For a while now I have been chatting to a (very nice) girl. So last night we met up and went on a blind date. The date went well, she is a very good, honest, caring person.
The date went on for a long time. We both enjoyed ourselves.
But here's the thing. I felt no "spark".
So this morning I thanked her for the date, and trying to be honest (whilst thoughtful), told her what I thought. (I didn't want to lead her on).
I also told her about the lack of spark etc. She sounded upset. I will get up right now and say I'm a "soft" person. So I reeaaly feel guilty, and now I don't know if what I did was right.
Am I being an @$$hole? - I didn't mean to hurt her, she really is a good person, quite hot too.
What should I do? What should I have done? Was I right doing what I did?