Don't think I wanna be a "dude" anymore

chefdude98

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N.b This isn't a thread about me wanting to transition.

I think if I was female my life would be a little easier but I physically feel like a male.

"Men are visual beings"

"Bro, it's what us men do"

"Don't be such a f*g/pussy/girl"

These are comments I constantly hear.

Dear straight men, you have more in common with gay/bi dudes then you think.

You're both broken /robotic/dead inside.

I am so tired of being this sensitive, sweet, sincere, kind & generally open guy..It just leads to me being ****ed over & not in a good way.

I am tired of meeting men that pretend to be interested in me but disappear after getting what they really want.

I am tired of society making excuses for Broken men who don't know how to express themselves or are so afraid of being seen as anything less than masculine.

I don't fit into the mould of society's ****ed up view on masculinity.

I don't get why im a dude. I actually want to get to know people, I don't throw them away like a used condom & im not constantly measuring my masculinity.

I wish guys were honest & upfront.

If you're not interested in getting to know me, stay away from me.

Im not your sextoy, your fetish or thrilling secret.

I am a ****ing human.


I don't know why men are compared to dogs.

Dogs are loyal.
 

Daruk

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N.b This isn't a thread about me wanting to transition.

I think if I was female my life would be a little easier but I physically feel like a male.

"Men are visual beings"

"Bro, it's what us men do"

"Don't be such a f*g/pussy/girl"

These are comments I constantly hear.

Dear straight men, you have more in common with gay/bi dudes then you think.

You're both broken /robotic/dead inside.

I am so tired of being this sensitive, sweet, sincere, kind & generally open guy..It just leads to me being ****ed over & not in a good way.

I am tired of meeting men that pretend to be interested in me but disappear after getting what they really want.

I am tired of society making excuses for Broken men who don't know how to express themselves or are so afraid of being seen as anything less than masculine.

I don't fit into the mould of society's ****ed up view on masculinity.

I don't get why im a dude. I actually want to get to know people, I don't throw them away like a used condom & im not constantly measuring my masculinity.

I wish guys were honest & upfront.

If you're not interested in getting to know me, stay away from me.

Im not your sextoy, your fetish or thrilling secret.

I am a ****ing human.


I don't know why men are compared to dogs.

Dogs are loyal.
Definitely being too sensitive. My recommendation is get your input from other sources. Fake news / empty vessels seem like the influences in your life right now. Being serious ;)
 

chefdude98

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Definitely being too sensitive. My recommendation is get your input from other sources. Fake news / empty vessels seem like the influences in your life right now. Being serious ;)
Sorry to break it to you but 99.9% of gay/bi/pan men are like this.

I also can't fake the "bro lingo". It isn't me.

If being a man means being a whore, then I think I'm asexual at this point.
 

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Girls you know you'd better watch out
Some guys, some guys are only about
That thing, that thing, that thing
That thing, that thing, that thing

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I thought it's commonly known that guys (especially gay) are mainly all about "dat thang".
 

chefdude98

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Girls you know you'd better watch out
Some guys, some guys are only about
That thing, that thing, that thing
That thing, that thing, that thing

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I thought it's commonly known that guys (especially gay) are mainly all about "dat thang".
Yea but its 2020.

You would think men have evolved by now.

And are men fine as being seen as "sex crazed horndogs".

Is that all men are?

Are men not capable of more?

Are men not capable of compassion & vulnerability?

These hetro normative 1800 gender roles need to evolve cos Im tired of meeting trash men.
 

Daruk

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Sorry to break it to you but 99.9% of gay/bi/pan men are like this.

I also can't fake the "bro lingo". It isn't me.

If being a man means being a whore, then I think I'm asexual at this point.
There is no bro lingo. There's putting on a front and masks. We all do it to some degree. Maybe hang out with people you like instead of looking for sexual partners. I.e. don't care about sexual orientation or sex so much as character. I still think you're hanging out with the wrong crowd. Possibly easier said than done to change that, but I'd give it a good go. Try to find new friends around a hobby or something. Join a running or fitness club, or hiking club, or birdwatching club or photography club etc. Or whatever you enjoy.
 

chefdude98

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There is no bro lingo. There's putting on a front and masks. We all do it to some degree. Maybe hang out with people you like instead of looking for sexual partners. I.e. don't care about sexual orientation or sex so much as character. I still think you're hanging out with the wrong crowd. Possibly easier said than done to change that, but I'd give it a good go. Try to find new friends around a hobby or something. Join a running or fitness club, or hiking club, or birdwatching club or photography club etc. Or whatever you enjoy.
I can't exactly walk up to random dudes and ask them on a date.

It will probably result in them calling me a f** & hurting me.

There are limited ways for me to meet gay/bi guys.
 

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Yea but its 2020.

You would think men have evolved by now.

And are men fine as being seen as "sex crazed horndogs".

Is that all men are?

Are men not capable of more?

Are men not capable of compassion & vulnerability?

These hetro normative 1800 gender roles need to evolve cos Im tired of meeting trash men.
Well, why don't you go look up a site where men actually meet and then marry?

Based on your posts, you are a submissive who doesn't get what he is.
 

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I can't exactly walk up to random dudes and ask them on a date.

It will probably result in them calling me a f** & hurting me.

There are limited ways for me to meet gay/bi guys.
I don't get this. You are claiming you have been used and abused; and then saying you don't put yourself out there in fear of being used and abused?
 
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