But it doesn't seem to be about making them equal to us, with the language they're using sometimes. It's almost as if it's the other way around. It's as if we (the majority) need to do away with everything we've been taught by science over hundreds, if not thousands, of years so that a tiny fraction of a minority can feel included. But that's just not how it works - it never will. Canada, as an example, is forcing it on people, telling the majority that there are legal implications for not using the correct language when addressing this specific minority. That's just pure insanity.
Using language as an analogy, it's like expecting all of England to start learning Cockney English to make the Cockneys feel more welcomed - and punishing people for not using a language that is completely alien to them. All you're effectively trying to do then is turn the minority into the majority.
Let's be honest here: it's not like there are lynch mobs going after trans people, or they're not allowed to vote, or attend certain schools, or are discriminated against in the workplace. There's no law against being trans. What "equal rights" don't they have exactly?
People are going to call spades spades - they're simply not going to change that. It's up to them to accept that they're the exception not the rule, and get on with it - it's not for us to start saying the spades are garden forks just because they think they are.