Clinginess- Warning of something else

[BloodrayneZA]

Eish!

If you think she is worth a bit of effort then let her know you're feeling like you're on a leash and there is no future in that.

All chicks are crazy man, you need to do some work to separate the CRAZY crazy from the normal crazy.

If she cant loosen the grip then walk away. Dont run. Walk like all those dudes with the explosions in the background. If you can throw in a "I only use leashes in the bedroom babe, we are over" in there then more for the win.

Excuse me, I am a chick myself. Some men can be clingy too and it irritates the schit out of me.

 

[USZA]

She was a he.

No, she was definitely a she. 50 plus -year old married woman who snuck out of her house at night to message me. The last straw was when she called me at my place one evening - I wasn't expecting that.

 

[Mars]

Excuse me, I am a chick myself. Some men can be clingy too and it irritates the schit out of me.

No offense but that just means you're a different kind of crazy.

 

[Compton_effect]

No offense but that just means you're a different kind of crazy.

'Dead man walking. Dead man. Dead man walking.'

 

[mooks]

No, she was definitely a she. 50 plus -year old married woman who snuck out of her house at night to message me. The last straw was when she called me at my place one evening - I wasn't expecting that.

:wtf: What does her hubby have to say about the fact that she is stalking all these boy toys? He must know about them if there is legal whatwhat happening?

 

[USZA]

Back on topic:

Clingy people have serious personality problems, nothing that you can help them with. Walk away; you'd be protecting yourself from whatever was going to come down the line.

 

[Ninja'd]

Where is she on the crazy/hot scale?

 

[Mars]

Back on topic:

Clingy people have serious personality problems, nothing that you can help them with. Walk away; you'd be protecting yourself from whatever was going to come down the line.

Perhaps its a sign of personality problems, but i wouldn't call it conclusive evidence.

 

[BloodrayneZA]

No offense but that just means you're a different kind of crazy.

Pffft. Just unique. I'm 34 and single, happy with it.

 

[Mars]

What would you use that for sorcerer?

For a moment I read saucer. :wtf: lmao...

 

[azbob]

What would you use that for sorcerer?

 

[mercurial]

maybe tell her that you appreciate her being so clingy but you would like some space and for her to understand that if you are busy and don't reply then she should wait till you do, but if you are interested in taking things to another level then greet the girl in the morning and when you get home tell her you home. remember some people want to find their life partner after 25/26/27 so maybe she trying to get serious

Excuse me, wtf? You clearly do not understand the beast that is a woman

 

[USZA]

:wtf: What does her hubby have to say about the fact that she is stalking all these boy toys? He must know about them if there is legal whatwhat happening?

He was furious. They fought over the phone when my friend called her - mind you, he recorded the conversation - supposed to send me the recordings.

She was telling hubby all the time that she's going outside to smoke. About the other legal stuff, I don't know the detail; only that she has an existing restraining order against her and an harassment case coming up next month, which will most probably end up in another restraining order.

I actually feel sorry for her because she's one sick individual but she doesn't even know it. When I confronted her the first time about her stalking behaviour, she thought it was a joke, tried to explain it away; nothing I could say to her could make her see that it was wrong/inappropriate/unacceptable. The fact that it continued after that talk speaks volumes.

 

[MeroD]

When you like someone, you don't just ignore them.

And if you were into her, you would have called expressing great regret at not being able to spend the weekend with her instead.

 

[USZA]

Perhaps its a sign of personality problems, but i wouldn't call it conclusive evidence.

A sign yes, but how many signs does he need?

 

[USZA]

When you like someone, you don't just ignore them.

And if you were into her, you would have called expressing great regret at not being able to spend the weekend with her instead.

He clearly is not that into her, judging from his behaviour, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.

You telling the op what he should've done, is dictating how he should have behaved. It grates my carrot when people do that.

 

[Mars]

Well. More than just one. Do you realise that "normal" people all have signs that point to having autism? Google borderline asperger syndrome.

 

[GreGorGy]

You want to see what a clingy chick looks like?

I have memories for that. What I am interested in is how successful we can be with getting pics this week - don't act all coy now, especially after recent successes in the Intro threads

 

[Mars]

I have memories for that. What I am interested in is how successful we can be with getting pics this week - don't act all coy now, especially after recent successes in the Intro threads

What? What did I miss?

 

[OGroteKoning]

I have memories for that. What I am interested in is how successful we can be with getting pics this week - don't act all coy now, especially after recent successes in the Intro threads

Okay you win ... It is a quest and not real interest then