Okay so many of you know I have had some solid advice for heartbroken or scared guys trying to ask a girl out. Going into the psychological aspect on what gets a girl going and unique ways to approach getting her to go out with you and how to tell when she's interested etc.
But now I need advice.
Met a girl, dated for 6 months, broke up for various reasons I won't discuss here. Stayed friends (because the level ground friendship was awesome, everything went well, no awkwardness) and then me leaving for Dubai somehow awakened something in her again. That interest was obvious and was there for about 2 weeks before it dissapated.
Now I know I probably overly indulged in speaking with her every day, or calling once or twice a week. She's coming to Dubai in June anyway, so before you go "Long distance don't work etc"
Anyway, she's hinted several times (before the recent dissapation of interest which is noticable) that she might want to date me again when she's here. Citing silly little reasons etc. Now I know its going to be an open field sort of, there are guys interested in her and she might be interested back. So the window of opportunity is there.
I won't mind getting back together with her, because our friendship survived the breakup and the feelings again arose (haven't spoken directly about that day in fear of "pushing" too much for an answer she's not sure about yet). She's mentioned several times that she still loves me.
Now because of this interest that was there, thats not there anymore (from her frequency of wanting to talk to me and cute nicknames like skattie and liefie that was thrown from her side and the obvious "impressed and in love" vibe I got from her when I dropped the word baby or skattie as well once or twice)... it's started to decline again and feel like it's been right before our break up (we broke up 3 times and got back together etc in a space of a month)
So. Your opinion. How can I "plant" that seed of "want" again in her?
I know there's still a chance there. I just want her to feel the feeling that she had 2 weeks ago when I left again and wanted to be with me. Now you're going to say that me leaving had a big part in playing towards this "OMG I'm going to lose him" type feeling, but things have happend in the past that makes me think otherwise. So knowing that I have already considered that fact....
Any advice on how to get that feeling stirred back up in her?