Bad sex : Worth leaving for?

[Surv0]

To quote the Bard -

Bad sex or no sex
That is the question.

no sex tx.... i could prob do better myself

I think what alot of ppl may miss, is that sex plays a HUGE role in building a relationship, maybe not so much when u get married, but before hand, its a maker or breaker.. the only people who would refute that are bible bashing christians who wont have sex before marriage...

 

[daveza]

no sex tx

It's a deal.

 

[Kim_Webchick]

Sex is important and if its not up to what you want speak to each other and do stuff thats fun and exciting and go from there

 

[guest2013-1]

In line with the sex and kissing threads, I'm just curious if you'd leave (or cheat?) your SO if the sex and kissing wasn't up to scratch?

I've heard that it makes a huge difference and is a potential relationship breaker, but I don't have the same view :/

My view without reading everyone's posts is this:

It takes practice in both. And if you're in a committed well rounded relationship and actually love each other, I don't see why there's a hurry to have "good" sex or kissing.

Teach each other. Try new things. Go ahead and explore. Leaving or cheating and giving that is a reason is just a cowards way out of a relationship that is doomed to fail even if it had great sex and kissing.

 

[superB]

W're on the same wave length superb - should we hook up?

In a heartbeat!

My place or yours?

 

[Kitten]

I Agree with you fully here..
Rather be honest with your partner than cheat with her - perhaps she has hiding agenders.

Tell her the truth on how the sex is feeling...
Try and bring new people into your sex life, like maybe a man and women to join and have a 3some.

Yeah I wouldn't cheat either ... unfortunately, you get those people who do ... and then you get the er, idjits, who accept these said people back into their lives over and over and over again. My bit said. *sensitive*. If you have an issue in the bedroom, discuss it.

 

[Oculate]

If you have an issue in the bedroom, discuss it.

Not too openly on a public forum though and preferably with your partner

 

[Peder]

I am just about puking at some comments, but lmao at others...

Can't believe people are soo gross!! and shallow....