Getting over someone - Advice please

OP, sounds like you've got yourself a class A sloot. And one thing about sloots is, they always sloot at every opportunity they get.

If you even end up with this sloot, chances are she'll sloot on you as quick as she slooted with you.

Easy solution to the problem: tell her to bite the pillow and go in dry. Should be enough to get her out of your life.

Stay safe OP.
 
TehStranger said:
OP, sounds like you've got yourself a class A sloot. And one thing about sloots is, they always sloot at every opportunity they get.

If you even end up with this sloot, chances are she'll sloot on you as quick as she slooted with you.

Easy solution to the problem: tell her to bite the pillow and go in dry. Should be enough to get her out of your life.

Stay safe OP.
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Women only sloot if their current SO doesn't for-fill their needs :P
 
Tinuva said:
Maybe I do :P

Either way, he is the reason she is slooting in the 1st place.
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I tend to disagree.

Sometimes sloots are just sloots. No fault of the guy they're with, they just want the D elsewhere. Stable reliable rich boyfriend, and porn star lover on the side. It happens.
 
Tinuva said:
Maybe I do :P

Either way, he is the reason she is slooting in the 1st place.
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He can't be the reason, unless he is forcing her to stay with him against her will and she has no choice but to cheat, I doubt that's the case but with people today you never know.
 
Tinuva said:
Women only sloot if their current SO doesn't for-fill their needs :P
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You mean sluts only slut if their current SO doesn't fulfill their needs but even that's only half true. Some slut's are incapable of fulfillment because they are that damaged.
 
TehStranger said:
I tend to disagree.

Sometimes sloots are just sloots. No fault of the guy they're with, they just want the D elsewhere. Stable reliable rich boyfriend, and porn star lover on the side. It happens.
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Show me a real man (aka Alpha) whose SO is cheating on him.
First I have never seen a case like this.
Rich stable boys usually are not alphas and more importantly, money is not for-filling a woman's needs.

but you are welcome to disagree, we can both have our own opinions.

dreamrobin said:
He can't be the reason, unless he is forcing her to stay with him against her will and she has no choice but to cheat, I doubt that's the case but with people today you never know.
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I also don't think that is the case, but he still can be the reason. If a woman isn't in love anymore (and this happen nowadays in most relationships if not all that fail), she is going to look for it elsewhere. It is the guy's job to keep her in love with him, and it is not rocket science to do that.
 
Nick333 said:
You mean sluts only slut if their current SO doesn't fulfill their needs but even that's only half true. Some slut's are incapable of fulfillment because they are that damaged.
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:P

Perhaps, there is always the exception to the rule. Also, I count myself lucky that I haven't yet (touch wood) been involved with such a case.
 
Tinuva said:
Show me a real man (aka Alpha) whose SO is cheating on him.
First I have never seen a case like this.
Rich stable boys usually are not alphas and more importantly, money is not for-filling a woman's needs.

but you are welcome to disagree, we can both have our own opinions.
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Seen a few Alphas who have had their SO cheat on them. One's GF was a nymphomaniac who needed sex at least 3 times a day. With him working, she got her kicks elsewhere, but always came home to him. He found out and kicked her to the curb. Sometimes you just get slooty biches (disclaimer, you also get slooty men. Don't hate on me feminists, just get back to the kitchen k?).
 
She must be freaking beautiful if you have to quit your job just to get away from her.
 
Positively Negative said:
Hi Forum,

I don't think this is the place to share the feels and all , and I think it's pretty silly.But anyways.
I need some serious advice with regards to getting over this one lady.Work colleague :(

We had something going on for awhile and it was real awesome. She has a boyfriend so it was never going to honestly evolve into something meaningful. My issue is that I've fallen pretty too far with her.
We still have tons of chemistry and get along etc. My issue is I want more, and she won't leave him for me.
She's told me on a number of occasions that she would rather have me (but it's complicated,culture & religion...f!@#!).

Now there is realistically no chance of us ever being exclusive. So I've tried cutting her off more and more...it never works! We have to work together too so I have to try keep things civil.I REALLY need to just move on.
But I can't. I have this sweet gf I can mess around with, but I've completely lost interest in just doing that.
This girl has some stupid trance on me and I just want out.
It sounds drastic, but if I can't shake this off...I really may consider resigning in the next month or two.

Can you all please give me some hope!?! I totally believe that out of sight/out of mind works! I didn't have to see her for the December break, and I could deal. It's the fact I see her daily that grates me.
It makes me feel sick some days. I forcefully demand my emotions to just STFU, but they have their own way.

Ok, insults and advice away :D
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you have fallen inlove with her vagina. get over it. leave your current gf as well since you a bit of a d!ck being with her and pining after said vagina. shes cheating on her current boyfriend. don't care if theres sparks shooting out of said vagina, its not going to end well. so man up and leave both of them.

and if you get emo at work just resign and go work somewhere else. the smell of said vagina will intoxicate and frustrate you all day long.
 
Tinuva said:
Show me a real man (aka Alpha) whose SO is cheating on him.
First I have never seen a case like this.
Rich stable boys usually are not alphas and more importantly, money is not for-filling a woman's needs.

but you are welcome to disagree, we can both have our own opinions.


I also don't think that is the case, but he still can be the reason. If a woman isn't in love anymore (and this happen nowadays in most relationships if not all that fail), she is going to look for it elsewhere. It is the guy's job to keep her in love with him, and it is not rocket science to do that.
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Try not to take offense at this but, you're making justifications on behalf of sluts which pegs you as a beta yourself. The more a women fccks around the more she is likely to in the future. Why get into a relationship with someone you have to work that much harder to keep fulfilled. Fcck her if you must but, you don't get into a relationship with her. Save your efforts for a woman who deserves an alpha.
 
Nick333 said:
Try not to take offense at this but, you're making justifications on behalf of sluts which pegs you as a beta yourself. The more a women fccks around the more she is likely to in the future. Why get into a relationship with someone you have to work that much harder to keep fulfilled. Fcck her if you must but, you don't get into a relationship with her. Save your efforts for a woman who deserves an alpha.
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Beta claims he's an alpha, then goes white knighting sloots?

Can only be a Friday.
 
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