If you're going to imply that a fetus and a 5-year-old are of equal value (or importance, or whatever...I'm not quite sure what you mean here), then you're going to have to present an argument as to why that is the case.
Im not implying they are the same, just like a 1 month old and a 5 year old are not the same. However both are living humans, albeit living in different ways.
You are the one that make a distinction between them, based on what? And if you say because a fetus cannot live on its own, then I would like to ask you if you are all for 'aborting' someone in hospital that cannot live without machines keeping them alive