Being friend-zoned by a guy.

[SoulTax]

I had a chat with a mate last weekend and we discussed a lot of things when he mentioned he was once hit on by a friend of ours, who is bisexual. Wasn't a big deal, he said no and things went on usual.

But here's the thing. A few years ago my bi-friend confided in me that he once experimented with another friend and this was before he came to me. So this guy hit on two of his closest friends and never once made a move on me. I'm not sure if what I feel is jealousy but I'd like to know why I wasn't good enough for him.


We don't live in the same town anymore but would it be wise to just call him and ask why he was never interested in me?

My mother is a twin, In her late teens she had a friend that was lesbian. This friend used to hit on my aunt, but not my mother, even though they are identical twins. She even went so far as to admit to both of them one day that she was attracted to my aunt but for some reason not my mother.

Guess there is far more to attraction than mere physical appeal, I wouldn't lose much sleep over it if I were you.

 

[Garson007]

Yup, it's pretty likely the personality. Ninja'd is probably too soft for him.

 

[Mike Hoxbig]

Probably doesn't take well to the fact that you drank your own jizz before his...

 

[Skywalker786]

agreed
send me a pic.
i have both the necessary software & hardware to provide accurate analysis

+1

 

[Zewp]

Ninja'd, it's because you set off his gaydar. He's only hitting on your friends because they don't.

 

[Ninja'd]

F**king Christ!