I just received a "Mephisto Helix and William" proposition.

[Ockie]

THEY want everyone to be Bi

No...I dont....cause then my fantasie of getting a totally straight guy po$s drunk and then making him scream with delight will never ever come true if all the men are bi or gay.

 

[Maverick Jester]

there is no doubt that some people face denial, you even get transgender people being extremely homophobic, but if I kiss Abzo it doesn't make me gay, how i define myself and my sexuality should make me gay, just as it makes me straight. i wouldn't mind flirting with somebody who is gay either, so long as they understand that i want something out of sex and that they cannot fulfill it

Suppose the problem is the societal boxing of an aspect of human psychology that is for the most part, a moving target...

 

[azbob]

... but if I kiss Abzo it doesn't make me gay..

If I kiss you back I probably am Bi. If I throw up in your mouth, i'm not.

 

[STS]

Suppose the problem is the societal boxing of an aspect of human psychology that is for the most part, a moving target...

like Nick said, I don't see the point to labels. we are all unique in our sexuality and all crave certain things. while some enjoy having their way with married men, i enjoy locking my women in a cabin in the woods and having my way with them anytime the wife is out of the country

jokes aside, there is no reason for people to be homophobic or insecure in their sexuality, but some things just don't appeal to other people. sexuality is too complex

 

[STS]

If I kiss you back I probably am Bi. If I throw up in your mouth, i'm not.

anything i say from this point would just get deleted, so let's leave it here

 

[Rocket Raccoon]

No...I dont....cause then my fantasie of getting a totally straight guy po$s drunk and then making him scream with delight will never ever come true if all the men are bi or gay.

 

[STS]

If I kiss you back I probably am Bi. If I throw up in your mouth, i'm not.

to add more to this, it's like you doing Ramadan once and claiming you're muslim, or praying for one month and claiming you're a christian. we as people define ourselves and how people see us, we use labels to establish niches and to find targets. if i say i am "gay", i immediately attract people that also find comfort in that word. there are labels for everything. when searching for porn or sexual partners, labels become important to set guidelines and expectations.

i could have had sex with plenty of guys in the past, but if i prefer sex with females, i put straight on my dating profile and i am seeking a relationship with women, then as far as i define myself, i am straight

 

[ant_man]

don't you think it's important for people to define their own sexuality? i mean i can pose nude on gaywhores.poro or whatever site, i can also experiment with guys because i can't knock it until i've tried it, but if i see myself as heterosexual then surely that must mean that i've made up my mind on my sexuality?

That is the old age debate.

I am all for experimenting and exploring ones sexuality, but for defining purposes where is the border between, hetro/bi/gay.

The reason I brought it up is that some of these guys regard being Gay as wrong and not normal, but yet they have no problem getting a BJ from a guy.

Also they have wives, they are cheating.

They reckon that if it's with another guy it's not cheating, that is denial in its purest form, hell I was also like that until I finally realised that any sexual contact with another is cheating regardless of the gender.

 

[STS]

That is the old age debate.

I am all for experimenting and exploring ones sexuality, but for defining purposes where is the border between, hetro/bi/gay.

The reason I brought it up is that some of these guys regard being Gay as wrong and not normal, but yet they have no problem getting a BJ from a guy.

Also they have wives, they are cheating.

They reckon that if it's with another guy it's not cheating, that is denial in its purest form, hell I was also like that until I finally realised that any sexual contact with another is cheating regardless of the gender.

perhaps they think it is more sympathetic if they're caught with another man than with another woman?

 

[ant_man]

perhaps they think it is more sympathetic if they're caught with another man than with another woman?

Nope not at all, they seriously think that they are not cheating.

In my instance my SO took the news that I am Gay and have been screwing around all our married life just has hard as if I was screwing other woman.

 

[Rocket Raccoon]

Nope not at all, they seriously think that they are not cheating.

In my instance my SO took the news that I am Gay and have been screwing around all our married life just has hard as if I was screwing other woman.

Trapped in the closet parts 2 & 3.

 

[ant_man]

to add more to this, it's like you doing Ramadan once and claiming you're muslim, or praying for one month and claiming you're a christian. we as people define ourselves and how people see us, we use labels to establish niches and to find targets. if i say i am "gay", i immediately attract people that also find comfort in that word. there are labels for everything. when searching for porn or sexual partners, labels become important to set guidelines and expectations.

i could have had sex with plenty of guys in the past, but if i prefer sex with females, i put straight on my dating profile and i am seeking a relationship with women, then as far as i define myself, i am straight

Yes you are very correct on saying this but what would happen one day when you settle down, would you ever tell your SO that you have slept with guys Before?

 

[STS]

Yes you are very correct on saying this but what would happen one day when you settle down, would you ever tell your SO that you have slept with guys Before?

absolutely, but we have to ask how that defines us now

 

[ant_man]

absolutely, but we have to ask how that defines us now

It doesn't define us at all and it shouldn't.

What I do believe in is being open and honest with our loved ones.

 

[Ockie]

but what would you classify as sexual contact meneer? brief touch of penises in a 3 way? light touch of another guys bum by accident in a 3 way? Or a bj?

@Nick
Tsy biets! Answer me!

 

[Nick333]

@Nick
Tsy biets! Answer me!

Patience ffs.I'm working and a bit hung over. Let's just say my inclinations run a bit stronger than an accidental junk bump. I've never sucked a cock or fccked a guy but, when you're sandwiching a chick one might grope whatever is in convenient groping range. Also, it can feel pretty good giving a nice hard cock a bit of a squeeze if yours is otherwise engaged.

 

[Ninja'd]

Also, it can feel pretty good giving a nice hard cock a bit of a squeeze if yours is otherwise engaged.

Manually shifting gears

 

[ShaunSA]

Patience ffs.I'm working and a bit hung over. Let's just say my inclinations run a bit stronger than an accidental junk bump. I've never sucked a cock or fccked a guy but, when you're sandwiching a chick one might grope whatever is in convenient groping range. Also, it can feel pretty good giving a nice hard cock a bit of a squeeze if yours is otherwise engaged.

Ever been blown by a guy?

 

[SoulTax]

woah, I really should have read the whole thread instead of doing page 1 and then straight to 7. This **** escalated quickly.

 

[Nick333]

Ever been blown by a guy?

Yep. Guys do have a natural talent for it. Which is not to say that some chicks aren't just as good.