Crossroads, advice needed

As promised. I said I would reveal who I was after I did something about it.

So I sms'd her last night, and told her I want to see her for a meal / coffee. She never answers her phone, we always communicate via sms. No Reply so far.

Will see if/when she responds to me. If she doesn't then nothing more I can do. Either she meant what she said / or she didn't. Either she remembers or she doesn't. Each way nothing I do can change the path now.

If she does not respond I will wait till I see her again.


Thank you guys for all the advise.
 
Damn dude...

You've posted more on your new nick than you have since March 2005. I like requiem better! :D

Sack - that's the WORST part dude ... wondering if she got the message or if she's ignoring you or what what what? :(

Let's hope it works out...
 
Voicy, I've always been a bit of a lurker.

I hereby also endeavour to post more frequently :)
 
I hope neither of you are with MTN... message will never get through, but you can also blame it on Telkom :D

PS. Phone her already.. DAMMIT
 
CodeMaster. I know this girl. I know she never answers her phone. She is completely absent minded about it. Best way to communicate with her is sms.

I suppose I will sms her once a month, till she responds, and if she doesn't for a while. Well then I have my answer.

Maybe the time is wrong, maybe she never meant it, either way, without her willing co-operation all the love, desire or wish will not change that.

I want to again thank all of you for the support and advice. I feel I have grown a lot in this short time frame.
 
"SMS her one a month"... WTF, she is as ****-scared as you.
If she doesn't answer her phone, get in a friggin' car and drive to her work, pull her aside and declare your undying love for her. You really need to do this... NOW!!!
 
Yeah I agree. Forget about smsing. You are beginning to make a lot of excuses. The only answer that counts is face to face, you know, the hard way. And the longer you delay the more excuses you will make.
 
Voicy said:
Damn dude...

You've posted more on your new nick than you have since March 2005. I like requiem better! :D

Sack - that's the WORST part dude ... wondering if she got the message or if she's ignoring you or what what what? :(

Let's hope it works out...
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Agreed

Requiem sounded like a cool, sauve guy.
He would've gotten the girl.

BT6LW is just a geeky sounding guy, with no chance.

;)
 
:P

Its not an excuse.
It hurts, and sucks. But I cannot see her if she does not let me.
 
Text again to ask if she can get together this weekend.
I forget to reply to messages all the time, till after. Likely the case here.
 
Nah, Alf.

I'm upset. But I will still do the right thing
 
Man...if it helps, there is no reason that she shouldn't like you. You seem like a nice guy. It's very normal for women to fall in love with their friends...after all you already get on well. Just go for it, really you won't lose anything.
 
Too many excuses, dude u mus realise that since you are sh*# scared imagine hw she feels ? So ofcos shes nt gona reply to jo sms, shes also scared. So b a man and get in jo car and go c her and dnt tel us 'she may b busy etc.', wait outside her place if you have to.
 
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alf101 said:
Agreed

Requiem sounded like a cool, sauve guy.
He would've gotten the girl.

BT6LW is just a geeky sounding guy, with no chance.

;)
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Damn straight! Bring back Requiem!

MacBoney said:
Too many excuses, dude u mus realise that since you are sh*# scared imagine hw she feels ? So ofcos shes nt gona reply to jo sms, shes also scared. So b a man and get in jo car and go c her and dnt tel us 'she may b busy etc.', wait outside her place if you have to.
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cerebus said:
you typed that on your cellphone didnt you?
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Hehe...and here I thought I was the only idiot who had to re-read that paragraph 4 times before I understood the meaning...
 
AG come on, I did not read the whole thing to just end up here
 
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