My Ex was very transparent...I was dating an Albino.
My Ex was very transparent...I was dating an Albino.
I don't tell her everything, I'm to forgetful. So I only tell her something if she ask about it. Other than that, just the normal generic conversations.
If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun.
I find that given the fact I cannot share anything about my livelihood and work, I tend to compensate by sharing the trivial things that happen during the day.
IMO, there are few things worse than a woman finding out about something from a third party. she is then thinking "why couldn't her tell me? is he hiding something? i wish he would trust me!"
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[QUOTE=Polly101;8594419][QUOTE=Nerfherder;8588081]. I tell her I'll come in to work and sort this dude out. She decided to rather sort out her own problems and not get me involved.
Now she does not tell me if a dude is giving her issues at work. So is this a bad thing ?
No, not at all. She as decided that my reaction is way worse than having to deal with the dude at work.
Thats not the point... the point is you need to judge the reaction. You can't decide what the other person is going to feel about the situation
see now there's the problem - we want understanding and compassion - not an offer to go beat the guy up
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