Blind dating/ internet dating do not carry pretty gals
I've learnt to accept this and mostly it' true.. The fact that a girl/boy needs to be blind dated or advertise themselves on internet today mostly means they are not often looked at or wanted possibly because they ain't attractive enough (opposite of pretty, handsome, cute, beautiful, sexy, charming)... So, if you on a blind date, lower your expectations especially if you like pretty partners.. am i wrong?
Yup, you're wrong.Originally Posted by sonxEr77
Often it's more of a mental problem than a physical problem. E.g. girls with low self esteems (many possible reasons, not only physical appearance), but that's not always the case. Normal people do actually chat online and meet people from online.
Then again, my normal isn't everybody else's normal
What's your personal experience?
I have a friend who met a stunningly pretty girl online. They dated and later married. She says she went online specifically to give the opportunity to get to know people without her looks being a major issue. She did post pics of herself but specifically chose average looking pics to downplay her looks.
I think its people with mental and physical issues
Dont date someone you met in a chatroom or on a dating website. You will have issues, and if you meet someone through mxit or something like that, expect the person to be ugly, chubby and poor.
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You are wrong...kind of.ive met 3 stunning girls(And dated two of them) through blind dating...well it was through mxit so i dont know if that counts
But in a way your right because for every 1 hot girl i find in the chatroom theres 10-12 ugly girls.
The best thing is when you find a hot girl who thinks shes not pretty...i think the technical term for it is "Low self-image".
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I met a girl through mxit and she was ****ing hot mate, to this day i stil think about her, great figure,nice ass,big tits,great personality,sexy as ****.ended up dating her for 6 months before she dumped me...so you do meet great girls through mxit/Blind dating.
But in general its a bad idea,ive been on mxit for 3 years but iv only ever met 4 girls thru it...and only 1 was ugly,chubby,fat etc
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Wow, you look for girls with low self-image? How screwed up is that...
One day you'll realise that the only girls actually worth being with are confident and independent, unless for some odd reason you like high maintenance.
I guess some people have low self esteem themselves so having a girl with low self image who becomes dependent on them is attractive?
Haha...wel i didnt think about it that deeply rsd...just prefer a pretty girl who doesnt think shes the best thing since minki v.d westhuizen.
From my (Limited) experience i find that girls who know that they are very sexy are more high maintenance, and give you alot more sleepless nights as shel usualy flirt with most guys.
Id rather take a pretty girl with a few "issues" anyday.
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Fair enough, each to his own I guess.
I think there's a graph of insanity vs hotness, so you just need to hit the right balance
Edit: There are always exceptions, but generally sexier girls are less sane, for whatever reason
Did two blind dates, was not impressed.. Never been on mixit! Seems cool for what am gathering in this thread, but won't try't ... Facebook!!!? have coupler friends there but all taken... i've been skyped by three strangers (3 gals), but they all fat & don look good. From that i thought pretty gals won't go all out to find guys on skype since every guy wants them.. In fact, pretty gals do not easily make friends with guys online...
Try www.fastdate.co.za - I've never been to speed dating but went to a singles party once. Lots of fun (some clean, some dirty)!
I know a girl who is perfect in every aspect. Kind, caring, beautiful, sexy, even has me as a friend (maybe, sort of), intelligent, mentally solid as a rock ... but there's a catch.
She's already married ... to an engineer. A university engineer. The kind of engineer that walked straight out of university into a job at SAP.
I would sell my soul to have at least some kind of romantic relationship with her.
Last edited by Picard; 22-03-2008 at 11:11 AM.
The only part about any of the above that matters is that she is married so you should move on ... or ask if she has a sister.I know a girl who is perfect in every aspect. Kind, caring, beautiful, sexy, even has me as a friend (maybe, sort of), intelligent, mentally solid as a rock ... but there's a catch.
She's already married ... to an engineer. A university engineer. The kind of engineer that walked straight out of university into a job at SAP.
I would sell my soul to have at least some kind of romantic relationship with her.
My experience ..... Blind Dating: have only been 'let down' once and it still wasn't that bad (I was just being picky). All other blind dates have been very cool and some even turned into relationships. Now Internet Dating on the other hand has been mostly bad. Like a ratio of 1 cool chick to every 10 (let's be nice and say) 'ugly ducklings'. Strangely the two cool ones I had, the chicks were both from Joburg. Met one and had a fling (damn hot and bi to boot). Suppose it depends on your luck but I would rather blind date any day.
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I reckon though that if you just want to 'score with a sexy girl' there are cost and time effective ways of doing that.
If you want a long term serious relationship then looks are generally not the factor that make it last.
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