doubt they real nurses, cause like i mean if they are then i shoulda paid more attention to hospital label :(
hah reminds me, claremont seems to have some sort of parties happening on tuesdays and saturdays as i always see nurses and tennis players walking about after 10 pm :p and i doubt they real nurses, cause like i mean if they are then i shoulda paid more attention to hospital label :(
Jonny Two Shoes
12-03-2008, 01:19 PM
My problem is this: When I meet someone, if I like them somewhat, for some reason the relationship flourishes and the girl will fall head over heels in love with me. But Ill start getting fed up and push her away. Sometimes I regret it later, sometimes not.
Yeah like they suddenly start saying you such a special guy and they not used to the gentleman treatment and they want to be with you every second of the day and want to french you every second of the day and all that. :rolleyes:
My current GF obviously had some dogs as boyfriends before and just can't get to grips with me being a nice guy and what not. Thing is now that she realised it she is all over me, doesn't want me to even sleep early at night so long as I stay with her, always grabs every "alone time with me" opportunity she can even if I'm half dead tired. I have to get to grips with this. :/
People, there are a lot less issues if you are single :p
Yeah like they suddenly start saying you such a special guy and they not used to the gentleman treatment and they want to be with you every second of the day and want to french you every second of the day and all that. :rolleyes:
My current GF obviously had some dogs as boyfriends before and just can't get to grips with me being a nice guy and what not. Thing is now that she realised it she is all over me, doesn't want me to even sleep early at night so long as I stay with her, always grabs every "alone time with me" opportunity she can even if I'm half dead tired. I have to get to grips with this. :/
People, there are a lot less issues if you are single :p
mercurial
12-03-2008, 02:25 PM
You don't know where to get the energy from?
Eish... I dunno what to say to you :D You are lost ;)
:o
Start going to gym. Do cardio for at least 30 mins a day. You will be really tired the first week or so, but after you will find you have alot more energy in a day. You will also feel alot better!
Well I bought myself a treadmill recently but I need to consistently use it cos I'm not doing that at the moment. But you are right ;)
My problem is this: When I meet someone, if I like them somewhat, for some reason the relationship flourishes and the girl will fall head over heels in love with me. But Ill start getting fed up and push her away.
You got issues :D
Eish... I dunno what to say to you :D You are lost ;)
:o
Start going to gym. Do cardio for at least 30 mins a day. You will be really tired the first week or so, but after you will find you have alot more energy in a day. You will also feel alot better!
Well I bought myself a treadmill recently but I need to consistently use it cos I'm not doing that at the moment. But you are right ;)
My problem is this: When I meet someone, if I like them somewhat, for some reason the relationship flourishes and the girl will fall head over heels in love with me. But Ill start getting fed up and push her away.
You got issues :D
gdiza
12-03-2008, 02:29 PM
I hate being single... it sucks!
mercurial
12-03-2008, 02:32 PM
I hate being single... it sucks!
Tell me about it. Well you've only been single for a few days now, so don't feel too bad ;)
Tell me about it. Well you've only been single for a few days now, so don't feel too bad ;)
dablakmark8
12-03-2008, 03:27 PM
yeah since my last post here i am still single,it sucks repeating myself buy this is the only way to express my desire to meet a women..Debbie care to elaborate for us
Lino
12-03-2008, 05:01 PM
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teraside
12-03-2008, 05:02 PM
You should stop with mxit dates, not healthy ;) :D :p
ld13
12-03-2008, 07:18 PM
You should stop with mxit dates, not healthy ;) :D :p
/me ignores t3ra
/me inserts fresh battery into phone
/me fires up mxit
:p :D ;)
[EDIT]
Two people, just meeting
Barely touching each other
Two spirits, greeting
Trying to carry it further...
:cool:
/me ignores t3ra
/me inserts fresh battery into phone
/me fires up mxit
:p :D ;)
[EDIT]
Two people, just meeting
Barely touching each other
Two spirits, greeting
Trying to carry it further...
:cool:
teraside
12-03-2008, 07:19 PM
Woah, I like the new sig in your post man, sexxxyyy ;) :D :p
teraside
12-03-2008, 07:21 PM
Ain't a sig by the way ;)
Ok, just saw it, I tried to look for the line _____________ but thought it might be my FF cache acting up.
You shouldn't post sincere stuff like that, you might bring attention to yourself, sexxxyyy ;) :D :p
Ok, just saw it, I tried to look for the line _____________ but thought it might be my FF cache acting up.
You shouldn't post sincere stuff like that, you might bring attention to yourself, sexxxyyy ;) :D :p
ld13
12-03-2008, 07:23 PM
Woah, I like the new sig in your post man, sexxxyyy ;) :D :p
Ain't a sig by the way ;)
[EDIT]
Ok, just saw it, I tried to look for the line _____________ but thought it might be my FF cache acting up.
You shouldn't post sincere stuff like that, you might bring attention to yourself, sexxxyyy
Music to go with the.....sexxxyyy-ness :p > Jean Jacques Smoothie - 2 People
LOL @ preposting what I was going to say :p
Ain't a sig by the way ;)
[EDIT]
Ok, just saw it, I tried to look for the line _____________ but thought it might be my FF cache acting up.
You shouldn't post sincere stuff like that, you might bring attention to yourself, sexxxyyy
Music to go with the.....sexxxyyy-ness :p > Jean Jacques Smoothie - 2 People
LOL @ preposting what I was going to say :p
teraside
12-03-2008, 07:25 PM
Ain't a sig by the way ;)
Music to go with the.....sexxxyyy-ness :p > Jean Jacques Smoothie - 2 People
Weird music ;) :D :p
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sWYXX-Uhtlk
Music to go with the.....sexxxyyy-ness :p > Jean Jacques Smoothie - 2 People
Weird music ;) :D :p
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sWYXX-Uhtlk
gdiza
12-03-2008, 07:26 PM
mercurial, wanna let me play match maker?
I'm pretty good at it ;)
**And I'm not being sarcastic or funny, very serious**
I'm pretty good at it ;)
**And I'm not being sarcastic or funny, very serious**
ld13
12-03-2008, 07:34 PM
Weird music ;) :D :p
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sWYXX-Uhtlk
LOCAL LINK - Jean Jacques Smoothie - 2 People.flv (ftp://ftp.uunet.co.za/pub/incoming/melkhom/Jean%20Jacques%20Smoothie%20-%202%20People.flv) (6.47MB)
What can I say, I liked the beat. The lyrics just happened to be cool, and quite fitting :p :D ;)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sWYXX-Uhtlk
LOCAL LINK - Jean Jacques Smoothie - 2 People.flv (ftp://ftp.uunet.co.za/pub/incoming/melkhom/Jean%20Jacques%20Smoothie%20-%202%20People.flv) (6.47MB)
What can I say, I liked the beat. The lyrics just happened to be cool, and quite fitting :p :D ;)
teraside
12-03-2008, 07:41 PM
What can I say, I liked the beat. The lyrics just happened to be cool, and quite fitting :p :D ;)
Ahum, yeah, right ;)
Ahum, yeah, right ;)
Lino
12-03-2008, 11:12 PM
Removed
ld13
12-03-2008, 11:17 PM
Ahum, yeah, right ;)
:mad: What do you mean "Yeah Right"? :mad:
:p
I found out she does have a boyfriend, good grief what the hell can I say, but is it all college girls are taken?
So what if she has one - hope that it'll fail - soon :D
:mad: What do you mean "Yeah Right"? :mad:
:p
I found out she does have a boyfriend, good grief what the hell can I say, but is it all college girls are taken?
So what if she has one - hope that it'll fail - soon :D
Tyson
12-03-2008, 11:18 PM
Im so lonley, no girl friend, Im gonna marry my palm.
JJ :D
JJ :D
Rainy
12-03-2008, 11:46 PM
Im so lonley, no girl friend, Im gonna marry my palm.
JJ :D
Congrats!
JJ :D
Congrats!
mercurial
13-03-2008, 07:55 AM
mercurial, wanna let me play match maker?
I'm pretty good at it ;)
**And I'm not being sarcastic or funny, very serious**
Go for it buddy ;)
Ah another update (of cause if anyone's interested); that girl
"c) Ah this sexy one who I have asked out for a drink and agreed although it will probably be next week during the holiday. Cause I don't know if she has a guy or not."
I found out she does have a boyfriend, good grief what the hell can I say, but is it all college girls are taken?
It seems that all the girls that are taken are the ones that flirt with us the most.
I'm pretty good at it ;)
**And I'm not being sarcastic or funny, very serious**
Go for it buddy ;)
Ah another update (of cause if anyone's interested); that girl
"c) Ah this sexy one who I have asked out for a drink and agreed although it will probably be next week during the holiday. Cause I don't know if she has a guy or not."
I found out she does have a boyfriend, good grief what the hell can I say, but is it all college girls are taken?
It seems that all the girls that are taken are the ones that flirt with us the most.
ghalied
13-03-2008, 11:16 PM
married............wish I was still single though :)
teraside
13-03-2008, 11:20 PM
married............wish I was still single though :)
That sucks ;) why get married then?
That sucks ;) why get married then?
Lino
14-03-2008, 07:58 AM
Ahh geez I finally came up with a plan of action, start gyming "again" from April
mercurial
14-03-2008, 08:09 AM
Ahh geez I finally came up with a plan of action, start gyming "again" from April
Good luck.
Good luck.
Lino
21-03-2008, 08:47 PM
Remember that girl I spoke about who seemed to have vanished off the face of the earth?
Well last night out of the blue, I got an sms from a strange number, turns out she got another phone etc.
So guess what I have to organize, the meet up.
Well last night out of the blue, I got an sms from a strange number, turns out she got another phone etc.
So guess what I have to organize, the meet up.
Velenoso
21-03-2008, 10:31 PM
Remember that girl I spoke about who seemed to have vanished off the face of the earth?
Well last night out of the blue, I got an sms from a strange number, turns out she got another phone etc.
So guess what I have to organize, the meet up.
You see? ;)
Well last night out of the blue, I got an sms from a strange number, turns out she got another phone etc.
So guess what I have to organize, the meet up.
You see? ;)
Fern9do
21-03-2008, 10:33 PM
Single...broke up with x after dating for 14 months...its hard....
On the plus side im saving alot of money now!lol
On the plus side im saving alot of money now!lol
gdiza
21-03-2008, 10:36 PM
Agreed!!!!
Being single is the best thing since ... well, nothing better ;)
Single to mingle ;)
Don't listen to me, I'm not single :D
Being single is the best thing since ... well, nothing better ;)
Single to mingle ;)
Don't listen to me, I'm not single :D
Fern9do
21-03-2008, 10:44 PM
Yeah being single rocks,you get to spend friday nights on internet forums.Whoohooo
gdiza
21-03-2008, 10:45 PM
Listen here... if I had your address, I'd come over and smack you!
:D
:D
Lino
21-03-2008, 10:48 PM
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Mephisto_Helix
21-03-2008, 10:50 PM
Tag Team from the Kaap, lol. *ducks*
Fern9do
21-03-2008, 10:52 PM
Hahaha...seriously tho...the only positive of being single is that you save alot of money.other than that it sucks.
My x wants to get back together but the thing is after we broke up c had a new bf a week later...then he dumpd her after 2months...now she wants me back...so now im in two minds.
Whats a man to do!
My x wants to get back together but the thing is after we broke up c had a new bf a week later...then he dumpd her after 2months...now she wants me back...so now im in two minds.
Whats a man to do!
Mephisto_Helix
21-03-2008, 10:56 PM
All depends on how much ya loved her bru .... me personally, if there has been a breakup and a new bf involved, sorry, no go. Think it has something to do with knowing there has been a new *tractor* ploughing my fields, lol. :eek::D
gdiza
21-03-2008, 10:56 PM
Tell her to p1ss off ;)
She wanted it, she left you, now shes alone.
Tell her to PM Linoman ;)
She wanted it, she left you, now shes alone.
Tell her to PM Linoman ;)
Lino
21-03-2008, 10:58 PM
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Fern9do
21-03-2008, 11:03 PM
Yeah man,thats how i feel aswell. The only problem is that shes really fukn hot and basicaly begging me to take her back.
So far ive resisted but i dont know how much longer i can take it.a man can only masturbate for so long before he goes insane,...or gets a back spazm!
Damn,why did i have to have pride!a lesser man whould take her back and get some good punani...
But i dont wna take her back bcos c didnt gv a fuk when c had a bf.
Is it just me or are capetown grls dificult to pick u?!!?...my mate from durban tellz me its 100 times easier to get girls in durbz.
So far ive resisted but i dont know how much longer i can take it.a man can only masturbate for so long before he goes insane,...or gets a back spazm!
Damn,why did i have to have pride!a lesser man whould take her back and get some good punani...
But i dont wna take her back bcos c didnt gv a fuk when c had a bf.
Is it just me or are capetown grls dificult to pick u?!!?...my mate from durban tellz me its 100 times easier to get girls in durbz.
Lino
21-03-2008, 11:08 PM
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Fern9do
21-03-2008, 11:08 PM
4 months you say...damn took her all of two weeks to get over me.and the fukt up thing is we were planning on getting maried. Whats even worse is that most of my friends are married now or have gfs...so hanging out with them is not an option,..im starting to love this forum:)
Lino
21-03-2008, 11:11 PM
4 months you say...damn took her all of two weeks to get over me.and the fukt up thing is we were planning on getting maried. Whats even worse is that most of my friends are married now or have gfs...so hanging out with them is not an option,..im starting to love this forum:)
Ouch sorry bro, personally she doesn't sound like a nice person
Ouch sorry bro, personally she doesn't sound like a nice person
Fern9do
21-03-2008, 11:19 PM
Okay il be honest, i know we shouldnt focus on looks but shes really goodluking and that kind of made me look past her faults.i basicaly couldnt believ i managed to get such a hot gf,without having any money i meen.
but in d end things just didnt work out for us.14 months is the longest iv spent with a girl bt yah iv bn single for just over two months now.
how long you bn single now linoman?
but in d end things just didnt work out for us.14 months is the longest iv spent with a girl bt yah iv bn single for just over two months now.
how long you bn single now linoman?
Lino
21-03-2008, 11:22 PM
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Highflyer_GP
22-03-2008, 12:00 AM
Hahaha...seriously tho...the only positive of being single is that you save alot of money.other than that it sucks.
My x wants to get back together but the thing is after we broke up c had a new bf a week later...then he dumpd her after 2months...now she wants me back...so now im in two minds.
Whats a man to do!
Grow a pair man! Tell her to buzz off, wtf is there to even think about??
And it doesn't matter how you look or how much money you have, what matters is how you speak and how you act (not so much what you say).
If you want, PM me your email address and I'll send you something that may help you.
My x wants to get back together but the thing is after we broke up c had a new bf a week later...then he dumpd her after 2months...now she wants me back...so now im in two minds.
Whats a man to do!
Grow a pair man! Tell her to buzz off, wtf is there to even think about??
And it doesn't matter how you look or how much money you have, what matters is how you speak and how you act (not so much what you say).
If you want, PM me your email address and I'll send you something that may help you.
acidrain
22-03-2008, 12:40 AM
Ye well my ex slept with her new boyfriend a week after we broke up.... infact they hooked up on her birthday while i was there and we were still dating.
Confronted her about it and she started calling me all types of names for browsing through her cellphone ( this is how i stumbled upon all this info... sms storage ftw ). I just looked at her and said: "Well you're a whore, so what do i care what you think of me"
We still hate each other to this day :D
Confronted her about it and she started calling me all types of names for browsing through her cellphone ( this is how i stumbled upon all this info... sms storage ftw ). I just looked at her and said: "Well you're a whore, so what do i care what you think of me"
We still hate each other to this day :D
Mephisto_Helix
22-03-2008, 12:48 AM
acidrain .... feel for you bru .... same situation here a few years ago, except in my case it was more like catching her in the act ..... and that aint a cool thing :(. But you move on and learn eh :D
acidrain
22-03-2008, 12:57 AM
i certainly learnt something indeed.... there are reasons they hide their cellphones.... and there are also ways in finding it :D
Highflyer_GP
22-03-2008, 01:07 AM
You guys are missing a trick - if you catch her cheating, you don't confront her, you cheat back while still getting some from her. She's effectively giving you permission to sleep with somebody else, and the best part is she can't get mad at you. Why settle for having sex with yourself when your girlfriend (being the generous person that she is) is telling you to do her and someone else of your choice.
acidrain
22-03-2008, 01:10 AM
Well i only found out after the break up.... be a diff story if it was before
Turtle
22-03-2008, 04:53 AM
My problem is that I don't really have a choice, it's one of the downfalls of working Mon-Sat 50+ hour weeks. I don't have a problem meeting women, it's that just I won't be able to maintain anything serious
Highflyer_GP "Total Posts: 9,735", maybe you'd have more time for a relationship if you spent a bit less time online :D
Highflyer_GP "Total Posts: 9,735", maybe you'd have more time for a relationship if you spent a bit less time online :D
Turtle
22-03-2008, 04:58 AM
The only problem is that shes really fukn hot and basicaly begging me to take her back. So far ive resisted but i dont know how much longer i can take it.
If she's hot then seriously, just go for it and enjoy the goods, what r u wasting time here for :) You're only young once ... just don't get too emotionally involved if she's a cheater etc., not worth it, most hot women actually make terrible friends i.e. poor long-term material.
If she's hot then seriously, just go for it and enjoy the goods, what r u wasting time here for :) You're only young once ... just don't get too emotionally involved if she's a cheater etc., not worth it, most hot women actually make terrible friends i.e. poor long-term material.
adamr
22-03-2008, 09:14 AM
If she's hot then seriously, just go for it and enjoy the goods, what r u wasting time here for :) You're only young once ... just don't get too emotionally involved if she's a cheater etc., not worth it, most hot women actually make terrible friends i.e. poor long-term material.
hey :mad: ... the lady im interested in is super hot!!! ... and she is an awesome friend and def long term material .... so not all super hot woman are cheats .... spent, sunday, monday and tuesday with her ... *sigh* :) ... like her sooooo much ... and she knows it ...
hey :mad: ... the lady im interested in is super hot!!! ... and she is an awesome friend and def long term material .... so not all super hot woman are cheats .... spent, sunday, monday and tuesday with her ... *sigh* :) ... like her sooooo much ... and she knows it ...
Highflyer_GP
22-03-2008, 12:32 PM
Highflyer_GP "Total Posts: 9,735", maybe you'd have more time for a relationship if you spent a bit less time online :D
Most of those are from work when I have a bit of free time, like this one :p
At least today's an early day though.
Most of those are from work when I have a bit of free time, like this one :p
At least today's an early day though.
Lino
22-03-2008, 07:26 PM
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Fern9do
22-03-2008, 08:13 PM
How does she look?...on a scale of 1 to 101
Lino
22-03-2008, 08:15 PM
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Fern9do
22-03-2008, 08:32 PM
Sory meant 1 to 10!!
Gues that translates to a 6.5....
The crap thing about cellphone pics is that the girl usualy looks abit different in person...ether uglier or prettier...depending on your luck:) GOODLUCK!
Gues that translates to a 6.5....
The crap thing about cellphone pics is that the girl usualy looks abit different in person...ether uglier or prettier...depending on your luck:) GOODLUCK!
Lino
22-03-2008, 08:34 PM
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The_Techie
22-03-2008, 08:40 PM
I don't have a girlfriend, I just know a girl that will get very mad if she heard me say that :D
Turtle
22-03-2008, 10:00 PM
so not all super hot woman are cheats
Eh I didn't say hot women are mostly *cheats*, certainly not (in this case it was already said she was a cheat), just that hot women are usually poor friends, because they tend to be selfish self-absorbed princesses (no surprise, they are pandered to their entire lives) and are usually (in my experience) more interested in enjoying their own life and having fun etc. than being actual friends to others which actually involves self-sacrifice and effort etc. (have these values/notions become non-existent?) If you're looking for a life-long partner I think you need someone who is a 'true friend' first and foremost. And what I mean by that is, someone who doesn't just like spending time with you during the good times (that's easy), the true test of a relationship is the dark times, i.e. who is still always there for you when life gets horrible (and that's a vice versa thing, of course). I hope your lady friend is that! I think sometimes only time can really reveal these things. But then maybe I'm just old-fashioned.
But if you're young and it's mutually not-serious then have fun! Gather ye rosebuds while ye may ...
Eh I didn't say hot women are mostly *cheats*, certainly not (in this case it was already said she was a cheat), just that hot women are usually poor friends, because they tend to be selfish self-absorbed princesses (no surprise, they are pandered to their entire lives) and are usually (in my experience) more interested in enjoying their own life and having fun etc. than being actual friends to others which actually involves self-sacrifice and effort etc. (have these values/notions become non-existent?) If you're looking for a life-long partner I think you need someone who is a 'true friend' first and foremost. And what I mean by that is, someone who doesn't just like spending time with you during the good times (that's easy), the true test of a relationship is the dark times, i.e. who is still always there for you when life gets horrible (and that's a vice versa thing, of course). I hope your lady friend is that! I think sometimes only time can really reveal these things. But then maybe I'm just old-fashioned.
But if you're young and it's mutually not-serious then have fun! Gather ye rosebuds while ye may ...
Fern9do
23-03-2008, 09:29 AM
So its been two months and i need to get some!!!...have arranged to meet up with my x gf next saturday,maybe we can work things out:)
adamr
23-03-2008, 10:06 AM
... And what I mean by that is, someone who doesn't just like spending time with you during the good times (that's easy), the true test of a relationship is the dark times, i.e. who is still always there for you when life gets horrible (and that's a vice versa thing, of course). I hope your lady friend is that! I think sometimes only time can really reveal these things. But then maybe I'm just old-fashioned.
But if you're young and it's mutually not-serious then have fun! Gather ye rosebuds while ye may ...
met her at a bad time in her life ... her mum got very ill, issues with the bf (which she has broken up with) ... but i guess thats her knowing im there for her when the times are tough ... the distance for now is an issue, i just cant take it to the next step simply because i know i for one will miss her just even more whenever i leave CT ... but she wants to move to joburg ... so i wait ... this "love" thing for me has always been a high and low with the emotions ... never a clear cut easy thing ... :(
But if you're young and it's mutually not-serious then have fun! Gather ye rosebuds while ye may ...
met her at a bad time in her life ... her mum got very ill, issues with the bf (which she has broken up with) ... but i guess thats her knowing im there for her when the times are tough ... the distance for now is an issue, i just cant take it to the next step simply because i know i for one will miss her just even more whenever i leave CT ... but she wants to move to joburg ... so i wait ... this "love" thing for me has always been a high and low with the emotions ... never a clear cut easy thing ... :(
ld13
23-03-2008, 11:39 AM
I don't have a girlfriend, I just know a girl that will get very mad if she heard me say that :D
:D lol, Thats not nice of you WKJ?:beanie! So I take it your definition of a girlfriend differs from hers? ;)
:D lol, Thats not nice of you WKJ?:beanie! So I take it your definition of a girlfriend differs from hers? ;)
The_Techie
23-03-2008, 01:46 PM
:D lol, Thats not nice of you WKJ?:beanie! So I take it your definition of a girlfriend differs from hers? ;)
No further comment :D
No further comment :D
Lino
27-03-2008, 09:40 PM
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The_Techie
27-03-2008, 09:40 PM
Good luck ;)
Lino
27-03-2008, 09:41 PM
Thanks bro, gotta admit it, I am so nervious.. Will let you guys know how it goes
Boodles
27-03-2008, 09:49 PM
Yep, good luck lino.
alf101
27-03-2008, 10:33 PM
Thanks bro, gotta admit it, I am so nervious.. Will let you guys know how it goes
Sounds like your 1st ever date.
Take her to to Moyo's if she's hot.
Good luck
Sounds like your 1st ever date.
Take her to to Moyo's if she's hot.
Good luck
johnnygirl
27-03-2008, 10:38 PM
Relax, Linoman, I'm sure she's nervous as well.
Lino
27-03-2008, 10:39 PM
Not first date but first blind date
alf101
27-03-2008, 10:43 PM
Not first date but first blind date
Remember, it's not a wedding.
Even if she's not hot, just enjoy the evening anyway.
It's good dating practice.
Remember, it's not a wedding.
Even if she's not hot, just enjoy the evening anyway.
It's good dating practice.
mercurial
28-03-2008, 07:56 AM
Where da pics at :D
Lino
28-03-2008, 02:55 PM
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mercurial
28-03-2008, 02:59 PM
It better go well else Monday I'm posting your embarrassing story on MyADSL :D
You know that mercurial always finds the weirdest, funniest and strangest news :cool:
You know that mercurial always finds the weirdest, funniest and strangest news :cool:
Lino
28-03-2008, 03:00 PM
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Lino
28-03-2008, 03:01 PM
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mercurial
28-03-2008, 03:02 PM
Holy ****, She Just Canceled On Me
No ways dude! For real?
No ways dude! For real?
Lino
28-03-2008, 03:04 PM
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The_Techie
28-03-2008, 03:05 PM
Tough luck, dude :(
Lino
28-03-2008, 03:06 PM
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The_Techie
28-03-2008, 03:07 PM
Eh, there goes this evenings date. FFS what am I gonna do this evening now
Do you have any alcohol? Problem solved :p
Do you have any alcohol? Problem solved :p
mercurial
28-03-2008, 03:09 PM
WTF. Of all the excuses. Man that is not cool :(
She coulda at least pretended it was more urgent. Like someone died or something. Then the classic reverse psychology at the end - "I'll understand if you're mad at me." EFF that dude. Be mad at her. Ignore her for a few weeks.
She coulda at least pretended it was more urgent. Like someone died or something. Then the classic reverse psychology at the end - "I'll understand if you're mad at me." EFF that dude. Be mad at her. Ignore her for a few weeks.
Lino
28-03-2008, 03:13 PM
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mercurial
28-03-2008, 03:15 PM
More like a few years, geez talk about being pissed off. Even had a haircut for this evening.
Ok for this evening I need
a) Cigarettes
b) Alcohol
c) Food
d) Lots of movies to watch on PC
I totally understand what you're feeling. I went through the same shirt a few times. It's a real downer. Delete her dude. Delete her.
Ok for this evening I need
a) Cigarettes
b) Alcohol
c) Food
d) Lots of movies to watch on PC
I totally understand what you're feeling. I went through the same shirt a few times. It's a real downer. Delete her dude. Delete her.
Lino
28-03-2008, 03:19 PM
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Fuma
28-03-2008, 03:21 PM
More like a few years, geez talk about being pissed off. Even had a haircut for this evening.
Ok for this evening I need
a) Cigarettes
b) Alcohol
c) Food
d) Lots of movies to watch on PC
No dude, u'll feel even worse the following day.
I also got stood up for this weekend. Just get a hooker man. Bang the shyte out her. That's what I'm planning to do. :D
Ok for this evening I need
a) Cigarettes
b) Alcohol
c) Food
d) Lots of movies to watch on PC
No dude, u'll feel even worse the following day.
I also got stood up for this weekend. Just get a hooker man. Bang the shyte out her. That's what I'm planning to do. :D
mercurial
28-03-2008, 03:21 PM
I have got to, "finger wants to press the delete button" trys to.
Eh oh well thanks for listening guys, going out for a drink with a friend this evening instead
Lol. Take it easy ;)
Eh oh well thanks for listening guys, going out for a drink with a friend this evening instead
Lol. Take it easy ;)
mercurial
28-03-2008, 03:21 PM
No dude, u'll feel even worse the following day.
I also got stood up for this weekend. Just get a hooker man. Bang the shyte out her. That's what I'm planning to do. :D
ROFLMAO
I also got stood up for this weekend. Just get a hooker man. Bang the shyte out her. That's what I'm planning to do. :D
ROFLMAO
The_Techie
28-03-2008, 03:23 PM
No dude, u'll feel even worse the following day.
I also got stood up for this weekend. Just get a hooker man. Bang the shyte out her. That's what I'm planning to do. :D
:eek:
I also got stood up for this weekend. Just get a hooker man. Bang the shyte out her. That's what I'm planning to do. :D
:eek: