I just received a "Mephisto Helix and William" proposition.

[Ockie]

I had a big gay dude invite me to "come party" with him and his partner once. He was relentless. I said "thanks, but you know I'm not gay". "He was like so? Just come hang out we've got some coke and booze etc". I was like " there is no way that's not going to end with you trying to fcck me". He shrugged and kept on asking. It started to feel a bit rapey tbh. Can't say I'm very psychologically harmed about it though.

I dont like people like that. No means no....even if you were gay. I went to a "friend" for a get together. He had some of his straight friends there and gay friends. We jaccuzi'd and it was cool .. some were naked some were not etc. Anyway ... my jeans were on the bar stool and I was chatting to the wife of the one guy. One of the guys then comes to me and says they going upstairs and I must come with. I decline cause I knew what was gonna go down and I did not feel like it. Anyway....I stayed and chatted with the wife a while longer and then wanted to leave. I then find out that they took my pants with them to the room ... I suppose to force me to come up. Anyway....when I went to go fetch it ... they were all passed out on the bed already. Dont think I missed all that much hahaha. But my point is....dont force someone ... if they dont want to then just leave it at that.

 

[Ockie]

Reminds me of the time I locked myself inside the bathroom to get away from another guy. He kept on nagging me to do it so I said f*** it and slept in the bath.

I am sorry....I know it is not cool or funny ... but I could not help but chuckle just a little bit. Shame man.

 

[R13...]

Reminds me of the time I locked myself inside the bathroom to get away from another guy. He kept on nagging me to do it so I said f*** it and slept in the bath.

In varsity a friend of ours told us about how he went out to visit with some guys, 3 of them. Turned out two were a couple and he had been passed on to the other guy without being told so when they went to bed all naive, the other 2 share a bed and room no problem just convenience and he shares with the other guy thinking nothing of it. In the middle of the night the other guy starts to get all touchy and kissy and he too spent the rest of the night in the lounge and couldn't go back to sleep that's how **** scared he was.

He had no idea the guys were gay.

 

[STS]

Yes, but those are different things now

people have different thresholds i can have sex with anyone but i can't be in a relationship, some people can be in relationships but gawk at the sight of cock

 

[Nick333]

I dont like people like that. No means no....even if you were gay. I went to a "friend" for a get together. He had some of his straight friends there and gay friends. We jaccuzi'd and it was cool .. some were naked some were not etc. Anyway ... my jeans were on the bar stool and I was chatting to the wife of the one guy. One of the guys then comes to me and says they going upstairs and I must come with. I decline cause I knew what was gonna go down and I did not feel like it. Anyway....I stayed and chatted with the wife a while longer and then wanted to leave. I then find out that they took my pants with them to the room ... I suppose to force me to come up. Anyway....when I went to go fetch it ... they were all passed out on the bed already. Dont think I missed all that much hahaha. But my point is....dont force someone ... if they dont want to then just leave it at that.

Yep, some guys can be *********s.

 

[ShaunSA]

I have to admit with all the guys willing to put out I have never felt the need to pressure anyone who was unwilling into anything.

Oh and to the "straight" guys bitching about gay guys making passes at you stop giving off the vibe

 

[STS]

I have to admit with all the guys willing to put out I have never felt the need to pressure anyone who was unwilling into anything.

Oh and to the "straight" guys bitching about gay guys making passes at you stop giving off the vibe

i can't help it i'm so good looking

edit: or they're that desperate

 

[Ockie]

Yep, some guys can be *********s.

Nick...sorry to ask again... but I think you missed that part of the question. I am genuinly interested ... and a litle fascinated by these things. So....you enjoy getting a BJ from a guy.... but dont want to give another guy a BJ. Is there a reason why? Does the idea of giving it put you off? Is it a mental thing or a physical repulsion of not wanting it in your mouth?

Sorry....I know it is a tad off topic....but it fascinates me.

 

[Ninja'd]

i can't help it i'm so good looking

 

[Maverick Jester]

I had a big gay dude invite me to "come party" with him and his partner once. He was relentless. I said "thanks, but you know I'm not gay". "He was like so? Just come hang out we've got some coke and booze etc". I was like " there is no way that's not going to end with you trying to fcck me". He shrugged and kept on asking. It started to feel a bit rapey tbh. Can't say I'm very psychologically harmed about it though.

Have to wonder though- would it have left the same impression on you if it were a girl asking?

Reminds me of the time I locked myself inside the bathroom to get away from another guy. He kept on nagging me to do it so I said f*** it and slept in the bath.

:wtf: damn bro...

people have different thresholds i can have sex with anyone but i can't be in a relationship, some people can be in relationships but gawk at the sight of cock

Sure, totally agree with that. But that wouldn't necessarily affect the psychology behind their sexuality unless they were highly insecure with it... then again, I suppose that defining one's sexuality using a closeted set of criteria is not my favourite way of doing things.

 

[ant_man]

I dont like people like that. No means no....even if you were gay. I went to a "friend" for a get together. He had some of his straight friends there and gay friends. We jaccuzi'd and it was cool .. some were naked some were not etc. Anyway ... my jeans were on the bar stool and I was chatting to the wife of the one guy. One of the guys then comes to me and says they going upstairs and I must come with. I decline cause I knew what was gonna go down and I did not feel like it. Anyway....I stayed and chatted with the wife a while longer and then wanted to leave. I then find out that they took my pants with them to the room ... I suppose to force me to come up. Anyway....when I went to go fetch it ... they were all passed out on the bed already. Dont think I missed all that much hahaha. But my point is....dont force someone ... if they dont want to then just leave it at that.

I have been in many situations where after having sex the guy decides that the fun isn't over.
He precedes to start forcing me to allow him to have sex with me.
The short story is that I push him off and place a few strategic kicks to the groin area.

I was scared sh#tless and from then on I now know what people must go through when they are violated, It is the worst feeling in the world

Some guys just cant take no as the final answer.

 

[Ockie]

I have been in many situations where after having sex the guy decides that the fun isn't over.
He precedes to start forcing me to allow him to have sex with me.
The short story is that I push him off and place a few strategic kicks to the groin area.

I was scared sh#tless and from then on I now know what people must go through when they are violated, It is the worst feeling in the world

Some guys just cant take no as the final answer.

Yikes. Dem gays...they are gevaarlik ek se!

 

[Maverick Jester]

Yikes. Us gays...we are gevaarlik ek se!

FTFY

 

[Ockie]

FTFY

Nah....only thing you need to fear from me is I like to bite. Well not bite ... but nibble ... sometimes if I am into it I have bitten ... but that seldom happens that hurt someone.

 

[Ninja'd]

Yikes. Dem gays...they are gevaarlik ek se!

I've been saying this about Die Pienk Gevaar.

 

[Maverick Jester]

Nah....only thing you need to fear from me is I like to bite. Well not bite ... but nibble ... sometimes if I am into it I have bitten ... but that seldom happens that hurt someone.

If it doesn't hurt, then what's the point...?

 

[Ockie]

If it doesn't hurt, then what's the point...?

Because it feels nice. .... specially biting a bum.

 

[Ockie]

....wonder if Nick saw my question.

 

[Maverick Jester]

Because it feels nice. .... specially biting a bum.

Yeah, wouldn't want it to hurt there...

 

[Nick333]

Nick...sorry to ask again... but I think you missed that part of the question. I am genuinly interested ... and a litle fascinated by these things. So....you enjoy getting a BJ from a guy.... but dont want to give another guy a BJ. Is there a reason why? Does the idea of giving it put you off? Is it a mental thing or a physical repulsion of not wanting it in your mouth?

Sorry....I know it is a tad off topic....but it fascinates me.

I dunno really. It seems like a big step to me. Probably just a bit of a hang up.