I just received a "Mephisto Helix and William" proposition.

[ShaunSA]

Anyone else blown away by this couples story?????

That isn't quite the blowing I prefer but yeah kudos to the ants

And to Nick who has been quite forthcoming about his experiences.

 

[Grant]

So I can cook for you???????????

Hmm, you just reminded me, i have received instructions to make dinner.
Best I go forage around in the kitchen for a bit

 

[Ockie]

That isn't quite the blowing I prefer but yeah kudos to the ants

And to Nick who has been quite forthcoming about his experiences.

Ja definately. I wish everyone was as open as him. He is a interesting guy for sure. Tanks tanks nick.

 

[Maverick Jester]

Thanks, it's been very difficult but the love we have for each other has seen us through many tough times.

That's great to hear

 

[Maverick Jester]

Mr and mrs ant: the love that you have for each other is what everyone out there is looking for. The romantic in me is really just blown away by your dedication to one another, despite the situation... So thank you, for that...

/soppy rant over

 

[Ockie]

Ok...another question for the lovely couple. What if Mr Ant really likes a guy and feelings start to develop. From what I have read....Mr Ant still loves Mrs Ant ... and Mrs Ant him and they still enjoy a physical relationship also. Would Mrs Ant be ok with it if Mr Ant enters into some kind of relationship with another guy while being married to her still and sharing a bed?

I am asking this cause I saw him mentioning he is not sure if he could be in a LTR with a midget (I had to laugh) ... so that means that he is no one of those bi guys that can only love the wife and uses other guys purely for sex. So that got me thinking of how this would work?

If you guys dont want to answer or if you have not thought about it really and dont have a answer....just say hey. I am purely asking out of fascination and curiosity and interest. Dont wanna pry.

 

[Nick333]

That isn't quite the blowing I prefer but yeah kudos to the ants

And to Nick who has been quite forthcoming about his experiences.

Ja definately. I wish everyone was as open as him. He is a interesting guy for sure. Tanks tanks nick.

Only a pleasure. Any other, totally inappropriate questions you might have, don't be afraid to ask.

 

[Ockie]

Only a pleasure. Any other, totally inappropriate questions you might have, don't be afraid to ask.

Cut or uncut???

KIDDDING!!!!!!!

Again ..... thanks.

 

[Nick333]

That isn't quite the blowing I prefer but yeah kudos to the ants

And to Nick who has been quite forthcoming about his experiences.

Cut or uncut???

KIDDDING!!!!!!!

Again ..... thanks.

I have a question. That seems to be a fav question of gay guys. Do you think girls don't care as much or are they just to shy to ask?

 

[Ockie]

I have a question. That seems to be a fav question of gay guys. Do you think girls don't care as much or are they just to shy to ask?

Ja....it is a question asked a lot by gay men ... specially on the dating sites. I have only seen like 2 or three gay guys where uncut was a issue and they wanted cut ONLY! Many cut guys seek out uncut guys. Think they want it cause they dont have it? This is of course not true for everyone. Most men it does not really matter I think.

For girls I think it is a bigger issue in the sense of finding it sexually attractive or not. Not sure about the woman here in SA cause a lot of men are uncut ... but from what I have read on the net, in places like USA etc, the girls freak the fck out if they come accross a uncut one. It grosses them out or something. Could just be that in the US most men are cut ... so they dont see a uncut one all that often so to them a natural penis looks funky and weird I suppose. What is strange again is that the gay men in the US LOVES uncut!!! ... so different sexes and orientation .... COMPLETELY different attitude to the same thing. People are weird and wonderful.

 

[Nick333]

Ja....it is a question asked a lot by gay men ... specially on the dating sites. I have only seen like 2 or three gay guys where uncut was a issue and they wanted cut ONLY! Many cut guys seek out uncut guys. Think they want it cause they dont have it? This is of course not true for everyone. Most men it does not really matter I think.

For girls I think it is a bigger issue in the sense of finding it sexually attractive or not. Not sure about the woman here in SA cause a lot of men are uncut ... but from what I have read on the net, in places like USA etc, the girls freak the fck out if they come accross a uncut one. It grosses them out or something. Could just be that in the US most men are cut ... so they dont see a uncut one all that often so to them a natural penis looks funky and weird I suppose. What is strange again is that the gay men in the US LOVES uncut!!! ... so different sexes and orientation .... COMPLETELY different attitude to the same thing. People are weird and wonderful.

Ja, I used to phone sex an American chick. She was the first to ask me that question. When I said uncut (now you know ) she was like "er, ok". SA women either don't care or not enough to have a reaction either way.

 

[ShaunSA]

Personally the cut/uncut thing doesn't bug me.

I used to be uncut. Now I am cut. But that's a whole different thread

 

[ant_man]

Mr and mrs ant: the love that you have for each other is what everyone out there is looking for. The romantic in me is really just blown away by your dedication to one another, despite the situation... So thank you, for that...

/soppy rant over

Thanks very much.
Our love for each other is unfortunately our Achilles heel.

Only a pleasure. Any other, totally inappropriate questions you might have, don't be afraid to ask.

I might have one or two for you.

Cut or uncut???

KIDDDING!!!!!!!

Again ..... thanks.

 

[ant_man]

Personally the cut/uncut thing doesn't bug me.

I used to be uncut. Now I am cut. But that's a whole different thread

Noooooooooo, why did you do that

 

[Ockie]

Personally the cut/uncut thing doesn't bug me.

I used to be uncut. Now I am cut. But that's a whole different thread

/rubs hands together

Go start it right away!

 

[Ninja'd]

Personally the cut/uncut thing doesn't bug me.

I used to be uncut. Now I am cut. But that's a whole different thread

Ruined your chances with Ockie.

 

[Maverick Jester]

Personally the cut/uncut thing doesn't bug me.

I used to be uncut. Now I am cut. But that's a whole different thread

So why the change?

 

[Ockie]

Ruined your chances with Ockie.

rofl.

It is not such a big deal for me. Yes....I enjoy uncut and I am glad I am intact .... but it is not a big deal for me if somone else is cut. I have enough for both of us! ROFL!

 

[EMAM]

Ok...another question for the lovely couple. What if Mr Ant really likes a guy and feelings start to develop. From what I have read....Mr Ant still loves Mrs Ant ... and Mrs Ant him and they still enjoy a physical relationship also. Would Mrs Ant be ok with it if Mr Ant enters into some kind of relationship with another guy while being married to her still and sharing a bed?

I am asking this cause I saw him mentioning he is not sure if he could be in a LTR with a midget (I had to laugh) ... so that means that he is no one of those bi guys that can only love the wife and uses other guys purely for sex. So that got me thinking of how this would work?

If you guys dont want to answer or if you have not thought about it really and dont have a answer....just say hey. I am purely asking out of fascination and curiosity and interest. Dont wanna pry.

No prob about asking questions – we’re very open to it. Yup, you right, we still love each other and still enjoy a physical relationship but ideally Mr Ant would love to get into a LTR one day with a man but timing has not been on our side due to my illness. That is what was going to happen – he came out and then was going to move out and get on with his life but it didn’t work out like that – he chose to stay with me during this time, i never asked him to. I have seen the frustration from him and have told him, on numerous occasions, to go out and meet someone to develop a relationship with – I have no problem with this – but, as he says, he just doesn’t have the time or energy to have two relationships going at the same time. Oh, and by the way, the midget thing is a fetish, not an LTR scenario!!!! Yes, I am married to a weirdo!!!!

 

[Nick333]

I might have one or two for you.

Knock yourself out.