I feel really bad. Am I an @$$hole?

iDenTiTy

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Just ask her out already man! Another few more days and you hit the friend boundary! Make your intentions clear form the outset, or you will die a virgin...
Somehow, I think people got the wrong impression of the type of guy I am...

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iDenTiTy

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Just ask her out already man! Another few more days and you hit the friend boundary! Make your intentions clear form the outset, or you will die a virgin...
I did.

I just can't see myself being involved in serious relationship with her...

Something is just "missing"....

This is a forum, so people can say what they like I suppose...
 

DJ...

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Oh no - friends it is then. Make sure you dont hit the friends stage without sampling the benefits first though...
 

Alan

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I did.

I just can't see myself being involved in serious relationship with her...

Something is just "missing"....

This is a forum, so people can say what they like I suppose...
PM me her name, number and address. I'll make her forget all about you :)
 

DJ...

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PM me her name, number and address. I'll make her forget all about you :)
Your rohypnol stash wont work this time Anal. She sounds like she needs something stronger - like a real man maybe...
 

Alan

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Your rohypnol stash wont work this time Anal. She sounds like she needs something stronger - like a real man maybe...
Real men don't pick up bugs from barracudas.
 

DJ...

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Real men don't pick up bugs from barracudas.
I didnt - I was poisoned. Besides, what would you know about real men in the first place? Did you invite one over to test your new rufie supplier...?
 
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Alan

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I didnt - I was poisoned. Besides, what would you know about real men in the first place? Did you invite on over to test your new rufie supplier...?
*must resist snide reply involving baracudas*

@ iDenTiTy

I don't see any PM's yet. You trying to help this woman or what
 

dablakmark8

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I feel really bad.

This is what happened:

For a while now I have been chatting to a (very nice) girl. So last night we met up and went on a blind date. The date went well, she is a very good, honest, caring person.
The date went on for a long time. We both enjoyed ourselves.

But here's the thing. I felt no "spark".

So this morning I thanked her for the date, and trying to be honest (whilst thoughtful), told her what I thought. (I didn't want to lead her on).

I also told her about the lack of spark etc. She sounded upset. I will get up right now and say I'm a "soft" person. So I reeaaly feel guilty, and now I don't know if what I did was right.
:(

Am I being an @$$hole? - I didn't mean to hurt her, she really is a good person, quite hot too.

What should I do? What should I have done? Was I right doing what I did?
that was a good decision.
 
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