I feel really bad. Am I an @$$hole?

adelp

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Good for you letting her know.
They had to write a book (he’s just not that into you) to let girls get the code if you do not tell us.
So she is upset… better than wasting her time in the long run.
 

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Good for you letting her know.
They had to write a book (he’s just not that into you) to let girls get the code if you do not tell us.
So she is upset… better than wasting her time in the long run.
It just k*k making her feel so..

Goes to show, most men are no b@**@rds... Some are, yes.

:)
 

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She'll be over it.....
Like you said she is good looking so she'll be on a date quiet soon.
We are harder in that sense than men think.
 

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She'll be over it.....
Like you said she is good looking so she'll be on a date quiet soon.
We are harder in that sense than men think.
Yeah maybe set her up with one of your nicer/better mates that you knw will treat her right :)

It just k*k making her feel so..

Goes to show, most men are no b@**@rds... Some are, yes.

:)
And we men are softer than most of you ladies think ;)
 

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Yeah maybe set her up with one of your nicer/better mates that you knw will treat her right :)



And we men are softer than most of you ladies think ;)
Quite true.

:)

Us men can have somewhat a kaleidoscope of a personality...

Indiana Jones and Hugh Grant all in one...

We could go camping and hunting, yet relax by the fire reading Daniella Steele...

:D
 

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I feel really bad.

This is what happened:

For a while now I have been chatting to a (very nice) girl. So last night we met up and went on a blind date. The date went well, she is a very good, honest, caring person.
The date went on for a long time. We both enjoyed ourselves.

But here's the thing. I felt no "spark".

So this morning I thanked her for the date, and trying to be honest (whilst thoughtful), told her what I thought. (I didn't want to lead her on).

I also told her about the lack of spark etc. She sounded upset. I will get up right now and say I'm a "soft" person. So I reeaaly feel guilty, and now I don't know if what I did was right.
:(

Am I being an @$$hole? - I didn't mean to hurt her, she really is a good person, quite hot too.

What should I do? What should I have done? Was I right doing what I did?
Honesty is the best policy
 

Mephisto_Helix

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Quite true.

:)

Us men can have somewhat a kaleidoscope of a personality...

Indiana Jones and Hugh Grant all in one...

We could go camping and hunting, yet relax by the fire reading Daniella Steele...

:D
:sick: ... wtf is going on here :eek:
 

adelp

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Quite true.

:)

Us men can have somewhat a kaleidoscope of a personality...

Indiana Jones and Hugh Grant all in one...

We could go camping and hunting, yet relax by the fire reading Daniella Steele...

:D
:eek:
really??
Daniella???
:eek:
 

adelp

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I read absolutely anything and that woman just bores me to death!!!
 

DDV TECH

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Quite true.

:)

Us men can have somewhat a kaleidoscope of a personality...

Indiana Jones and Hugh Grant all in one...

We could go camping and hunting, yet relax by the fire reading Daniella Steele...

:D
I liked you a lot more before this post, not your best work thus far. Just for the record real men don’t read DS. :D
 

DJ...

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So what you're saying is she is unfortunate looking and not worthy of a meaningful overnight relationship. I'd never tell them that though. And never ever after one date FFS! Are you insane?
 

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We could go camping and hunting, yet relax by the fire reading Daniella Steele...
OK, proof that you are insane - ignore my previous question. Let me guess, you've watched Sandra Bullock movies that dont begin with the word Speed, and think Julia Roberts' smile is the highlight of any movie...:sick:

Please tell me you havent seen the yaya sisterhood rubbish though...
 

DDV TECH

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OK, proof that you are insane - ignore my previous question. Let me guess, you've watched Sandra Bullock movies that dont begin with the word Speed, and think Julia Roberts' smile is the highlight of any movie...:sick:

Please tell me you havent seen the yaya sisterhood rubbish though...
Hey that movie where they stole her identity wasn’t bad? Can't remember the name? But your spot on with the rest of it. :D
 
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