50 Shades of grey - Reality vs Expectation

STS

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Seems we're on a role :p

There is a BDSM club in Joburg that I've been to twice since I've moved here. It's quite an exciting atmosphere and I got into many conversations with people there, as well as watched people play out in the open with rope bondage, spankings, whippings and voyeurism.

It's interesting to meet the people and couples there, and to hear their stories, but I had 3 opportunities of meeting 1 couple, 1 guy and 1 woman separately and discussing the events with them.

Meeting the guy was perhaps the funniest, as he seemed like a seriously butch rugby guy, and the scene we were watching was a bi guy whipping another man's testicles. It looked extremely painful, but the guy enjoyed receiving it, so yeah :p the butch guy's reaction was "jisssusss, I came here to see 50 shades of grey and I end up watching two ou's bliksem each other" :p

With ever whip I heard him scream "jaaaaaa" behind me, and after awhile I heard him say "*** dit" and left :p

With the books becoming so popular, I've heard a lot of new people were beginning to go, another club has opened up recently and I'm finding people everywhere have the books lying around :p

another hilarious event is that my mother has just requested my brother to download her the ebooks :D. She is in for a shock :twisted:
 

_Hecate_

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My mother read the books lol she was disgusted but still kept on reading.

I started the first book but it was really boring and I didn't learn anything new I didn't already know. Helps having a Dominatrix as a friend. I am however glad ppl are reading it and becoming more used to the idea of bdsm and other fetishes.
 

Glingfram

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Good for the world, exploring their sexuality with no fear of reprisal from The Great Oppressor In The Sky :)
 
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Picard

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I would rather be the one dishing out the BDSM
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(that's if I were into that kind of thing
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) than receiving it.
 
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AfricanTech

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I would rather be the one dishing out the BDSM
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(that's if I were into that kind of thing
bleh.gif
) than receiving it.

Oi? How you adding them custom smilies?

Ooer! on topic - 50 Shades - most successful PR exercise ever - the writing and plot was terrible.
 
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Veraclus

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A dominatrix is a "moer hoer" in afrikaans, I have decided. Now to start rewriting 50 Shades of Grey in Afrikaans...
 

DTBA

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My girl friend started to read this book and she changed for the betteR :D
 

R13...

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The books where the best thing ever for our marriage ;)

It will be mandatory reading for my two daughters when they prepare for marriage on day.

Really? But I do notice that the people who enjoy them aren't your normal everyday book reading types.
 
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