Honestly, 83k pm does not get you that much. A bond of 2mil and a car of 400k will flatten it pretty quickly, not to mention tax which is what 40, 41%? Sure, you can buy a cheaper car...or even house, but the point being you're a supposed "1% earner" - but you constantly have to compromise. Costs are just way out of hand.
Sure, costs are ridiculous, but it's still possible to get by relatively comfortably.
Just plugged that 83k pm into our calculator and got a take-home of 45k. That includes tax, pension and medical aid contributions (comprehensive for 2 adults and a child).
2 million bond at prime is 18k, leaving you with 27k.
400k car, less a modest deposit of 100k, at prime is 5.5k, leaving you with 21.5k.
Groceries at 4k leaves you with 17.5k.
School fees at 6k leaves you with 11.5k.
Other bits and bobs (internet, streaming services, rates, electricity etc.), say 6.5k
That's 5k left over on just one income. Factor in the spouse's income and an average family of 3 should be saving plenty...