FOXSexpert: 8 Signs Your Partner is Addicted to Porn

mercurial

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1. Your partner is not as social as he used to be.

He is excusing himself from activities, has unexplained absences, and is not able to account for his time. He has little interest in socializing with you or making time for others, including his family.

2. Your partner lacks interest in sex or is sexually unresponsive.

You’re noticing a decrease in physical affection and non-sexual touch. If you have sex, it’s because you are the one initiating it. Your partner is having trouble becoming sexually aroused (for example, achieving erection or having an orgasm).

Furthermore, your partner needs more and more stimulation to get turned on and release. He has developed a strong interest in sexual practices that seem a little out of left field. No matter what, both of you are feeling largely dissatisfied post-sex.

3. Your partner is being uncharacteristically demanding or rough during sex.

You’re feeling pressured to engage in sexual activities that are either physically or emotionally uncomfortable to you. Your partner is using atypical sexual language. He seems to be objectifying you and he has no qualms about it.

4. Your partner does not seem “present.”

Your lover has become emotionally distant during sex. You’re starting to feel sexually rejected or neglected. In or out of the bedroom, you and your partner can no longer describe yourselves as emotionally intimate.

5. Your partner has started to nit-pick your appearance.

Your partner seems more and more concerned about what you look like, and if you’re sexually attractive “enough.” He might make cutting remarks about your weight or shape. He’s also making insensitive sexual comments, which make you feel like a sex object.

6. You feel like you’re no longer getting straight answers from your lover.

You suspect that much of what is being said these days are white lies. Answers to your questions seem vague and nonsensical. He’s defensive when asked about porn use.

Yet you are finding evidence of hiding, lying, and secretive behavior, including porn materials you didn’t know about. Maybe your partner maintains a private e-mail address, has his own credit card, and/or has an unknown cell phone account.

7. Your partner is practically wed to the Internet.

He spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, often demanding privacy and/or changing his bedtime ritual. As a result, he has eye problems from spending long hours on the computer. He may also complain of back, wrist, neck or shoulder pain.

8. You’ve noticed a change in your partner’s demeanor.

Your partner just doesn’t seem like himself. He has trouble calming down and sleeping. His moods and interests are different. It may even be to the point you’re wondering if his mental health is okay. Feeling like a “sex pervert” can lead him to negative emotional outbursts such as picking fights and holding grudges in order to justify his secret porn use.

Now it’s important to not put too much weight on any one of these standing alone. There are many people who have trouble getting aroused and it has nothing to do with explicit materials. But if you’re noticing patterns or a collection of the aforementioned, your partner likely has some major explaining to do.

If there is a problem, it will surface sooner or later. Whether a partner finds actual evidence, the user confesses, or somebody else – unintentionally or not – spills the beans, the one who has been wronged finally realizes what she’s dealing with. It is a horrible, powerful experience that rocks one to the core. Stunned, overwhelmed and confused, many do not know what to do. The longer and more intimate the relationship, the harder it is to process this news.

When dealing with emotional wounds, and trying to save the relationship, a couple should consider seeking outside help first – despite any embarrassment. With additional support, couples need to talk about their problems and how porn has affected the relationship with a non-judgmental third party.

A number of sex therapists from the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists are capable of handling such situations. Porn problems have become quite common, and no one should go through recovery alone.
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A guy who has a girlfriend and is addicted to pron should clobbered over the head with a monkey wrench ... repeatedly.
 

Highflyer_GP

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Most of those signs probably apply to cheating too. The woman should be grateful that he's cheating on her with a computer rather than a real person!
 

Highflyer_GP

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I do still believe that pr0n should be outlawed completely.

It is not free speech.
I don't see any reason why a natural act should be banned.
I find it odd how people become so offended with porn, but couldn't care less about exposing people to violence. Even news broadcasts have a fair bit of violent images.
 

killadoob

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A guy who has a girlfriend and is addicted to pron should clobbered over the head with a monkey wrench ... repeatedly.
dude i have a chick and im addicted to porn

i need to orgasm way more than she wants to

so sex once a week does not cut

porno actually stops me harassing her all week long for sex

also porn has changed the way we have sex in a big way, she watches a bit and has since changed from this prude in the bedroom and is up for alot more than she used to be

(worst thing a man can hear: it makes me feel like a slut when we do doggy style) porno has now fixed this issue

i dont watch porn to look at hot chicks, i watch porn because its better than jacking off to nothing and alot more entertaining

porn keeps me sexually san, and keeps me from wanting to hump my chick everytime i see her

ok i still want to hump her but i dont push for it as much i would if i was raging horny man

porno FTW

my fiancee said she has no problems with me watching porn

reverse cowgirl FTW

lib when women accept money for sex or for a porno movie they are sexual objects, they accept they are so who are to stop that :)
just enjoy it man :)
 
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Moederloos

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i need to orgasm way more than she wants to
Right, there is just no coming back from that one.
/ignore and lobotomise


Moving along now, those "8" points apply to just about anything. Cheating, porn, no interest, wife too fat, wife too thin, kids annoying him, nagging, financial stress, WoW, ...............
 

killadoob

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so why did you download 127 gigs of porn this month and get a fat bill from telkom? hey gdi u naughty porn freak

:p
 

killadoob

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ya ya gdi :)

even if i was dating a porn star who screwed me 3 times a week i would still watch porn on a daily basis
 

medicnick83

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ya ya gdi :)

even if i was dating a porn star who screwed me 3 times a week i would still watch porn on a daily basis
You'd settle for 3 times a week?

Don't you have standards?
I'm surviving on 2 times a day ;) and its NOT my fault its so little ;) hehe.
 
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