Guys, please just remember everything here in Europe is very dense (even most of the residents).
It doesnt cost as much to lay e.g. 10sq km of cabling for adsl and the amount of people you reach with that cabling is insane. South Africa has really nice big houses, large gardens and open spaces, and I think this probably compounds the problem because half the time certain things just arent cost effective.
Perhaps, as the South African "internet population" matures and becomes larger you will see prices tumbling as demand increases, but you really shouldnt be jealous of Europe, it's a totally different ballgame. e.g. this year, for the first time since records have been kept, online sales in the UK exceeded sales from brick and mortar shops. That is the type of situation Europe is in...and that is what drives the demand for faster speeds.....I would love to see South Africa in that same situation, but it wont happen overnight will it? But when it does (and believe me...it will) then you guys will doing backflips down the highway with happiness.
I got to UK in '97, and dialup was all the rage, and forums were full of people compaining that the yanks and japanese got adsl/cable/fttp etc. Then they introduced adsl and the forums were full of people complaining that it was too expensive and the yanks and japanese have it better. Now it is getting to be more of a level playing field.
About a 6 year cycle I think...and S.A. seems to be on year 2 or year 3 of this cycle. Patience is a wondeful thing.