There's this other guy who's friends with both me and Kai who suddenly started taking an interest in me again and basically invited me over to ****. I think they probably saw each other at the 8 May celebration party last week, so I suspect he might know something I don't.
The problem is I met a lot of new people through him and I'd like to stay friends with all of them. However, if things turn ugly I know I'd probably lose most of them as friends because they would likely take his side over mine simply by virtue of them being friends for longer.
Well, I've decided to break up with my boyfriend. It's now been a full week since I last heard anything from him. I'm not going to continue telling myself to wait for things to improve when they're clearly not going to. It seems that if I don't initiate contact he simply doesn't care to do it himself.
I'm not really looking forward to it, because I'm hoping it will go off calmly, but fat chance of that happening with me involved. One wrong word and my temper flares out of control.
Haha, that is the weirdest situation I've heard about in quite some time. I don't really know. Logic would dictate you rather walk away, but I know if I were in such a situation I probably wouldn't just walk away.
The thing is I really like him and it's great when we actually get the chance to be together, it just doesn't happen as often as it should. We do at least speak on a daily basis, so it's not like we don't communicate at all. He's just so bogged down with all the modules he's taking this semester. Thankfully we he lives in Blaauwberg so we'll be able to see each other a lot after exams and his next semester shouldn't be as hectic.
If I didn't like him as much I would have broken it off long ago. Some days I feel that I really should, especially when I'm hanging out somewhere and have to pass up opportunities to hook up with other guys. I dunno. I feel that if he's so busy we should at least be able to have a quick dinner together every other night, even if it means just seeing each other for 15 minutes at a time.
Maybe I'm also at fault because I always downplay it whenever he says something about it.
Stable relationships aren't always all they're cracked up to be. I'm actually thinking of breaking mine off because I barely ever see my boyfriend. I've seen my boyfriend only twice in the last month because he's always so busy with studies and whatnot. Most days it feels like I'm single, with the exception that I can't **** around.
Not that I don't like him, mind. I'd even say I'm in love with him at this point, but at our age it doesn't help to be in a relationship where you never see each other.