Do you call your parents by their first name or Mom & Dad?

Aghori

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I used to call my late mum by her name when I was a child, but reverted to "ma" as I got older. My father has always been "pa". Everybody else I call oom or tannie depending on sex.

51yo indian male here btw.
 

ShaunSA

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Indian. Mom, and Dad or what the grandkids call him. My oldest son has taken to calling my husband and me by our first names when we don't respond immediately. If it happens when I'm near, he gets smacked upside the head.

It's amazing how so many things change when the grandkids come around :D
 

Ockie

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I'm 23 and white, and can not even imagine calling my parents by their names. Being Afrikaans, I will also never use 'jy' and 'jou' while addressing them

Selfde hier. I did that once in a fit of rage ... I was klapped so hard in the face my ears were ringing. Needless to say I never tried that again. My parents never believed in slapping us in the face ... was always on our bums ... but when I started with "jy" and "jouing" my dad he went bos and let rip.
 

Rocket Raccoon

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Selfde hier. I did that once in a fit of rage ... I was klapped so hard in the face my ears were ringing. Needless to say I never tried that again. My parents never believed in slapping us in the face ... was always on our bums ... but when I started with "jy" and "jouing" my dad he went bos and let rip.

Normal or backhand?
 

I.am.Sam

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i say ma and daddy

sometimes mother

i call one guy i know, thatha ....
 

azbob

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Selfde hier. I did that once in a fit of rage ... I was klapped so hard in the face my ears were ringing. Needless to say I never tried that again. My parents never believed in slapping us in the face ... was always on our bums ... but when I started with "jy" and "jouing" my dad he went bos and let rip.

And that was the day ockie got the straight knocked out of him...
 

Fulcrum29

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Selfde hier. I did that once in a fit of rage ... I was klapped so hard in the face my ears were ringing. Needless to say I never tried that again. My parents never believed in slapping us in the face ... was always on our bums ... but when I started with "jy" and "jouing" my dad he went bos and let rip.

Depends how it is used… using our language combined with rage and/or aggression calling someone close to you “JY!” en “JOU!” will result in a RPK.
 
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Picard

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And that was the day ockie got the straight knocked out of him...

And then he got smacked again when he told his parents he was gay.

Unfortunately slapping is not correctional. :D


EDIT: Ma, Pa ... Oom, Tannie.

35, White.
 
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