Advice you wish someone had told you when you were younger?

DA-LION-619

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Never become too self involved to lose the love of someone who truly care for you.
 
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Ancalagon

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Don't get into the friendzone. Just dont. And the only way not to, is to make a move fairly soon after meeting a girl you like.
 
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Nothing good happens after 2am, just go sleep

If you are not in bed by 10, come home

This. Some of my biggest regrets happened after 2AM. If the clock strikes 2, say your goodnights and go to bed. The end.

Christ you people are boring, many many good things happen after 2AM... Most of the greatest moments of my life happened after 2AM, all the ****ty things happen when boring people such as yourselves are awake;)
 

cerebus

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New Years Eve events are always rubbish. Stay in and go to bed as normal.
 

Wezzy777

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My only piece of advice - Do what you love and love what you do.

+3 on the 2am thing, nothing great happens after 2am. I'm not talking about a party that carries through the night but if you are at home and someone invites you out and it's past 2am just stay home because you will have a bad time....mmmmkay.
 

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Attend all your first semester lectures & NEVER take a personal loan.
Oh and never believe a girl when she says she's on some sort of birth control :crying:
 

Zewp

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Christ you people are boring, many many good things happen after 2AM... Most of the greatest moments of my life happened after 2AM, all the ****ty things happen when boring people such as yourselves are awake;)

If knowing when it's time to go to bed is boring, then yeah, I guess I am. I've never had anything good happen after 2AM. Never. The last time I thought it was a good idea to party past 2AM I ended up in a devil's threesome, the details of which I hope I never have to speak about.

Little boring old me will go to bed at 2AM, thanks.
 

Skrilla

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I got my first BJ after 2am so, yeah, I'll continue to party later than that for as long as I can.
 

Sherbang

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Don't get into the friendzone. Just dont. And the only way not to, is to make a move fairly soon after meeting a girl you like.

This is terrible advice. Irrespective of whether or not you make a move fairly soon after meeting a girl you like, if she's not interested in you then she's not interested. Move on. This doesn't mean you can't be friends though, even close friends, and as you grow older you realise just how valuable, necessary and fulfilling it is to have good friends in your life. This idea that you shouldn't allow yourself to be friends with someone you are, or were, interested in, is just rubbish.
 

Ancalagon

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This is terrible advice. Irrespective of whether or not you make a move fairly soon after meeting a girl you like, if she's not interested in you then she's not interested. Move on. This doesn't mean you can't be friends though, even close friends, and as you grow older you realise just how valuable, necessary and fulfilling it is to have good friends in your life. This idea that you shouldn't allow yourself to be friends with someone you are, or were, interested in, is just rubbish.

I'm sorry, please point out where I said do not ever be friends with people of the opposite sex? Just dont get into the friend zone, that's all!

You can be friends if you aren't interested. If you are interested, and friends, there is a 95% chance that you will be in the friendzone, and the reason will be that you did not make a move. If you like spending a lot of time around someone that you really like but can never have, then by all means, become friends with them.
 

Sherbang

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I'm sorry, please point out where I said do not ever be friends with people of the opposite sex? Just dont get into the friend zone, that's all!

You can be friends if you aren't interested. If you are interested, and friends, there is a 95% chance that you will be in the friendzone, and the reason will be that you did not make a move. If you like spending a lot of time around someone that you really like but can never have, then by all means, become friends with them.
I never claimed that you said do not ever be friends with people of the opposite sex, so why would I try point it out.
You did say don't get into the friend zone.
The friendzone is a place where you are interested in sex/romance but she (or he) is not interested in sex/romance but is interested in friendship. There is nothing wrong with the friend zone. There is nothing wrong with being in it.
Saying "Don't get into the friendzone. Just dont." and then saying "If you like spending a lot of time around someone that you really like but can never have, then by all means, become friends with them." is totally contradictory, you're saying "don't get into the friendzone but if you don't mind then go ahead" :wtf:
 
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