ThreadKiller XIX: No Pants Party

[ChilliGirl]

Good point, Ros. Follow up Q: How do I tell when a guy is flirting with me? I just assume people are friendly and don't read into it until my friends tell me I completely missed something...

I have on occassion noticed that there are different levels of friendly.

Today I nearly kicked someone. The guy was being intentionally daft at the subtle hints of no. He kept asking for a hug and openly flirting. I kept saying no. I don't want hugs, dinner, gifts or anything else from him...

[Ekstasis]

i'm still a firm believer in more than a handful is a waste

[ChilliGirl]

I was about to say the same thing.

And giggles? Really?

Only if you are Ockie....

[ChilliGirl]

i'm still a firm believer in more than a handful is a waste

Thank god you are not my Italian.....

[Ekstasis]

I have on occassion noticed that there are different levels of friendly.

Today I nearly kicked someone. The guy was being intentionally daft at the subtle hints of no. He kept asking for a hug and openly flirting. I kept saying no. I don't want hugs, dinner, gifts or anything else from him...

Yeah but why didn't you just kick him in da nots?

[Ekstasis]

Thank god you are not my Italian.....

Thank God for that yes. Jy's 'n baie moeilike een..

[Helghast]

Actually, it's less about knowing if she's interested and more that it's obvious when shes not.

Yeah you will def know if she's not interested. She may look interested but she's just being friendly... But there are stuff you do when you are interested in someone and not just being friendly.

[ChilliGirl]

Yeah but why didn't you just kick him in da nots?

Coz I was at a client (store) and he is one of their best buying clients.

Not the first time. I think to him it is a fun game he enjoys playing.

[Helghast]

Honestly don't need that crap. I can just tell.

sub-consciously through those tells.

[AvatarS]

I dunno. If you're having a good conversation you can just tell by her enthusiasm.

Edit: And concentration. If they're looking at my eyes when I look away and look back. It's on.

This is what I thought. But it seems most guys don't think this way...

[ChilliGirl]

Thank god for that yes. Jy's 'n baie moeilike een..

I aint gonna get cut down by half, just so that they meet with your approval.

[Helghast]

I have on occassion noticed that there are different levels of friendly.

Today I nearly kicked someone. The guy was being intentionally daft at the subtle hints of no. He kept asking for a hug and openly flirting. I kept saying no. I don't want hugs, dinner, gifts or anything else from him...

Who begs for hugs?
Must've been a LHC member... no wait we're not so forward.

[Helghast]

I dunno. If you're having a good conversation you can just tell by her enthusiasm.

Edit: And concentration. If they're looking at my eyes when I look away and look back. It's on.

The thing with enthusiasm is that tell doesn't work with bubbly girls.

[Rosaudio]

Who begs for hugs?
Must've been a LHC member... no wait we're not so forward.

i've begged for hugs before

[Ekstasis]

Coz I was at a client (store) and he is one of their best buying clients.

Not the first time. I think to him it is a fun game he enjoys playing.

That's a difficult one. I reckon at some point you might have to lay it out nice and clear for the twat. You must remember us men a furking stupid when we try to be smooth with the ladies. I honestly think that men are WAY more transparent than women