Cheating

AntjieSomers said:
You take notes while watching Oprah? :)

Michael Moll said it beautifully to his wife, Jacqui, "I will be faithful to you. Not because of who you are, but because of who I am. I am a man of integrity." Our world needs more of those!
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No :p. SABC repeats the show so many times, it's hard not to remember.

Besides, I found that particular episode quite interesting:o.
 
killadoob said:
You do realize he is right? We are hardwired to screw anything that moves to ensure we survive.
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So if someone screws around, but does so with a condom, he's not wired together properly? If people were only screwing for survival, the common sense of "don't be a fool wrap your tool" part wouldn't kick in:whistle:
 
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bex.cpt said:
Finally someone speaks the truth, it is also easier to cheat than look your partner in the eye and tell them you don't love them anymore and it's time to move on.

If YOU think it's easy telling someone that your feelings has changed TRY IT. Only then are you allowed to judge those of us who has ventured outside of a relationship trying to find what is lacking.

I am not saying it's right, I am just saying it's very difficult.
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I couldn't have said it better
 
What I meant is that there are other options, yet people think I am mad for wanting a open and honest relationship where I am free to date other people. I have been asked many times why I don't just cheat. People need to think about the damage they are doing to their loved ones.
 
the more you cheat the more you want to cheat (obviously just for the sex)... it's like you're feeding your cravings, that grow more intense over time.... soooo control yourself. Train yourself not to look at everything you find pleasing so you can stand up for yourself then your D*ck doesn't have to :P
 
Princess_Anie said:
What I meant is that there are other options, yet people think I am mad for wanting a open and honest relationship where I am free to date other people. I have been asked many times why I don't just cheat. People need to think about the damage they are doing to their loved ones.
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You're making the assumption that his partner will be open to an open relationship. Most would not.
 
papooze said:
Anything that moves?
We are hardwired to have a family and reproduce...1,2,3,4 children etc. but one needs to cheat to reproduce?Cmon now.
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Actually we're hardwired to produce only 2 children. Notice how most relationships last around 2 years? Just enough for two babies.

It's just chemicals in our brains that cause the infatuation feeling with a new relationship.
 
Everyone talks about animals, instinct and hard wired - but the thing that makes us human is being rational animals.

Blame porn or insecurities - but to say we're made that way is a little dumb :/
 
All about the pursuit of happiness… Just make sure that if you do cheat not make matters worse for yourself and yes tell beforehand to your partner. Fighting over matters like this takes time and time in my opinion is growth of various things (mostly wealth in my opinion). Just end the relationship and move on and don’t be sorry about your mistake, because you caused it and crawling back is only the cause of more shame. The only rule here is to not be an idiot. When there are children involved, this could get serious and the children should come first in making your decision, this is depending on the scenario if you got children while in a relationship. I know a few people who have children from fooling around, but worked out the situation successfully.
 
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