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  • Excellent news! I'm in Stellenbosch this weekend, so just let me know if you want to do anything.
    It's a bit early to say because I don't want to say yes and then have something come up, but I'll let you know this week. I shouldn't have anything going on, though.
    So now my boyfriend has suddenly taken an interest in me again and is acting all nice. I'm still going to break up with him, but this makes it considerably more difficult. :(

    Also, I've been meaning to ask, but did you know a guy called Wiaan while you were studying here in Stellenbosch?

    Oh, and nowadays I'm in Stellenbosch most weekends. Just message me whenever you feel like having a beer.
    Oh yeah, that's right. Well, let me know whenever you're in town. :D

    The next month is just going to be hectic. I'm writing all of my exams in the next 5 weeks.
    Nah, he's very much a normal white South African guy.

    And not really. If he breaks up with me it would actually be a relief. It would save me the trouble of doing it myself and it would mean there probably won't be drama involved. :p
    Not yet. I doubt I'll have the chance this week.

    There's this other guy who's friends with both me and Kai who suddenly started taking an interest in me again and basically invited me over to ****. I think they probably saw each other at the 8 May celebration party last week, so I suspect he might know something I don't.
    Sure thing. I think I'm going to schedule something with him and then drive through sometime this week just to get it over with. Sitting and stewing on it isn't doing me any good.
    The problem is I met a lot of new people through him and I'd like to stay friends with all of them. However, if things turn ugly I know I'd probably lose most of them as friends because they would likely take his side over mine simply by virtue of them being friends for longer.
    Yeah, I'd prefer if it went down with little to no drama. The last thing I'm in the mood for is a fight and the drama that comes with it.

    I wouldn't mind staying his friend, but I'm not going to cry any crocodile tears if I never see him again either.
    Well, I've decided to break up with my boyfriend. It's now been a full week since I last heard anything from him. I'm not going to continue telling myself to wait for things to improve when they're clearly not going to. It seems that if I don't initiate contact he simply doesn't care to do it himself.

    I'm not really looking forward to it, because I'm hoping it will go off calmly, but fat chance of that happening with me involved. One wrong word and my temper flares out of control.
    Haha, that is the weirdest situation I've heard about in quite some time. I don't really know. Logic would dictate you rather walk away, but I know if I were in such a situation I probably wouldn't just walk away.
    The thing is I really like him and it's great when we actually get the chance to be together, it just doesn't happen as often as it should. We do at least speak on a daily basis, so it's not like we don't communicate at all. He's just so bogged down with all the modules he's taking this semester. Thankfully we he lives in Blaauwberg so we'll be able to see each other a lot after exams and his next semester shouldn't be as hectic.

    If I didn't like him as much I would have broken it off long ago. Some days I feel that I really should, especially when I'm hanging out somewhere and have to pass up opportunities to hook up with other guys. I dunno. I feel that if he's so busy we should at least be able to have a quick dinner together every other night, even if it means just seeing each other for 15 minutes at a time.

    Maybe I'm also at fault because I always downplay it whenever he says something about it.
    That's the thing. It's not even long distance. He lives in Dagbreek. That's about a 5min walk away, yet we never get a chance to see each other.

    Yeah, getting between people is usually not a good idea. People are very likely to resent you for it afterwards.
    Stable relationships aren't always all they're cracked up to be. I'm actually thinking of breaking mine off because I barely ever see my boyfriend. I've seen my boyfriend only twice in the last month because he's always so busy with studies and whatnot. Most days it feels like I'm single, with the exception that I can't **** around.

    Not that I don't like him, mind. I'd even say I'm in love with him at this point, but at our age it doesn't help to be in a relationship where you never see each other.
    Damn, that really sucks. :(

    Where are your parents? I recall Shane mentioned something about you being at home while your parents aren't there a while back.

    Also, how do cross-continental relationships even work? :wtf:
    I'm doing alright. Procrastinating a lot, but otherwise life is going good. You?
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