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I just received a "Mephisto Helix and William" proposition.
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Ockie
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ShaunSA
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haha....serves you right for giving him your profile and not me.
I gave you mine and you didn't give me yours
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mmmm that is a difficult one to answer. I have never had a problem ... though I have had a a few cases where I get a very bad vibe from someone and I leave it at that. Once, a guy complimented me on my pics ... and I politely said thank you and he is very kind. He replied and went on a complete rampage. Went something like. "WTF!!!! TAHNK YOU? IS THAT ALL YOU ARE GOING TO SAY? YOU UNGRATEFULL LITTLE CNT!" . I just ignored it. I every now and again still get a PM from him asking to hook up with him. He must be fcking delusional.
I do think there are dangerous guys out there on these sites. Not many... but they are there I think. Whether ant_man with his leather chaps and leather jock strap + whip is one .... well....that I cant answer hahahaha.
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I gave you mine and you didn't give me yours
oh ... sorry....I am a bit of a scatter brain today. Will give now now.
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mmmm that is a difficult one to answer. I have never had a problem ... though I have had a a few cases where I get a very bad vibe from someone and I leave it at that. Once, a guy complimented me on my pics ... and I politely said thank you and he is very kind. He replied and went on a complete rampage. Went something like. "WTF!!!! TAHNK YOU? IS THAT ALL YOU ARE GOING TO SAY? YOU UNGRATEFULL LITTLE CNT!" . I just ignored it. I every now and again still get a PM from him asking to hook up with him. He must be fcking delusional.
I do think there are dangerous guys out there on these sites. Not many... but they are there I think. Whether ant_man with his leather chaps and leather jock strap + whip is one .... well....that I cant answer hahahaha.
I can write a book on the characters that I have stumbled across on MH.
You just need to be very careful, and this goes for any fcck site.
On the other hand I have met some really great guys and have become very good friends with one of them
The SO keeps telling me that it is dangerous but she is just very concerned for my safety and wellbeing.
My pics are all very bland compared to some of the guys on there, some of those pics even scare me.
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Ja...I have also become very good friends with a fck buddy from Cape Town that I met on MH. Also met my ex on there (still friends too) There is a lot of gravel you need to sift through to get to the little diamonds.
Maverick Jester
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mmmm that is a difficult one to answer. I have never had a problem ... though I have had a a few cases where I get a very bad vibe from someone and I leave it at that. Once, a guy complimented me on my pics ... and I politely said thank you and he is very kind. He replied and went on a complete rampage. Went something like. "WTF!!!! TAHNK YOU? IS THAT ALL YOU ARE GOING TO SAY? YOU UNGRATEFULL LITTLE CNT!" . I just ignored it. I every now and again still get a PM from him asking to hook up with him. He must be fcking delusional.
I do think there are dangerous guys out there on these sites. Not many... but they are there I think. Whether ant_man with his leather chaps and leather jock strap + whip is one .... well....that I cant answer hahahaha.
Sounds like the days that I used to trawl mig33... Suppose I have always had the thought at the back of my mind that there are some crazy rapist-types that are usually members, but that's everywhere anyway...
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So you go both ways and your SO is cool with it?
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Maverick Jester
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Off topic, but- how does this relationship work? Marriage without sexual intimacy?
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That is a very long story.
Been married for 16 years, been together for nearly 26 years, and only came out to the SO late last year.
She knows about my life and knows that I sleep with other guys.
One day I will post my whole life story as promised to Ockie.
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We still have sex.
The relationship currently is extremely complicated but we are working on it every day.
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Sh#t it feels like a need a front loader in order to sift through the cr#p
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Oh my hat. I somehow missunderstood then. I thought you came out as gay....not bi .My gosh....peoples relationships and the intricisies of it is fascinating.
I take my hat off to her. She sounds amazing.
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Currently I am bi as we are still having sex, but I regard myself as gay as I don't lust after other Chicks, sex wise.
Ockie she is my life and my only love.
I don't think I will ever love anybody as much as I love her.
She is one powerful and awesome Chick,
There isn't many people out there that would put up with my sh#t and past history.
Maverick Jester
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Wow... power to you brother... and to her, for standing by you and accepting you for who you are. Lucky man, actually...
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Thanks, it's been very difficult but the love we have for each other has seen us through many tough times.