Discovered husband of 12 years cheating with escorts since beginning.

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I have my suspicions which forumite the OP is. Reading some of her posts on this thread makes me think I might be right.

Though I'm working with a very limited dataset. Chances of me being right is not actually high .

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I recently discovered my husband has been seeing hoes ince the beginning of our marriage. It's been 12 years, I have 3 kids. I confronted him over the years when I saw the odd looking at nude women/lots of dating website spam /porn etc, but he always denied and said he was just looking.
In turn I gave him the benefit of the doubt over and over again because I could never find solid evidence. Until a few months ago I uped my investigation game and everything I needed to know was 100%confirmed.
There's more to it but basically I feel utterly lost and depressed and I don't know if he will return to this 'punting' life even though now he swears he will never again, I don't know how to trust him.
Anyone been through something similar or can can give me a fresh perspective?
Thanks.
Speak to the hoes and find out what turns him on if he is not willing or ashamed to tell you. Thats how you will know who he really is and why he is doing this, also if you ask him he might just tell you what you want to hear.

Who knows what he is into, the internet history might just be half of it.
 
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Pak Fa Fui

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Speak to the hoes and find out what turns him on if he is not willing or ashamed to tell you. Thats how you will know who he really is and why he is doing this, also if you ask him he might just tell you what you want to hear.

Who knows what he is into, the internet history might just be half of it.

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Call them hoes and ask them what he likes
 

Polymathic

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Google narcissist and sex

Nuff said
I'm not so sure about that. Transactional sex isn't really going to satisfy a narcissist's ego unless they are paying extra for really deprived stuff. From the OP's posts on this thread seems reasonably of sound of mind and she didn't share anything that may suggest he gaslights her. Though maybe the OP is actually much hotter than she thinks she is from gaslighting. We won't know for sure unless we invoke the MyBB trope of "Post Pics" and she obliges.
 

ADrunkTeddyBear

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Maybe OP's wanted a chick to put it up his bum?
Speak to the hoes and find out what turns him on if he is not willing or ashamed to tell you. Thats how you will know who he really is and why he is doing this, also if you ask him he might just tell you what you want to hear.

Who knows what he is into, the internet history might just be half of it.

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