AstroTurf
Lucky Shot
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The issue sounds like more like you need to sleep train your child. Kids should not need you to lie next to them to fall asleep. We put our kids to bed at 7 and won't hear from them again until the next morning when they wake up. Having them in that routine is wonderful as its effortless. I know people who will fight for hours to get their kids in bed and its generally because they don't have a fixed routine so every night is a negotiation and fight. Have a bed time and a routine (brush teeth, read book, etc) and stick to it and they will soon fall into it. Very young children (under 6 months) may need to be rocked to sleep but after that you can sleep train them fairly easily. Its 2-3 nights of hell and then its over and they fall asleep on their own and in their own bed.
It is amazing just how well it works.
My daughter however has the option of staying up 15 minutes past her bedtime and no story.
She is always in bed on time
