Getting over someone - Advice please

[Tinuva]

Try not to take offense at this but, you're making justifications on behalf of sluts which pegs you as a beta yourself. The more a women fccks around the more she is likely to in the future. Why get into a relationship with someone you have to work that much harder to keep fulfilled. Fcck her if you must but, you don't get into a relationship with her. Save your efforts for a woman who deserves an alpha.

Not offended at all. What you got wrong however is, that I am saying men is the cause for women slutting, plus I said there are exclusions to the rule. Yet you still want to argue with me, even after I already said to someone else we can agree to disagree.

So you can keep on trying to force your opinion down on me, and call me a beta or anything else you want, doesn't matter to me, I stay by my opinion, it has held true thus far in my experience in the social environments that I am in.

 

[Nick333]

Not offended at all. What you got wrong however is, that I am saying men is the cause for women slutting, plus I said there are exclusions to the rule. Yet you still want to argue with me, even after I already said to someone else we can agree to disagree.

So you can keep on trying to force your opinion down on me, and call me a beta or anything else you want, doesn't matter to me, I stay by my opinion, it has held true thus far in my experience in the social environments that I am in.

Right. So you want to be able to state your opinion but you don't want to be contradicted. Tough shyte, mate.

 

[Kloofvreter]

Been there, done that. Regardless of the fact that they were already involved with someone else as well, the feelings are just as strong, and it's just as devastating when this relationship gets cut off.

Getting over it? Same way as with any other relationship: time.

 

[Tinuva]

Beta claims he's an alpha, then goes white knighting sloots?

Can only be a Friday.

Funny.

The sad truth is, this girl is probably not even a slut, but got labelled one now by a select few online geeks who think of themselves as alphas. Worse, you now call me a white knight, while I didn't even defend her, I just pointed out the BF who gets cheated on as the problem.

 

[Mike Hoxbig]

Right, so now it's about who has the biggest alpha/beta wang

 

[Tinuva]

Right. So you want to be able to state your opinion but you don't want to be contradicted. Tough shyte, mate.

Where was I contradicted other than your opinion?

 

[TehStranger]

Funny.

The sad truth is, this girl is probably not even a slut, but got labelled one now by a select few online geeks who think of themselves as alphas. Worse, you now call me a white knight, while I didn't even defend her, I just pointed out the BF who gets cheated on as the problem.

You're defending sloots' action. That's white knight logic.

Thanks for proving the second of two golden rules in life, betas gonna beta. (The first is sloots gonna sloot for those of you who aren't paying attention).

 

[Nick333]

Right, so now it's about who has the biggest alpha/beta wang

Only one person here claiming to be an alpha.

 

[Nick333]

Funny.

The sad truth is, this girl is probably not even a slut, but got labelled one now by a select few online geeks who think of themselves as alphas. Worse, you now call me a white knight, while I didn't even defend her, I just pointed out the BF who gets cheated on as the problem.

She's cheating on her bf. She's a slut.

 

[dreamrobin]

Funny.

The sad truth is, this girl is probably not even a slut, but got labelled one now by a select few online geeks who think of themselves as alphas. Worse, you now call me a white knight, while I didn't even defend her, I just pointed out the BF who gets cheated on as the problem.

This. In situations like this it's easy to generalise or talk from experience but each situation is always somewhat unique. Maybe she is a slut, maybe she is not, maybe it's harder for her than anyone can believe, or then again she could me damaged and out to hurt someone. People are all uniquely screwed up. I don't think we can blame her bboyfriend, not without knowledge of their relationship.

Oh and most of these posters are out to trash woman so you shouldn't waste your time with them.

 

[Tinuva]

You're defending sloots' action. That's white knight logic.

Thanks for proving the second of two golden rules in life, betas gonna beta. (The first is sloots gonna sloot for those of you who aren't paying attention).

What you call white knighting, I call values. I don't judge people by a few lines that someone else posted. I doubt I will ever respect you, even if I meet you irl. Same goes for this Nick character.

How about you give me your SO's contact details and I will convert her into a sloot for you, by her own choice
I go by the saying: If she open her legs...who am I to say no. (and this is where the problem is, most guys are like this)
Do you really think she will say no to a man that know how to make a woman feel like a woman? How much do you trust her. Put your own believes and opinions to the test, I dare you.

Oh and most of these posters are out to trash woman so you shouldn't waste your time with them.

I know, I had some time to waste earlier today. I haven't seen a single alpha in this thread, only a bunch of wanabes. That includes me, only I think of myself as smarter than most men, because I like to go out and understand concepts most people will never understand. The difference is, I learn and get to make use of that, and it works, which is why advice at points my seem odd and make no sense to the general person out there.

 

[breadbox]

This stuff sounds like it's straight from Days of our lives or something. Just get her boyfriend to fall for your current gf and presto. PROFIT.

 

[KleinBoontjie]

Sloppy seconds comes to mind, no thanks.

 

[TehStranger]

What you call white knighting, I call values. I don't judge people by a few lines that someone else posted. I doubt I will ever respect you, even if I meet you irl. Same goes for this Nick character.

How about you give me your SO's contact details and I will convert her into a sloot for you, by her own choice
I go by the saying: If she open her legs...who am I to say no. (and this is where the problem is, most guys are like this)
Do you really think she will say no to a man that know how to make a woman feel like a woman? How much do you trust her. Put your own believes and opinions to the test, I dare you.

Internet tough guy, I figured you for one. Always easy to act high and mighty behind a keyboard. Good thing respect from a white knighting beta means less than nothing IRL.

Good luck with your alpha goals for 2014.

 

[Tinuva]

Internet tough guy, I figured you for one. Always easy to act high and mighty behind a keyboard. Good thing respect from a white knighting beta means less than nothing IRL.

Good luck with your alpha goals for 2014.

Pfft, you are not worth my time. I gave you a real life challenge, you chickened out. Welcome to my ignore list.

 

[The_Ogre]

So OP never updated this thread...

 

[Tinuva]

Maybe he ended up quitting his job to get away from this girl, now he doesn't have access to interweb.

 

[Beachless]

OP I hope the girl did not go full psycho on you. Stay safe guys.

 

[Positively Negative]

Yes. Yes he did, this makes him scum as well. Dump your GF, resign your job and man the fsck up until you know what you want and stop messing with the lives of others.

Hey man...sorry I mean 'girl friend', like a fook buddy I would never cheat on a girl I'm dating,I would end it first before ever touching another lady.

WOW...thanks guys for all the wisdom posted. I'll reply directly when I get home.

 

[Positively Negative]

No, the gf that is "sweet" on him is the one he has no interest in. The dude is obviously not ready to commit to a serious relationship yet.

I am ready bro... sorry man, my original post was VAGUE. I mean girl friend, slut buddy

Tell your girlfriend...then hang yourself

I don't have a GF...sorry for the confusing post.

Break up with your GF straight away, she doesnt deserve what you are doing/have done to her.
Tell the flings BF what happened.
That way she will end up hating you and you wont need to worry about feelings for her anymore.

No. He must tell his girlfriend, then if he doesn't want to be with her he should leave. Then accept the fcked up situation and allow nature to run its course. What must be wI'll be.

I just don't get why people cheat, some point of your relationship you must have loved the other person, how can one do that to a other person, and a person you loved for that matter. Why keep someone on a string and betray them, why not just tell them you are not happy and leave them. i just don't understand the logic behind some people's actions.

I never cheated....maybe on my hand....but I don't have a GF ;(

UPDATE People!
I have no GF!!! Sorry... I meant a fling buddy.
She is sweet and gives me my manly cravings at times, but I want more.
And I obviously want more with the girl at work.

I think I will take the next month or two as chilled as possible.
But If I still can't manage thereafter, I think I should apply elsewhere.