I just received a "Mephisto Helix and William" proposition.

[Ockie]

No prob about asking questions – we’re very open to it. Yup, you right, we still love each other and still enjoy a physical relationship but ideally Mr Ant would love to get into a LTR one day with a man but timing has not been on our side due to my illness. That is what was going to happen – he came out and then was going to move out and get on with his life but it didn’t work out like that – he chose to stay with me during this time, i never asked him to. I have seen the frustration from him and have told him, on numerous occasions, to go out and meet someone to develop a relationship with – I have no problem with this – but, as he says, he just doesn’t have the time or energy to have two relationships going at the same time. Oh, and by the way, the midget thing is a fetish, not an LTR scenario!!!! Yes, I am married to a weirdo!!!!

hahaha. You said that ... not me.

Heart warming is all I can say really.

 

[Grant]

No prob about asking questions – we’re very open to it. Yup, you right, we still love each other and still enjoy a physical relationship but ideally Mr Ant would love to get into a LTR one day with a man but timing has not been on our side due to my illness. That is what was going to happen – he came out and then was going to move out and get on with his life but it didn’t work out like that – he chose to stay with me during this time, i never asked him to. I have seen the frustration from him and have told him, on numerous occasions, to go out and meet someone to develop a relationship with – I have no problem with this – but, as he says, he just doesn’t have the time or energy to have two relationships going at the same time. Oh, and by the way, the midget thing is a fetish, not an LTR scenario!!!! Yes, I am married to a weirdo!!!!

I somehow suspect mr ant is quite happy & content with his relationship with you. If anything, a little man nookie on the side is all mr ant hungers for from time to time.
Oh, keep mr ant away from the race course - I suspect he could become a little socially awkward when in close proximity to jockeys.

 

[ant_man]

I somehow suspect mr ant is quite happy & content with his relationship with you. If anything, a little man nookie on the side is all mr ant hungers for from time to time.
Oh, keep mr ant away from the race course - I suspect he could become a little socially awkward when in close proximity to jockeys.

I wish it was that simple, I do have a desire to be with another guy, not in a LTR but just the company and enjoying the touch and feel.

Nookie on the side is all good and well but it gets to a stage that this isn't enough.

Some of those jockeys are very cute

 

[Ockie]

I wish it was that simple, I do have a desire to be with another guy, not in a LTR but just the company and enjoying the touch and feel.

Nookie on the side is all good and well but it gets to a stage that this isn't enough.

Some of those jockeys are very cute

So more like a intimate physical friendsip with a man ... not a live together LTR setup?

 

[Ockie]

Oh, keep mr ant away from the race course - I suspect he could become a little socially awkward when in close proximity to jockeys.

ja .... I can imagine him bouncing off the walls if let into the locker room @ the durban july!

 

[DTBA]

After reading this thread .... SCARRED for LIFE :wtf:

 

[ShaunSA]

After reading this thread .... SCARRED for LIFE :wtf:

Then you must live a very sheltered life. I suggest staying away from all media. It's bad for your health.

 

[EMAM]

I somehow suspect mr ant is quite happy & content with his relationship with you. If anything, a little man nookie on the side is all mr ant hungers for from time to time.
Oh, keep mr ant away from the race course - I suspect he could become a little socially awkward when in close proximity to jockeys.

Mr_ant is a tad confused at the moment, given the situation with me. One day he would love to be in a LTR with another man but he chooses not to do this at this moment in time. A little man nookie on the side is ok with me, if that's what he wants. A few years back we went to the J & B Met - now I understand why I couldn't find him for most of the day!!!!!!

 

[EMAM]

So more like a intimate physical friendsip with a man ... not a live together LTR setup?

one day Ockie, one day!

 

[EMAM]

Then you must live a very sheltered life. I suggest staying away from all media. It's bad for your health.

It's actually made our lives more exciting that it's EVER been!!!

 

[Ockie]

It's actually made our lives more exciting that it's EVER been!!!

Have you ever considered trying bi also or are you strickly hetero Mrs. Ant?

 

[EMAM]

Have you ever considered trying bi also or are you strickly hetero Mrs. Ant?

Bi has never appealed to me......mr_ant thinks I should try, but no thanks!

 

[Ockie]

Bi has never appealed to me......mr_ant thinks I should try, but no thanks!

If the idea does not do anything for you ... then chances are it wont in real life either. I was just wondering I do believe the Kinsey scale has merit ... and people like me and you simply are just on the extremes of that scale is all I think

One of the reasons I asked is because of your situation ... you might feel a bit more at ease with your own body with another woman. Was just a thought

 

[DTBA]

Then you must live a very sheltered life. I suggest staying away from all media. It's bad for your health.

The sad thing is I can't stop reading, had a good laugh.

 

[EMAM]

If the idea does not do anything for you ... then chances are it wont in real life either. I was just wondering I do believe the Kinsey scale has merit ... and people like me and you simply are just on the extremes of that scale is all I think

One of the reasons I asked is because of your situation ... you might feel a bit more at ease with your own body with another woman. Was just a thought

I understand what you are saying, but, even in my situation, I still need real male anatomy in my life

 

[Ockie]

I understand what you are saying, but, even in my situation, I still need real male anatomy in my life

Dont we all my

 

[ShaunSA]

I understand what you are saying, but, even in my situation, I still need real male anatomy in my life

 

[EMAM]

Dont we all my

+1 000 000

 

[Grant]

I understand what you are saying, but, even in my situation, I still need real male anatomy in my life

Have mr & mrs ant contemplated sharing the male anatomy of a third person together ?

 

[Ockie]

Have mr & mrs ant contemplated sharing the male anatomy of a third person together ?

I actually also asked that question earlier ... she is keen ... but he is hesitant. He has his reasons. Not sure on what page they answered that question now.