Crossroads, advice needed

I don't think this requiem guy will do it. He couldn't do it for 10 yrs, how can he do it now.
He can't reveal himself who he is, so how can he tell this woman?
 
Heita_Hola said:
I don't think this requiem guy will do it. He couldn't do it for 10 yrs, how can he do it now.
He can't reveal himself who he is, so how can he tell this woman?
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I;m beginning to think that too.......too many excuses.......he should just call her and tell her. Stuff the romatic dinner and waiting for a perfect opportunity. If there is really something special there then all technicalities won't matter. My 2c
 
Well they've been waiting 10 years - another day shouldn't matter :D. Give him the benefit of the doubt.
 
AS I said before gsw, I will be getting hold of her today. And see how she responds :)
 
And just use your ordinary login - there's nothing embarrassing about this nor is it anything you have to hide...
 
Damn ... I thought today was the 15th :(

C'mon already dude ... go dazzle her!
 
He took too long, the reason she couldn't meet up with him yesterday is she had a date.

And the date went so good the guy slept over and nailed the relationship shut :p
 
requiem said:
Thanks Pitbull :/
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Dude, grow a pair.

It's flippen scary splashing out all your feelings to a girl in fear of getting rejected. She's already feeling the same - hence avoiding you like the plague, thinking to herself "omg he doesn't like me - he would've called and visited otherwise. What have I done? I've ruined our friendship! I'm an alcoholic ho :( "

So you have 2 choices really:

1) Go for gold and stand chance to WIN it all ... or have your heart crushed (in which case she's a carguard anyway)

or

2) Settle for being "pretend friends" where you'll cry yourself to sleep each time she is touched by another man ... for the rest of your life.


Good hunting!

<PS: I give all this manly advice, while I'd be too spineless to do a damn thing either. Go me!>
 
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requiem said:
Thanks Pitbull :/
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Sorry, but I'm just trying to point out what you are letting yourself in for by delaying this confrontation. Get hold of her and tell her how you feel. ASAP!.
Tomorrow might be to late and you will never forgive yourself.
 
I will wait to see her this weekend, and I will tell her. Come hell or ****ing high water.... I know pitbull, but this is something I would prefer to do face to face.
 
requiem said:
I will wait to see her this weekend, and I will tell her. Come hell or ****ing high water.... I know pitbull, but this is something I would prefer to do face to face.
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All cool. I just wanted to clear the air. As I didn;t mean it to hurt you :) Just to make you aware of what could happen in just one day.

She feels for you I know she does from what you typed. You just need to make her aware that you feel the same ;)
 
I know I know, its terrificly exciting....
and scary.

I really do appreciate all the support guys.

Thank you
 
requiem said:
I will wait to see her this weekend, and I will tell her. Come hell or ****ing high water.... I know pitbull, but this is something I would prefer to do face to face.
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"Weekend" ?? Stop stalling dude and just step up and tell her how you feel.............otherwise i fear that next week you'll be saying that you'll see her next weekend...
 
Its not a question of not having the balls anymore, its simply a question of when I will get to see her.

I make this declaration now. If she is not able to see me this weekend, then Sunday I will use a different medium to tell her.

You guys can hold me to that.
 
requiem said:
Its not a question of not having the balls anymore, its simply a question of when I will get to see her.

I make this declaration now. If she is not able to see me this weekend, then Sunday I will use a different medium to tell her.

You guys can hold me to that.
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The longer you stall the harder it gets... I'd do it tonight, give her the weekend to linger on it...

Don't you just HATE it how existing couples make it all seem SO easy?
 
Empiricism Philosopher said:
Little girls?
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WTF? Scary.

Anyway, OP: this thread's had me on the edge of my seat. You should make a series.

I'd leave now btw. Let her hear whatever comes out of your mouth, no planning (yeah, with all the stammering) and leave. Kinda like this post...warts 'n all. It would just give her a clear indication of where you're coming from and what's really going on in your head. If she doesn't like it...fsuck her, she doesn't deserve you.
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