Another Straw poll '''What do you pay your domestic worker?

Dolby

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Thank god. Thought I had lost my mind that anyone would suggest that....

On MyBB you really need to ignore certain advice.

I started a thread about my tenant not being able to pay me - but I was the tyrant for wanting to ask her to leave. Instead I was supposed to feed, clothe and help them out with anything to get through such a trying time ...

EDIT : And no - very few people I'd share with
 

Celine

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my housekeeper works for me twice a week and lives on the property. i pay her R1300 per month. she eats whatever she wants and i give her supper when i cook at night. she works whatever times she wants as long as she cleans and does whatever she needs to do. i do the washing and dishes. occasionally she will come in on a saturday morning to do a quick clean because she says i give her accommodation and food for free. i don't see it like that actually, i just see it as helping her. she works for my friend the other 3 days.
 

xrapidx

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Other peoples problems are not mine. And the older I get, the more I stick to it. Our domestic worker has had two kids while with us, she had three when she started, and she looks pregnant again... Now I'm meant to feel sorry for her because she's the breadwinner?

I don't even have kids yet at 34 because I'm not confident I can support them with what they need (a decent private education)
 

zippy

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Anyone really know what a straw poll is ?

http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straw_poll

A straw poll or straw vote is a vote with nonbinding results. Straw polls provide dialogue among movements within large groups.[1][2] In meetings subject to rules of order, impromptu straw polls often are taken to see if there is enough support for an idea to devote more meeting time to it, and (when not a secret ballot) for the attendees to see who is on which side of a question. However, Robert's Rules of Order prohibits straw polls, calling them "meaningless and dilatory" because they subvert the deliberative charge of deliberative bodies.[3] Among political bodies, straw polls often are scheduled for events at which many people interested in the polling question can be expected to vote. Sometimes polls conducted without ordinary voting controls in place (i.e., on an honor system, such as in online polls) are also called "straw polls".

The idiom may allude to a straw (thin plant stalk) held up to see in what direction the wind blows, in this case, the wind of group opinion.[4][5][6]
 

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Yes, I was just dumbstruck that the suggestion was put to table. I was actually wondering if it was a joke. Do you share like that with your domestic and her family? I would not open myself to that type of situation.

I dont have a domestic. I cant afford the admin and find it difficult to hand over the keys to my meagre belongings in this land of opportunity. I would not trust myself when someone handed me the keys to a Million Rand house and expect everything to be there when they come back for R180 a day. ( -R60 for a taxi ). I shall not put another person to that test. And i think it is just bad form not to clean your own ****ter.
 
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Spizz

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Other peoples problems are not mine. And the older I get, the more I stick to it. Our domestic worker has had two kids while with us, she had three when she started, and she looks pregnant again... Now I'm meant to feel sorry for her because she's the breadwinner?

I don't even have kids yet at 34 because I'm not confident I can support them with what they need (a decent private education)

My domestic worker left on Thursday to go to the EC until August to give birth to her second kid. She's in her 20s and has no boyfriend and the first kid stays with her Mum there in Ciskei also. She'll be back to work end of August as I'll keep her job open as I'm really happy with her and like her as a person, but my goodness what a bleak outlook for the poor lass. I've decided to pay her her full salary while she's away and I give her so much else she now feels like my responsibility anyway.

So I guess I've made her problems mine and I'm quite happy to do that, but to what end? How on earth is she going to change her circumstances and empower herself in this cycle of dependency and hopelessness she's entered?
 

Rickster

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4 Bedroom,3 dogs, cooking plus cleaning, lives in domestic quarters, 5 days a week 7-5. R2000


Edit: shares our supper.
 
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ToxicBunny

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Wow... I'm surprised so many people still have full time maids. I could never even contemplate that anymore.
 

HavocXphere

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Think I'll start posting random fullstops as responses to mess with people now...

I want my stuff to stay where I put it. So no domestic.
 

Lupus

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No domestic either can't see how people afford them
 

Skrilla

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On MyBB you really need to ignore certain advice.

I started a thread about my tenant not being able to pay me - but I was the tyrant for wanting to ask her to leave. Instead I was supposed to feed, clothe and help them out with anything to get through such a trying time ...

EDIT : And no - very few people I'd share with

Most of the time, if you listen to advice you get here, you'll end up in jail.
 

Skrilla

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Other peoples problems are not mine. And the older I get, the more I stick to it. Our domestic worker has had two kids while with us, she had three when she started, and she looks pregnant again... Now I'm meant to feel sorry for her because she's the breadwinner?

I don't even have kids yet at 34 because I'm not confident I can support them with what they need (a decent private education)

Amen to that.
 
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