Bad sex ruins a long relationship?

EMAM

Honorary Master
Joined
Nov 16, 2012
Messages
13,545
F@kken stout gat! Slaan hom ... slaan hom! :p

Fact is Mrs Ant ... the relationships out there that is as strong as the one you share with Mr. Ant is very far and in between. Many ... if not most will not survive it. It might not be a direct link to bad sex .. or no sex ... but it will have its effect on the relationship and it might have symtoms somewhere else in the relationship. It might not cause a nuclear reaction and blow the relationship into little pieces ... but it could very well cause a slow but progressive rot. My view anyway.

Ek sal hom een dag slaan (my afrikaans isn't very good), and if not me, somebody else will - karma is a biyatch!!!! I agree fully with what you are saying but it hasn't yet but who knows what will happen in the future.
 

Ockie

Resident Lead Bender
Joined
Feb 16, 2008
Messages
52,925
That is one skill that continues to elude me :(

Same ... I still gag when I try and brush my tongue haha. Though with a guy it is not that bad ... but no deepthroat ... I just cant do it :-(
 

Ockie

Resident Lead Bender
Joined
Feb 16, 2008
Messages
52,925
Ek sal hom een dag slaan (my afrikaans isn't very good), and if not me, somebody else will - karma is a biyatch!!!! I agree fully with what you are saying but it hasn't yet but who knows what will happen in the future.

Well ... was not aimed at you . Good grief ... the stuff you have survived ... if that does not get you down ... then nothing will.

Just out of curiosity. What will happen when Mr. Ant moves out at some point? Will the sex stop or are you planning on making a booty call every now and again? "Hey ... get your straight cap on and come serivce your ex wife .. you owe me!" :p - mmm .. not sure if that is a booty call or physoclogial blackmail? :D
 

Grant

Honorary Master
Joined
Mar 27, 2007
Messages
60,677
All this take-away talk is making me hungry :eek:

Cape Town offers a wealth of take-away options.
There is something for everyone, also an abundance of halaal, but kosher appears rather short in supply :D
 

senyetse

Senior Member
Joined
Mar 26, 2013
Messages
791
At the end of the day sex is a very important part of any relationship. We have sexual desires but in a long-term relationship sex is more than the just "scratching of an itch". Sex binds a couple, it affirms and strengthens the relationship - it is not only about the sex act, it is about the deeper connection, wanting to be desired, being able to receive and provide pleasure. If sex rarely happens then one begins to feel undesired, that special connection is lost.
 

EMAM

Honorary Master
Joined
Nov 16, 2012
Messages
13,545
Cape Town offers a wealth of take-away options.
There is something for everyone, also an abundance of halaal, but kosher appears rather short in supply :D

You are not looking in the right places.....there's plenty kosher but not in the 'open"!!!
 

EMAM

Honorary Master
Joined
Nov 16, 2012
Messages
13,545
Well ... was not aimed at you . Good grief ... the stuff you have survived ... if that does not get you down ... then nothing will.

Just out of curiosity. What will happen when Mr. Ant moves out at some point? Will the sex stop or are you planning on making a booty call every now and again? "Hey ... get your straight cap on and come serivce your ex wife .. you owe me!" :p - mmm .. not sure if that is a booty call or physoclogial blackmail? :D

mmmmm.......again.....maybe you should whatsapp mr_ant!!! hope you found the answers you were looking for this morning....
 

Ockie

Resident Lead Bender
Joined
Feb 16, 2008
Messages
52,925
Cape Town offers a wealth of take-away options.
There is something for everyone, also an abundance of halaal, but kosher appears rather short in supply :D

I did not know Cape Town has Jewish community to be honest. Soon as I hear Jewish I think Houghton or Orange Grove JHB :) ... but now we have Mr. Ant and Datura from Cape Town. Who would have thought.

How did that joke go on Will & Grace again ... Jack wanted to go with Grace (Jewish) with her new Jewish Doctor husband to a tropical island on their honeymoon and Karen in true from goes "Trust me honey ... you dont wanna go. A day on the beach with these two consists of hunting for the highest SPF at the lowest price! ROFL .... is that not the case in Cape Town then? ROFL. JUST KIDDING!
 

ShaunSA

Derailment Squad
Joined
Sep 7, 2005
Messages
49,839
Cape Town offers a wealth of take-away options.
There is something for everyone, also an abundance of halaal, but kosher appears rather short in supply :D

KZN has an abundance of nothing :(
 

EMAM

Honorary Master
Joined
Nov 16, 2012
Messages
13,545
Cape Town has a very big jewish community, not as big or observant as Joburg, but big enough!
 

Ockie

Resident Lead Bender
Joined
Feb 16, 2008
Messages
52,925
Previous thread - #452 - you asked me a question.............. you men are all the same, ask and forget.............

Oh ... sorry ... I thought you meant a question on Whatsapp.

Nope...I did not get a answer from you ... and I left it there :) Figured it is something you did not want to answer :)
 

ShaunSA

Derailment Squad
Joined
Sep 7, 2005
Messages
49,839
Oh ... sorry ... I thought you meant a question on Whatsapp.

Nope...I did not get a answer from you ... and I left it there :) Figured it is something you did not want to answer :)

You were supposed to read between the lines :p
 

EMAM

Honorary Master
Joined
Nov 16, 2012
Messages
13,545
Now I am even more fcking confused. WHAT IS GOING ON?

F@#k, men are all the same.....never mind...... There are just some questions I think are not appropriate to answer on a public forum, like #452 and the above - don't get your knickers in a knot now;)
 
Top