Just because you believe you work harder than me (because you're a woman) doesn't make it so. I work just as hard as my wife. We both share the chores at home 50/50. We both maintain the household. We also offset one "job" that I'm good at with one that she's good at.
How many men can't make a decent dinner for themselves? PLENTY! How many men "can't do washing" because they "don't know how the machine works"? PLENTY. Etc etc. The stereotype of the women being away from home and the man living off take-aways (if darling women has not left him pre-made meals) and making the place filthy is a stereotype for a reason.