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Thread: transparency with your SO - how healthy is it exactly? where do you draw the line?

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    My Ex was very transparent...I was dating an Albino.

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    Quote Originally Posted by abzo View Post
    My Ex was very transparent...I was dating an Albino.
    Someone wants to set me up with a girl who lives in a plastic bubble.

    I'll look into it.
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    I don't tell her everything, I'm to forgetful. So I only tell her something if she ask about it. Other than that, just the normal generic conversations.
    If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Polly101 View Post
    see now there's the problem - we want understanding and compassion - not an offer to go beat the guy up
    Get a gay friend for that. We are here to serve and protect.
    If you don't understand the argument well enough that you could switch sides and represent the other team, stop arguing.

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    I find that given the fact I cannot share anything about my livelihood and work, I tend to compensate by sharing the trivial things that happen during the day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by abzo View Post
    My Ex was very transparent...I was dating an Albino.
    I LOL'ed but I feel guilty now

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    IMO, there are few things worse than a woman finding out about something from a third party. she is then thinking "why couldn't her tell me? is he hiding something? i wish he would trust me!"
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    Quote Originally Posted by techead View Post
    I just got hit on by an attractive, petite blond sales lady. I could have dont anything I wanted to but I gave her the bat Do you tell all to the SO at the good chance of building her insecurity(bad), or do you tell all to the SO at the slim chance it will go down well and that you are maintaining the transparency in the relationship? (good)

    thoughts?

    she's in sales bud.. she would hit on a labrador if it got her the business.

    Anyway I always tell my wife when I get hit on. She always needs a good laugh!
    I've got to stop saying "how stupid can you be?"...........Too many people are taking it as a challenge.

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    [QUOTE=Polly101;8594419][QUOTE=Nerfherder;8588081]. I tell her I'll come in to work and sort this dude out. She decided to rather sort out her own problems and not get me involved.

    Now she does not tell me if a dude is giving her issues at work. So is this a bad thing ?
    No, not at all. She as decided that my reaction is way worse than having to deal with the dude at work.

    see now there's the problem - we want understanding and compassion - not an offer to go beat the guy up
    Thats not the point... the point is you need to judge the reaction. You can't decide what the other person is going to feel about the situation
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