Clinginess- Warning of something else

[Nocturnity]

/lawls

You stole my sig...

 

[BloodrayneZA]

You stole my sig...

What? I didn't even know you had it til you mentioned it. I take it you're into that Viking / Heathen stuff, right?

 

[Cius]

Once dated a girl like that. She got upset that I had not spoken to her for 2 days when we had only been seeing each other for about a week. Broke it off real fast. Clinginess is bad enough while dating but I hear it turns into something much worse if you ever marry them.

 

[BloodrayneZA]

Once dated a girl like that. She got upset that I had not spoken to her for 2 days when we had only been seeing each other for about a week. Broke it off real fast. Clinginess is bad enough while dating but I hear it turns into something much worse if you ever marry them.

Cius is right, it does become a problem if the issue isn't curbed in the first place. To be honest, I was once like that too when I was younger. I learnt it the hard way (I lost someone) and now I couldn't care less if I don't get chatted to for a few days - I always find something to keep myself busy and get on with life. Sometimes a guy needs space and time out with his mates, she needs to learn to respect that boundary. If not, get rid of her.

 

[spiff]

28, clingy, over-enthusiastic, gets a bit ape when you don't call her.
You're in the friend phase. She's looking for a husband.
Unless you are looking to get married - walk away very fast.

yes what he said. she's looking to settle and she's testing you

 

[Nocturnity]

Hahaha! Judge for yourself: http://mybroadband.co.za/photos/data/761/medium/n1081276664_1183581_4137.jpg

 

[b_crazy]

I'm the same. I can easily go a day or two without speaking to my SO, but most of them don't seem to appreciate it. I don't think it's really clinginess, though. They just like to know you're still there and thinking of them.

Just say hello once a day and save yourself the nagging.

A day or 2 without talking to the woman you love? I'm a guy and find that really effing weird. I'm in constant chats with my SO and I'm in no way clingy, and neither is she. I guess we're just very good friends as much as we are lovers.

 

[Mr.Jax]

I'd say, have a heart to heart chat with her and see how it goes. You never know, this girl might turn out to be the girl of your dreams.

 

[koeksGHT]

28, clingy, over-enthusiastic, gets a bit ape when you don't call her.
You're in the friend phase. She's looking for a husband.
Unless you are looking to get married - walk away very fast.

This one, expect to buy a ring soon or run!

 

[Roxi_B4b3]

 

[I.am.Sam]

bang her and leave her

 

[Roxi_B4b3]

I very recently dated a guy that couldn't go an hour without messaging me. Even now that we are broken up he keeps whatsapping and calling me. I hate guys that are super clingy. I can easily go a day or 2 without speaking to the person I'm dating. I like to lead my own life and can't take it if someone has to know my every movement all the time

 

[Devill]

I'd say, have a heart to heart chat with her and see how it goes. You never know, this girl might turn out to be the girl of your dreams.

Or have a Penis to Vagina chat with her and if the sex is not enough to make up for the crazy... well then run.

 

[krycor]

I very recently dated a guy that couldn't go an hour without messaging me. Even now that we are broken up he keeps whatsapping and calling me. I hate guys that are super clingy. I can easily go a day or 2 without speaking to the person I'm dating. I like to lead my own life and can't take it if someone has to know my every movement all the time

had the same a few times..

 

[CaraLee]

What? What did I miss?

http://mybroadband.co.za/vb/showthread.php/546719-Introduction-)

Read it all...

Can we not? lol!

 

[Spliffcat]

Lol

 

[OGroteKoning]

Pho3nix, this us my final verdict. You sound really annoyed with this and chances are it will never stop. So either accept it and see where everything goes, or start a reply to one of her messages with a random female name