gregmcc
Honorary Master
Answering would have been the best thing
You are screwed if you do and screwed if you don't
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Answering would have been the best thing
Block the EX's number, or next time answer the call and yell at her to stop calling you. That will make her happy.
No - swop her details with a mate's, get him to call, then yell at him - might want that booty call one day…![]()
Very immature.
Although it depends on many factors.
How long were you with your Ex?
How long ago did you break up?
How long have you been with your new GF?
How well does your GF know your Ex?
What does she know about your relationship?
Who broke up with whom?
How strong were your feelings for your Ex, while you were dating?
What caused you to break up?
Ask yourself all these questions, answer here if you care to, but think about the answers non-the-less. Because there may be more to the story than you realise, there is certainly more to the story than your post has conveyed.
If your feelings were strong, if your current GF knew you while you were dating her, if you ever spoke about your Ex, to your current, while you were still with your Ex. If you have accidentally spoken about your Ex, to your current, after the break up. Those things can definitely make her feel insecure very easily.
You need to look into it and figure out where the insecurity comes from. If she is just generally insecure, then either live with it or dump her if that is not your type. If she is only insecure about this one issue, then it is likely indirectly caused by you. Figure out a way to sort it.
Perhaps it requires more insight into women, than your current experience can offer. But you will only gain the experience by trying.
This thread obviously shows you want to try.
Does your girlfriend know the history between you and your ex and why didn't you answer...
She is probably thinking why did she call... Why did you not answer... What are you hiding... Has she done it before when she isn't around...
Answering would have been the best thing
She cried and said she was leaving... Any ideas on how I can put a smile on her face again?![]()
I think its time for anal.
She does not know anything...
Clearly the only remaining option.
Huh?I am ceaselessly astonished by what people post and discuss online.
As per standard mybb rules, we need pics of both and decide from that on what advice to give.