I don't know, I think it's just ridiculous how low salaries are in South Africa.
Looking at Germany,
https://www.payscale.com/research/DE/Job=Junior_Software_Engineer/Salary
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So R50k/month should be the norm, unsure whether the above is before/after taxes, if after the bank's salary is normal. Note that they also get retirement subtracted.
But yes, that dude is asking quite a bit, he'd have to be pretty good to get hired at that, but if he can contribute more than his salary, is there really an issue? Worst case you keep declining.
Meanwhile I just started my first job here, I'll be earning around the 2k EUR mark at 23, I declined a ~30% higher option (40k) at an insurance place because I don't want to sit 2h+ in traffic, and hoping the company I'm heading to will have fast pay raise once I start contributing a couple of months down the line.
So earning:
R31k
RA ~ R5k
Car - will be around the R10k mark, aiming to pay it off in a year so will be higher some months and hoping a raise will help pay it off. This amount is dependent on me though, family loan, so will be paying back prime - 2 (or same rate as bond).
Petrol: R500, maybe a little less. This versus my previous R2k... contemplating investing in a bicycle.
Medical aid + gym: not too sure, still deciding, probably R2.5k all-in.
Rent: R3k
Food: R2k including lunch if I continue as-is.
So R2k to play around with on anything else after taxes, if I don't use it, that will be thrown at paying the car off faster once I have a month's buffer.
And still have some work on the side where I have money coming in, so hoping that goes well.
Taxes are still insanely high, especially comparing to first-world countries...