I just received a "Mephisto Helix and William" proposition.

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Everyone is different, some things just make you feel dirty while some things make you feel alive. There is nothing wrong with not wanting certain kinds of sex or relationships
 

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Everyone is different, some things just make you feel dirty while some things make you feel alive. There is nothing wrong with not wanting certain kinds of sex or relationships

That is true, but this aversion to seeing another man's penis in real life is cultural BS as far as I'm concerned. I used to have that same attitude but, really it's just a cock. I mean really, accidentally touching another guy while you're screwing his gf isn't going to make you gay and the sort of eye contact you're worried about isn't going to happen unless one of you wants it to.
I've been in hetero 3somes and contacts going to happen. Best not be uptight about that sort of thing is all I'm saying. It just ruins any intimacy. Although, I must admit not everyone is going to see a 3some as necessarily intimate in any way.
 

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Ok...so you have kissed a guy .... with tongue and everything. Did you enjoy it? If you did....then maybe you would enjoy having a 3some with another guy and a woman.

Was cool. But if the situation arises again I'll make sure to make out with a clean shaven dude.
 
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That is true, but this aversion to seeing another man's penis in real life is cultural BS as far as I'm concerned. I used to have that same attitude but, really it's just a cock. I mean really, accidentally touching another guy while you're screwing his gf isn't going to make you gay and the sort of eye contact you're worried about isn't going to happen unless one of you wants it to.
I've been in hetero 3somes and contacts going to happen. Best not be uptight about that sort of thing is all I'm saying. It just ruins any intimacy. Although, I must admit not everyone is going to see a 3some as necessarily intimate in any way.

Cocks are like bodies, some bodies are attractive, some aren't. The eye contact bit isn't about being gay, it's more emotional awkwardness i think, i think every guy fears that the person they love may not love them they same way and inviting another guy into the room, the wife or girlfriend may find this new guy more appealing or better.

people think threesomes are guys touching one another when most of the time it's just two guys pleasuring the same woman
 

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Was cool. But if the situation arises again I'll make to make out with a clean shaven dude.

haha. I like a bit of stubble...but it can be a problem if you are making out the whole night. I ended up with a big angry scab on my chin after such a night .... next morning my sister wanted to know WTF is on my chin. AAWWWWKWAAARDDD!!!!! :D
 

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Cocks are like bodies, some bodies are attractive, some aren't. The eye contact bit isn't about being gay, it's more emotional awkwardness i think, i think every guy fears that the person they love may not love them they same way and inviting another guy into the room, the wife or girlfriend may find this new guy more appealing or better.

people think threesomes are guys touching one another when most of the time it's just two guys pleasuring the same woman

Like I said, cultural BS. I think people can and should get over that sort of thing.
 

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If everyone really know what married guys get up to on the side :whistling:

Yip, very true.
For most of my life, I can safely say that I have had sex with more married guys than gay guys.

What I have decided to do is stay away from the married guys as I just don't feel it is right anymore, this is since I have come out to the SO.

The whacked thing is that some of the guys think that getting a BJ from a guy does not make them Bi, and I am not talking once off.

The reckon only if they have anal sex makes them gay/bi.
 

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haha. I like a bit of stubble...but it can be a problem if you are making out the whole night. I ended up with a big angry scab on my chin after such a night .... next morning my sister wanted to know WTF is on my chin. AAWWWWKWAAARDDD!!!!! :D

Stubble is the bees knees.
 

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A very funny thought just popped into my head and I just had to laugh. Two straight guys with a woman in a 3some ... the one guy wants to shoot on the womans boobs..... but pots the other guy on the mouth by accident instead. The other guy runs out of the room screaming and tearing at his face! bwhahahahaha.

anyway....was k@k funny in my head.
 

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A very funny thought just popped into my head and I just had to laugh. Two straight guys with a woman in a 3some ... the one guy wants to shoot on the womans boobs..... but pots the other guy on the mouth by accident instead. The other guy runs out of the room screaming and tearing at his face! bwhahahahaha.

anyway....was k@k funny in my head.

Lol. Nope, it is funny.
 

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A very funny thought just popped into my head and I just had to laugh. Two straight guys with a woman in a 3some ... the one guy wants to shoot on the womans boobs..... but pots the other guy on the mouth by accident instead. The other guy runs out of the room screaming and tearing at his face! bwhahahahaha.

anyway....was k@k funny in my head.

Twisted Puppy you are. :D
 

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The whacked thing is that some of the guys think that getting a BJ from a guy does not make them Bi, and I am not talking once off.

The reckon only if they have anal sex makes them gay/bi.

It obviously does but, I know where they're coming from. I just think of myself as not averse to sexual contact with other guys.
 

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Twisted Puppy you are. :D

hehe.

I just remembered. There is actually a very nice movie about this "devils 3some" as the guys here calls it. I think the movie is called 3some or threesome or three some. It starts one of the baldwin brothers also as one of the guys. It is a very old movie....I watched it loooooooong ago .... but it is a very nice movie and deals with all the emotions etc.


EDIT: found the link:

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0111418/


220px-Threesome_ver1.jpg


tumblr_m6hun84mGO1qdh0yeo1_1280.jpg
 
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It obviously does but, I know where they're coming from. I just think of myself as not averse to sexual contact with other guys.

but what would you classify as sexual contact meneer? brief touch of penises in a 3 way? light touch of another guys bum by accident in a 3 way? Or a bj?
 

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It obviously does but, I know where they're coming from. I just think of myself as not averse to sexual contact with other guys.

Its like guys who only watch gay porn but don't have any physical contact with guys.

I have a buddy who will only have cam sex with guys, but he does not regard himself as Bi, he says he is heterosexual.

hehe.

I just remembered. There is actually a very nice movie about this "devils 3some" as the guys here calls it. I think the movie is called 3some or threesome or three some. It starts one of the baldwin brothers also as one of the guys. It is a very old movie....I watched it loooooooong ago .... but it is a very nice movie and deals with all the emotions etc.


EDIT: found the link:

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0111418/


220px-Threesome_ver1.jpg


tumblr_m6hun84mGO1qdh0yeo1_1280.jpg

You a star. Going to DL and give it a watch, should be interesting.
 

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Its like guys who only watch gay porn but don't have any physical contact with guys.

I have a buddy who will only have cam sex with guys, but he does not regard himself as Bi, he says he is heterosexual.

don't you think it's important for people to define their own sexuality? i mean i can pose nude on gaywhores.poro or whatever site, i can also experiment with guys because i can't knock it until i've tried it, but if i see myself as heterosexual then surely that must mean that i've made up my mind on my sexuality?
 

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don't you think it's important for people to define their own sexuality? i mean i can pose nude on gaywhores.poro or whatever site, i can also experiment with guys because i can't knock it until i've tried it, but if i see myself as heterosexual then surely that must mean that i've made up my mind on my sexuality?

THEY want everyone to be Bi :p
 

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THEY want everyone to be Bi :p

there is no doubt that some people face denial, you even get transgender people being extremely homophobic, but if I kiss Abzo it doesn't make me gay, how i define myself and my sexuality should make me gay, just as it makes me straight. i wouldn't mind flirting with somebody who is gay either, so long as they understand that i want something out of sex and that they cannot fulfill it
 
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