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Ja. Apparently he's double-devastated because he was going there to be with the love of his life. A Chinese chap he met in Cape Town, had a whirlwind romance with and was, according to him, the first guy he'd had unprotected sex with. Interesting though that the guy won't return any of his calls and emails. Ouch!
HOLY CRAP !!!
I don't see how he could've got it without having sex to be honest. Not surprising that he won't admit to it now though.Now that is exactly what is freaking me out.
I have now from this forum learnt that it is near impossible to contract it without having sex. My Brother is addament that he has never had sex
Now something needs to give, either he is lying or something else is not right.
I think that is why I'm stressing. if he can just say "Yes i got knobed" then I wouldn't worry so much
Its not as bad as one thinks. I don't have the numbers, but I heard a Now-and-5-years-ago comparison some time back and there was a mad drop. Like 20k->1k kind of drop. (Those #'s are not right, its just to illustrate the drop).I don't even want to know how much his medication is going to cost us
The options for HIV are pretty much needles, sex, blood/marrow transfusions and all the other bedroom varieties that don't count under sex. (Dunno whether its possible to get it via BJ, but that would explain the no sex claim)My Brother is addament that he has never had sex
Perhaps its not an area he feels comfortable being honest about....esp while he is 100% freaked out.if he can just say "Yes i got knobed" then I wouldn't worry so much
Cost for test at GP? Your thread has made me want to go now too. - No medical aid... whats it cost in cash - or is visiting the local clinic a viable or decent option - or are the tests from the chemist reliable? I don't think im anywhere near positive but i'd like a clean bill of health - as this thread shows things can sneak up on you.Morning Guys/Gals
Believe it or not, but I had a good night's sleep Passed out at about 21:00 and woke up at 05:00. I think Talking about it on here had some soothing effect. I would like to thank you guys once again. You good wishes and support is really wonderfull.
Now juust to get the test down at 11:30 today
I'm in a much better place regarding this issue now, all thanx to you guys.
I will post the result good or bad as soon as I get it, which would prob. only be next week..... Think I'll be able to survive the wait now