FEATURE: Sex - The End of Gay

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The annual season of LGBTI Pride celebrations in many countries is drawing to close. It is time to blow our whistles but also to pause and reflect.

As many western nations progress towards a post-homophobic society, how will the increasing equality and social acceptance of LGBTI people affect the expression of human sexuality? If we evolved into a society where the differences between hetero and homo no longer mattered, what would this mean for the future of same-sex desire and queer identity?

What are the implications for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and intersex (LGBTI) human rights?

We already know, thanks to a host of sex surveys, that even in narrow-minded, homophobic cultures, many people are born with a sexuality that is, to varying degrees, capable of both heterosexual and homosexual attraction. This is shown by the way that otherwise normally straight people often have same-sex relations in single-sex institutions like schools, prisons and the armed forces.

Research by Dr Alfred Kinsey in the USA during the 1940s was the first major statistical evidence that gay and straight are not watertight, irreconcilable sexual orientations. He found that sexuality is, in fact, a continuum of desires and behaviours, ranging from exclusive heterosexuality to exclusive homosexuality. A substantial proportion of the population is somewhere in the middle, sharing an amalgam of same-sex and opposite-sex feelings.

In Sexual Behaviour In The Human Male (1948), Kinsey recorded that 13 per cent of the men he surveyed were either mostly or exclusively homosexual for at least three years between the ages of 16 and 55. Twenty-five per cent had more than incidental gay reactions or experience, amounting to clear and continuing same-sex desires. In total, 37 per cent of the men Kinsey questioned had experienced sex with other males to the point of orgasm, and half had experienced mental attraction or erotic arousal towards other men (sometimes transient and not physically expressed). A similar continuum of desire and overlapping orientations was found in Kinsey’s later study of women, Sexual Behaviour In The Human Female (1953).

Kinsey’s sociological sex research has since been criticised as exaggerated, out-of-date and unrepresentative.

The more recent UK National Survey of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles (2000) found that around 9% percent of British men and women have had a sexual experience with a person of the same sex, with many of these people being normally or predominantly heterosexual.

The survey authors admit this figure of 9% is probably an underestimate because many people are still reluctant to reveal their homosexuality or bisexuality.

The possibility that many individuals share a capacity for both hetero and homo feelings is confirmed by the anthropologists Clellan Ford and Frank Beach.

In Patterns of Sexual Behaviour (1965), they noted that certain forms of same-sex relations were considered normal and acceptable in 49 (nearly two-thirds) of 76 tribal societies surveyed from the 1920s to the 1950s.

They also recorded that in some aboriginal cultures, such as the Sambia people of Papua New Guinea, all young men entered into a same-sex relationship with an unmarried male warrior, sometimes lasting several years, as part of their rites of passage into manhood. Once completed, they ceased all homosexual contact and assumed sexual desires for women. If sexual orientation was completely biologically pre-programmed, these men would have never been able to switch to homosexuality and then to heterosexuality with such apparent ease.

This led Ford and Beach to deduce that homosexuality is fundamental to the human species, and its expression is substantially influenced by social mores and expectations.

The evidence from these two disciplines – sociology and anthropology – is that the incidence of heterosexuality and homosexuality is not fixed and universal, and that the two sexual orientations are not mutually exclusive. There is a good deal of fluidity and overlap.

Indeed, although sexuality may be substantially affected by biological predispositions – such as genes and hormonal influences in the womb – other causal factors appear to include cultural norms, expectations and opportunities. These tend to channel erotic impulses in certain directions and not others. An individual’s sexual orientation (or at least its expression) is thus often influenced culturally, as well as biologically.

Human sexuality is much more complex, diverse and blurred than the traditional simplistic binary image of hetero and homo, so loved by straight moralists and – more significantly – by many lesbians and gay men.

If sexual orientation has a culturally-influenced element of indeterminacy and flexibility, then the present forms of homosexuality and heterosexuality are unlikely to remain the same in perpetuity. As culture changes, so will expressions of sexuality.

In a future non-homophobic society (all societies will get there eventually), more people are likely to have gay sex but less people will identify as gay (or straight). This is because the absence of homophobia will make the need to assert and affirm gayness (and heterosexuality) irrelevant and redundant.

Gay identity is largely the product of anti-gay repression. It is a self-defence mechanism against homophobia. Faced with persecution for having same-sex relations, the human right to have those relationships has to be defended – hence gay identity and the LGBTI rights movement.

But if one form of sexuality is not privileged over another, defining oneself as gay (or straight) will cease to be necessary and have no social relevance or significance. The need to maintain sexual differences, boundaries and identities disappears (or reduces radically) with the demise of straight supremacism.

Homosexuality as a separate, exclusive orientation and identity will begin to fade (so will its mirror opposite, heterosexuality), as humanity evolves into a sexually enlightened and accepting society. The vast majority of people will be open to the possibility of both opposite-sex and same-sex desires, even if they don’t necessarily physically express them.

Moreover, they won’t feel the need to label themselves (or others) as gay or straight. In a non-homophobic culture, no one will care who loves who. That’s true queer liberation.

Peter Tatchell is Director of the London-based LGBTI and human rights organisation, the Peter Tatchell Foundation:

http://www.mambaonline.com/2014/08/07/future-sex-end-gay/

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blah blah blah, love me me, i'm gay. look christians, look homophobes, look every ******* out there, my position DOES make sense

What is the problem now? The main thought behind the article is that one day IT WONT BE A BIG DEAL!!! Hence the disappearance of things like gay or straight. There just aint fcking pleasing you. jesus.
 

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Human sexuality is much more complex, diverse and blurred than the traditional simplistic binary image of hetero and homo, so loved by straight moralists and – more significantly – by many lesbians and gay men.

I must say I've noticed that some gay guys jumped to conclusions about that dudes sexuality in grantza thread about his friend.

Was it grantza's thread? Tired - brain not firing on all cylinders.

I always thought, and I'll admit it was biased thinking, that gay people were opened minded about sexuality. I've come to realise that gays can be just as closed minded as straight people in this regard.

All of which is probably not that much of a light bulb moment.
 

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Not happening.

No, the entire world is not going to accept homosexuality as normal and harmless in the foreseeable future but many western countries will continue to become more tolerant - it's been a trend for the last 50 years and when you consider how quickly western society is becoming accepting of homosexuality as normal it could really be only a couple of decades for somewhere as conservative as the US to largely be where the article talks of.
 

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No, the entire world is not going to accept homosexuality as normal and harmless in the foreseeable future but many western countries will continue to become more tolerant - it's been a trend for the last 50 years and when you consider how quickly western society is becoming accepting of homosexuality as normal it could really be only a couple of decades for somewhere as conservative as the US to largely be where the article talks of.

Do you think it is possible that countries that are now accepting, such as ... mmmm lets say the UK to see a the tide reverse and rights being reigned in again.....or has a critical mass so to speak been reached and it will never happen? Not sure if I am putting it correctly.
 

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I would like to think so....but you will see there is a article I just posted in CA which makes me very doubtful we will ever see the day.

Technology on its own is changing our preconceptions as a species rather quickly. Of course fear of change will hold us back for a while but I think sooner rather than later critical mass will be reached and all the prejudice of our ancestors will come to an end, or at least become a minority view.
 

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Do you think it is possible that countries that are now accepting, such as ... mmmm lets say the UK to see a the tide reverse and rights being reigned in again.....or has a critical mass so to speak been reached and it will never happen? Not sure if I am putting it correctly.

I think critical mass has been achieved even in the US and there ain't no going back. I think it's because most people on some level recognise that there is no "normal" sexuality. We all have our kinks and fetishes that we'd rather not be preached to about. Personally, I think even older, conservative, white men find homophobia a bit suspect these days. Even if you are a little homophobic you wouldn't voice it too often or loudly down the local because people would kind of wonder if you know what I mean. I think we'll see the end of homophobia long before we see the end of racism.
 
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