Didnt really know how to title the topic.
Would God have me cross paths with someone and then not have that "impact" have a purpose?
For example (which is perfect but unrelated to my prayer/thoughts/questions)
You met your ex, everything was good, it all turned to crap, and then you met someone else. Without your ex you wouldn't have grown in the experience of a dysfunctional relationship. You as a person would have maybe met the 2nd girl, unprepared and have made the mistakes you would have made (if it was your fault, lol) with your ex. Essentially ruining something that could have been perfect.
Am I getting my point across successfully??
Would God send someone that impacts your life without purpose or meaning? And how do you determine where He is leading you with this experience?
I'm in two trains of thoughts on this one, both heading towards the "He wouldnt do it without a purpose" station.
I'd just love to hear others' opinions on this