I'm 40 years and taken a while to get here, but living expenses adding up quick, currently still in South Africa.
Unfortunately can't just go crazy and buy anything as can be seen with below, if we cut back on a few line items, there is more freely available cash flow
Tax sits at just over 50k a month
Medical 15k - from CTC
Prov fund 20k - from CTC
Primary School - 13k
Groceries - 15k
Insurance - 4.5k
Car - 10k
House - 20k
Utilities, water, lights - 5k
Security, Fibre, Netflix, Youtube etc - R2k
Savings, Tax free, kids savings etc - R5k
Entertainment, restaurants, gym etc - R8k
Domestic, Garden - R5k