Being friend-zoned by a guy.

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I had a chat with a mate last weekend and we discussed a lot of things when he mentioned he was once hit on by a friend of ours, who is bisexual. Wasn't a big deal, he said no and things went on usual.

But here's the thing. A few years ago my bi-friend confided in me that he once experimented with another friend and this was before he came to me. So this guy hit on two of his closest friends and never once made a move on me. I'm not sure if what I feel is jealousy but I'd like to know why I wasn't good enough for him.


We don't live in the same town anymore but would it be wise to just call him and ask why he was never interested in me?
 
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Post pic of yourself so we can judge why he wasn't interested in you.
 
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Ninja'd said:
I had a chat with a mate last weekend and we discussed a lot of things when he mentioned he was once hit on by a friend of ours, who is bisexual. Wasn't a big deal, he said no and things went on usual.

But here's the thing. A few years ago my bi-friend confided in me that he once experimented with another friend and this was before he came to me. So this guy hit on two of his closest friends and never once made a move on me. I'm not sure if what I feel is jealousy but I'd like to know why I wasn't good enough for him.


We don't live in the same town anymore but would it be wise to just call him and ask why he was never interested in me?
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So wait, you're upset that your bi friend never hit on you, even though you're not one for the sausage?

Maybe you just reeked of all the vag you'd been pulling, and that put him off?
 
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You dont choose who you are attracted to so dont take it personally.
 
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Ninja'd said:
I had a chat with a mate last weekend and we discussed a lot of things when he mentioned he was once hit on by a friend of ours, who is bisexual. Wasn't a big deal, he said no and things went on usual.

But here's the thing. A few years ago my bi-friend confided in me that he once experimented with another friend and this was before he came to me. So this guy hit on two of his closest friends and never once made a move on me. I'm not sure if what I feel is jealousy but I'd like to know why I wasn't good enough for him.


We don't live in the same town anymore but would it be wise to just call him and ask why he was never interested in me?
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Well if he is just a friend he wont be offended. Will probably just say you're not his type.
 
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Chevron said:
Well if he is just a friend he wont be offended. Will probably just say you're not his type.
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Ja true he's not the type to get easily offended but I tell you if he approached another buddy I might blow a gasket.
 
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Ninja'd said:
We don't live in the same town anymore but would it be wise to just call him and ask why he was never interested in me?
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Call him up and let him know you've got these urges ...urges to take in some dick. See what he says.
 
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Send him that pic of yourself with a hot load in your mouth...
 
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