In need of some dating advice?

fiber_guy said:
Im new to the dating scene and never had a gf before.
My sister found out that I like her friend and told her about it. She kind of blushed, or at least that’s how my sister described it. Yesterday, we all went out, and she left the group to come watch my pool match on the other side of the bar, which made me feel special. I know it sounds corny, but as the night went on, we chilled together and had a nice time. Also she's 18 and im 20 could that work?
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You're off to a good start! If she came over to watch your match, it's a definite sign she's into you. The age gap isn't a big deal either, it's more about how you vibe together.
Since you're new to dating, things can feel a bit tricky. I recommend you read this article, which can help you understand relationships better, especially when you're not sure what to do next. It could be worth checking out.
 
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fiber_guy said:
She ****ing cheated on me bro so none of this matters anymore. Really weird how things work out but yeah i loved her while it lasted.
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Sorry to hear that dude. I know many guys have similar stories, myself included. Don’t give up hope, True love is waiting for you.
 
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Puk said:
You're off to a good start! If she came over to watch your match, it's a definite sign she's into you. The age gap isn't a big deal either, it's more about how you vibe together.
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I am so glad that over the 12 years you have been a member people have only been subjected to 234 instances of drivel
 
fiber_guy said:
She ****ing cheated on me bro so none of this matters anymore. Really weird how things work out but yeah i loved her while it lasted.
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I’m sorry you had to experience that. On the positive side, you were lucky to have that first love experience with someone who liked you back. You’d be surprised how often first loves are unrequited.
As short lived as it was.. I’m sure it was amazing in the beginning.
Something that I’ve learned, with time, is to never regret love… to enjoy it while it lasts and allow yourself to move on when it’s run its course.
It certainly gives life a certain special magic when you’re in the middle of it!
Don’t be afraid to try again.
I’ve found I mostly regret the risks I didn’t take than the ones I have taken and lost.
 
Lesson I learnt when in my late teens early twenties, chick's around that age group are unreliable and unpredictable.

Probably 80 percent of them are just jumping from one interest or excitement to the next. Short attention spans and jumping at whatever fad comes along. They also don't like to think for themselves and follow what their friends are doing.

It's a learning curve we all go through and we all had our share of heart ache. Looking back it was fun but can see now none of those relationships would of gone anywhere.
 
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