Please would you be so kind as to outline what attitude should be adopted by tax paying victims of the glorious liberation movement?
I'd say an understanding that there are people out there for whom democracy just doesn't work. Rural folks that are ignorant of the scale at which the ANC steals. Within their context the ANC are doing fine. They continue to vote ANC. These people don't have the opportunity to "wake up".
There are also people that are intimidated. They vote ANC because doing so keeps them safe within their communities.
It's unlikely to be as straightforward as people should just "wake up".
If someone genuinely understands what the ANC are doing and still votes for them of their own free will then yes, "fk em" is the perfect attitude. I don't think that applies to a significant portion of this country though.
A problem can't be solved if it isn't understood. It definitely can't be solved if it's simply dismissed with a "fk em".