Have you been affected by HIV/AIDS?

MrGray

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The first person I was aware of to die of AIDS was an older friend of the family in 1989 when I was still a teenager, so it has always been in my consciousness. Since then, a domestic worker of ours passed away in the late 90's from AIDS related causes and one of my best friends has been diagnosed HIV positive.

Strangely, it seems to be a little known fact that with today's drugs, being HIV+ is nothing more than a nuisance and they now project a normal lifespan for anyone HIV+ PROVIDED they take their medication. In the case of my friend, his health deteriorated to the point where he was getting pneumonia every month and looking like a concentration camp victim. His T Cell count was non existent and by all accounts he should have been dead.

Why he wasn't diagnosed earlier, I have no idea, but once he was on the drugs he returned to full health literally within weeks, and is now living a completely normal life in all respects. The latest drugs are so sophisticated that they cannot actually do a meaningful HIV test while you are on them as it will not be detectable. When the drugs are working optimally, your viral load is so low that you are basically not even infectious.

The biggest threat to longevity is developing immunity to the drugs, but this is largely avoidable so long as you NEVER miss your daily dose. Even then, there is now a wide enough variety of drug cocktail combinations that they can modulate this more or less indefinitely. The only factor, of course, is money. Almost all medical aids must pay for HIV drugs, though, and cannot reject you if you are HIV positive - but if you cannot afford a medical aid, you have to rely on state support, which is erratic and never the latest stuff.
 

akescpt

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one dude years ago I suspect. but they said he had TB. she and his buddy used ot like to visit the working girls when they were younger. he just wasted away. was really sad.
 

Alton Turner Blackwood

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I also know someone who claims to have TB, but he's disappearing very rapidly. I know for a fact he used to love the working ladies of the night
 

chicken247

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Yes, 3 female co-workers in 7 years. One Friend. There is no stigma to the people affected by this plague, just sadness. It is their children that suffer.
 

Sensorei

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Yes. My garden is now overgrown because my gardener with AIDS went back to Malawi.
 

USZA

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  • A friend who passed away two years ago
  • Another one who's been positive since 1995 but healthy as a horse
  • Another one who runs marathons; not sure how long he's been positive
  • And another who I suspect is positive but that's to be expected because he's a manwhore and he's indiscriminate about his sexual partners

And those are just the ones that I know of.
 

Lycanthrope

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Nope, never known anyone with AIDS/HIV, at least not that I've been aware of.
 

LCBXX

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I know less people with other STD's like Chlamydia, Clap and HPV than I know living with HIV. That should scare you more.
 

D3nz

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I also know someone who claims to have TB, but he's disappearing very rapidly. I know for a fact he used to love the working ladies of the night

I knew a few people who claimed to have TB and they also wasted away rapidly. It was only later that I heard it was AIDS/HIV. No stigma attached to TB I suppose.
 

DerpiesFreud

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Many years ago we had a man living with my family,
he was a gardener at first, but we trained him up and he became a secretary/assistant of sorts.
very intelligent, very sharp. always cheery.
He lived with us for many years.

One day we found out his wife was dying of AIDS related complications.
I watched the life drain out of her. him as well, it changed him, it sucked his soul out.
He left us and became an alcoholic, doing odd jobs for some people.
That's the last I heard of him.
 
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