Being oblivious

Fulcrum29 said:
Now I am hesitant and not really interested anymore.
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Doesn’t the horniness take over at some point? I would have loved to swear off women, but holy schit, they are fine.
 
supersunbird said:
Well, it's not like you have a solution. Only rietrot (yes RIETROT, who would believe that) gave any usable advice so far.
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I'll give more advice. You ask her. Do you want to fck ? Yes - High five, No - Ask the next one.
 
3WA said:
Back in uni, left a party with a girl to help her fetch more booze for the party. We get to her room, I pick up the bottles, she gets on the bed, takes off her shoes, and starts looking at me.

I’m like, stop wasting time, they’re waiting for us at the party.

Filled with regret.
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Saying that kind of stuff would have turned her on, especially if you spanked her after she got off the bed.

I remember at uni we had a study session at the library with friends, the one girl had developed a crush on me virtually over night.

Anyway as I was walking over to desk where everybody was sitting, I lock eyes with her and she freezes, I notice that I don't break eye contact and slowly move towards her. I could see the tension build up in her and she didn't know what to do. At the last 2nd I turn away from her and take a seat and greet the other people at the table and she lets and an audible moan of disappointment.
 
Fulcrum29 said:
As a rule I also ignore all women I know someone has a crush on. Learned this a long time ago as it only cause complications.

Been a loner since my divorce, and all I see around me is chaos. People who once thought they could give me relationship advice are now all asking my advice on divorce.

I have had my innings since divorce, and discussed a case or two here. Now I am hesitant and not really interested anymore.
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Pretty much the same here. Life is so peaceful now. Although some weeks ago I had some chick at a pub buying me drinks and asking for my number.
 
3WA said:
Doesn’t the horniness take over at some point? I would have loved to swear off women, but holy schit, they are fine.
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Not the best place to discuss.

Some people try to hook me up all the time. I even had a pal who wanted to take me on a romp... Not going into this one, but I did pull out in the sense that I walked away.

I don't do the circle thing. Say I meet someone new now it must either be someone who was special to me or someone entirely new.

There are women out there every guy wants to stick their penis in, especially the supposedly good guys, not my scene. I pity those women though some I guess like the attention.

As I have said here, I am a old-schooled knight. Perhaps one day I get my bearings, again.

One oddity is that some prior acquaintances have sent me rather peculiar messages. I never know what to reply, so I don't.
 
I've been able to get out of friendzones before (as in hit that), but this ones still baffles me, no one had this ailment and overcame* it? Only usable advise has been rietrots, I'll try it next time I am out.

*all puns are fully intentional, even the accidental ones
 
Why does it matter
Do you like them or not, if you don’t like them then does it matter that they are interested or not
 
supersunbird said:
How the heck does one stop being oblivious to interest from the female gender? I'm 43 and has been dense AF in this regard my whole life, I have assuredly missed out on a lot of stuff, which I do figure out later, usually much later. Luckily I do get some action despite my disability.

Reading the following example of someone else's all too familiar experience caused me to post this.

https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/qo7m31
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Been there, done it...

I can't read subtle signs.

I have a story (or quite possibly, stories) to tell, but will probably share it on Reddit at some point as well.
 
supersunbird said:
I've been able to get out of friendzones before (as in hit that), but this ones still baffles me, no one had this ailment and overcame* it? Only usable advise has been rietrots, I'll try it next time I am out.

*all puns are fully intentional, even the accidental ones
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One of the biggest things I learnt was to actually not give a sht what other people think of me. If you feel theres a small hint of a spark, ask the person out on a date or whatever, she can only turn you down.

I think we all notice these subtle hints but to affraid to act on them due to fear of rejection but you know what, if you dont try you wont know.

Just dont be like my one friend that would chat to a potential and after 10min ask her " gaan ons nai of mors ek my tyd? "

I know you have a beautiful cock, dont be afraid dude, life is too short, go out and have fun.

What is your disability if you dont mind me asking? Dont have to answer if its a sensitive matter.
 
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The_Mowgs said:
Just dont be like my one friend that would chat to a potential and after 10min ask her " gaan ons nai of mors ek my tyd? "
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WTF? LOL. What was his success rate? I don't want to be like that.

The_Mowgs said:
I know you have a beautiful cock
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Did I post in the dick pic thread and forgot that I did? :oops:

The_Mowgs said:
What is your disability if you dont mind me asking?
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My total obliviousness. Really, recently2 acquaintances (one male, one female) also said:

Them: "SSB, why didn't you chat with any of the girls interested in you"

Me: "The what now? What girls?"

Them: "The girls clearly interested in you"

Me: "Huh? I didn't notice any such thing."

Anyway, they said they will help me next time I'm out where they are, by discretely pointing said girls out.
 
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