How's Tinder these days?

Many moons ago, I used tinder pretty regularly. I met my now ex-fiancée on there.
Alas after seven years absence, downloaded Tinder again.
So… how’s Tinder these days?
Same same but different.
The mechanics haven’t changed. Swipe left, swipe right, match, chat.
At its core, it still does what us okes hope it will do: connect you to someone that'll make your dick wet.
But the people? That’s where things feel different.
Women are far less skaam. More direct. Sometimes brutally so. There’s less of that tiptoeing energy and more “this is what I want, take it or leave it.” That really stuck out as different for me. Not necessarily worse, not necessarily better.... just different.
It almost feels like the playing field has levelled out. The kind of bluntness and confidence that used to be stereotypically “guy behaviour” is now coming from these dolls too. Not in a slutty way, but in a “I’m not here to waste time” kind of way.
 
Smiggles said:
Tldr: It’s still a waste of time lol.
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When I read your post, in my mind I was still at:
At its core, it still does what us okes hope it will do: connect you to someone that'll make your dick wet.
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From the post above yours.

So I read your post as Trill and not Tldr...

WTF :ROFL:
 
bubblebrain8 said:
Many moons ago, I used tinder pretty regularly. I met my now ex-fiancée on there.
Alas after seven years absence, downloaded Tinder again.
So… how’s Tinder these days?
Same same but different.
The mechanics haven’t changed. Swipe left, swipe right, match, chat.
At its core, it still does what us okes hope it will do: connect you to someone that'll make your dick wet.
But the people? That’s where things feel different.
Women are far less skaam. More direct. Sometimes brutally so. There’s less of that tiptoeing energy and more “this is what I want, take it or leave it.” That really stuck out as different for me. Not necessarily worse, not necessarily better.... just different.
It almost feels like the playing field has levelled out. The kind of bluntness and confidence that used to be stereotypically “guy behaviour” is now coming from these dolls too. Not in a slutty way, but in a “I’m not here to waste time” kind of way.
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Which is probably a good thing because people pleasing wastes so much time/energy for both parties and ladies are historically more prone to it than guys.
 
bubblebrain8 said:
No, not at all. What part did you not understand?

It literally can get you a long term or short term relationship. Don't know what else you expect from tinder
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As you yourself said they demand what they want and that's the top 5% of men. If you're not exceptionally good looking with great game and money you're screwed. You might get lucky with some fat girl or some single mom with 4 kids but that's about it.
 
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bubblebrain8 said:
No, not at all. What part did you not understand?

It literally can get you a long term or short term relationship. Don't know what else you expect from tinder
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Listen buddy, this thread is for incel losers cherry picking women they don't like while complaining that they cant get laid.

Joe Rogan has this covered
 
Tim_vb said:
since when do you become entitled to harass someone based on their appearance or dress?
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Dude you never check out a girl/man/helicoptor/alien at the club?

Nowadays, even glancing at a girl is sexual harrassment.

I once watch a clip of woman who was in the US Army who ranted for 10 minutes how she was sexually assualted by a platoon member and when she complained, they only slapped himon wrists by getting him to apologise to her.

People then replied to her video giving the full story, the soldier found sexual content of her on a public platform which she uploaded herself and shared the link with the rest of the platoon.
 
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